Sticking Your Foot in Your Mouth

Hmm. I've become more adept at appropriate communication the older I've gotten. I don't usually stumble over the right thing to say. I sometimes lose the exact right word, but I have a decent enough vocabulary that most often I can quickly substitute another one.

You all know what a motormouth I am 😂 which has been the case all my life! In my earlier days my words would tumble out, and trip all over themselves while I tried to get everything said. These days I've learned to take my time, sometimes even stating "I'm going to think about that a bit" or "give me a minute while I figure out how to respond" or the like.

And I'm VERY stubborn when someone tries to press me to respond immediately. Nope. I'm going to take all the time I need!
 
Hmm. I've become more adept at appropriate communication the older I've gotten. I don't usually stumble over the right thing to say. I sometimes lose the exact right word, but I have a decent enough vocabulary that most often I can quickly substitute another one.

You all know what a motormouth I am 😂 which has been the case all my life! In my earlier days my words would tumble out, and trip all over themselves while I tried to get everything said. These days I've learned to take my time, sometimes even stating "I'm going to think about that a bit" or "give me a minute while I figure out how to respond" or the like.

And I'm VERY stubborn when someone tries to press me to respond immediately. Nope. I'm going to take all the time I need!

Ronni. I really like your idea. For some reason I push myself too much. I Expect too much from myself. Quite often I feel pressured to answer whether from myself or others, I really like the idea of letting others know you need time to think about it.

Time. That’s what I need and that I can be in control of. Nobody can push us for answers unless we are ready. It’s such simple advice but something I’d genuinely forgotten about.

This is just what I needed to read Ronni.
Thank you. It’s simple but brilliant. 🥰
 
So this is more common than I realized. Not that I thought everyone else was saying the perfect thing at any point in time. I just didn’t realize that so many people feel the same way.

That’s interesting. Either all of you are as crazier than I assumed OR I’m more normal than I thought 🤔

LMAO!!! 😱....🤣😂🤣
 
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