I heard that there were problems with the latest one Ruthanne,
but since it first came out in October I would have expected
all the defects to be sorted by now.
It looks like you can only delay the installation.
What you could do if the trouble just started in the last couple
of days, you could "System Restore", to a date before you
started getting problems, then stall the installation.
Check the ones that are there first, in the llittle window above
the start button at the bottom left of your screen, type Updates
at the top of the choices you will see "View Installed Updates",
the last Microsoft one that I have is 3rd October 2019, so you
must have a newer one, if you have, the last one is the problem
one.
Anyway, to restore your computer to the day before that last
update, you type in the little window above the start button:
Windows Administrative Tools,
the choice you will get is above you want the top one that has
a little gear wheel with it, click that one and a larger white window
opens, you now click:
System Configuration,
another smaller window opens, go to Tools at the top right and
click, scroll all the way down to the bottom,
System Restore
is the very bottom choice, click that one and follow instructions,
once it starts you must let it run, this may take an hour or more
depending what you have in you machine, when I finishes, you
can check to see if the faulty update has gone.
Anything that you installed after the date you went back to will not
be there, but all your pictures and files will be, only programs will
not be there.
Good luck.
Mike.