debodun
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- way upstate in New York, USA
is a reasonable time to wait for someone to answer their doorbell?
Whoa! Wait a minute.I ring, wait two minutes, repeat. If nobody answers after all that, I throw a rock through their window for wasting my time.
I ring, wait two minutes, repeat. If nobody answers after all that, I throw a rock through their window for wasting my time.
We always answer the doorbell, though we don't necessarily open the door. About 10 feet from our front door is a 12 foot high bolted gate, giving plenty of space between us and the person ringing the bell. We also can look through a side glass to see who's there. (An electric buzzer disengages the gate's lock when we want to let someone in.)
LAPD and many other police departments strongly advise folks to answer front doors to show the home is occupied. Note, they do not advise opening the door to strangers, but recommend proving you are home by calling through the door or window.
We now have only a pipsqueak of a dog, but until a couple of years ago we also had a 90 lb. Shepherd/Lab/Golden mix who was actually gentle but appeared quite ferocious. Sometimes I'd let her out ahead three seconds of me when strangers would ring the bell, ignoring the "No Solicitors" sign. She'd rush the gate with big barks and plenty of teeth.
I'm here to tell you, those guys were halfway to the sidewalk before I got outside.I'd apologize and act like I had to drag her into the house, implying that she was a bit vicious to strangers and very difficult to control. Figured it was a good to send that message in case these folks were nogoodniks casing the neighborhood.
You know some intelligent people. I'm behind a closed security gate. But when I sometimes have to leave the gate open, I also won't open the door unless I know who's there. And if I have to open the door (Gas Co, DWP, company, etc.) I have a concealed weapon on me, & if they aren't who they say they are.....they'll end up with holes they weren't born with. There are plenty of fake uniforms in use.And give them a bit more time if they are disabled, and/or call ahead to let them know you are coming. I know several people (frequently including me) who do not answer the door if they do not know is there.
Well, best of luck to you. Opening the door "a crack" is almost the same as opening it completely. Even a small man can easily open it the rest of the way with his shoulder & you'd likely be injured if you were standing near it. If you can't communicate through the door, it's worth it to install one of those little windows so you can hear each other.If Im in and not expecting anyone I peep out of my window to suss out who it is. If its a stranger I feel apprehensive and open the the door a crack and its on a short chain and get an identity.
I think two rings is ample time to answer an door but depends where you are....betcha bottom $ it's while you are on the loo or somewhere awkward![]()
Well, best of luck to you. Opening the door "a crack" is almost the same as opening it completely. Even a small man can easily open it the rest of the way with his shoulder & you'd likely be injured if you were standing near it. If you can't communicate through the door, it's worth it to install one of those little windows so you can hear each other.
Guess you don’t get many guests then.My staff answers all doors. Then they gently come into my area and inform me who has arrived and whether I am accepting guests. I make the guests wait approximately 20 minutes, then I have the staff dismiss them.