Are you an Introvert or Extrovert?

Ladybj said:
My introvert hubby and I went out to dinner and had a GREAT time!!! We had good food and great conversation. He really opened up a bit..... WOW. I feel one of the keys is accepting him as he is and another key, working on my inner self. COMMUNICATION is definitely key in any relationship.
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You got that right. The wisest thing you can do is to accept people like they are and don't try to change them. Its certainly not my job to change anyone else...let alone my hub! Good for you. We always have a good time when we go out and have for years. To know these introverts is to love them!
 

Liberty said:
You got that right. The wisest thing you can do is to accept people like they are and don't try to change them. Its certainly not my job to change anyone else...let alone my hub! Good for you. We always have a good time when we go out and have for years. To know these introverts is to love them!
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Liberty...sooooo true. To know an introvert is to love them. Same here, hubby and I always enjoy ourselves when we go out. Being with me for 35 years, part of my extrovertness rubbed off on him...lol.
 
My Hubby was Intro and Extroverted a split personality and the attraction for me was both sides of his personality. He quietened me down and excited me at the same time
 

CrackerJack said:
My Hubby was Intro and Extroverted a split personality and the attraction for me was both sides of his personality. He quietened me down and excited me at the same time
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I think that's one of the things my hubby love about me.. I am split. I understand when he needs his alone time and he allow me my alone time. My hubby quiet me down a bit as well just a WEE bit...lol, however, he gets a kick out of my extrovert personality. We have learned to balance each out to some degree...mainly because we are not trying to change each other.. which is almost impossible unless the person wants to change.
 
Gary O' said:
'Are you an Introvert or Extrovert?'

Dunno

Others will have to say

Could give a rip less what my label is

I do know I'm not much of a listener when somebody is full of themselves
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I get it Gary O. However, it has helped me/my marriage to learn my hubby personality type. He probably don't give a rip less either..lol We tend to give up on what we don't understand.
 
Ladybj said:
However, it has helped me/my marriage to learn my hubby personality type
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Oh, I get that too.
I do admire folks that know what they're all about.

As for self analysis, I don't think I've given up, I jus' have no up to give.

As for others, I have about 10-15 minutes to hear someone expound on themselves, then my good ear matches the other one.
That's when I point to something....and while they're looking.....I walk the other way

But
put a good single malt in my hand, and I'll dedicate as much time as it lasts
 

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