debodun
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- way upstate in New York, USA
I don't think it's a matter of "guts." I would think ahead before talking to such neighbors. They already know about the mess, since they're the ones who made it & if they cared, they wouldn't have made it, so talking to them wouldn't be productive. It would be like telling someone who is 200 lbs. overweight that they are too fat.I DO have a neighbor like that! I'm waiting until the pandemic is over and I'll go talk to them. I could go to the city and complain and they would have to clean it up or pay a fine but I don't want to do that. If you have a problem with your neighbor, you should have the guts to knock on their door and address it.
The chicken wire fence is mine and his junk is right up against it. I did talk to that guy and he said the only way the junk would be gone is if I paid for the removal. He is a notorius tightward - my cousin worked for him and he was always screwing with paying his employees. Most of it doesn't bother me except for the tires - I think that is illegal because of mosquitoes (West Nile virus carriers). The other yard is scrap leftovers from building a garage, but it's been there 6 months. If a wind storm came up, I am concerned that it could blow that lumber all over. Here's the tire pile from a different angle:If that is the fence line , then yes.

Completely agree. Confronting neighbours is never a good idea.I don't think it's a matter of "guts." I would think ahead before talking to such neighbors. They already know about the mess, since they're the ones who made it & if they cared, they wouldn't have made it, so talking to them wouldn't be productive. It would be like telling someone who is 200 lbs. overweight that they are too fat.
And they're likely to tell you to "Get lost," or "MYOB," or start harassing you. Unless you're planning to move soon, you might open a big can of worms & you may regret it.
An anonymous call to the city would be wiser.
Nope, upstate NY. Don't they have trash ordinances in Kansas?~wonders if Deb lives in KS~
that's what most people's yards look like here.
Nope, upstate NY. Don't they have trash ordinances in Kansas?
Why not lean over the fence and go "HEY, YOU! Clean up your yard!"?To have neighbors on both sides of your property have piles of junk in their yards.
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Why not lean over the fence and go "HEY, YOU! Clean up your yard!"?
I agree with what most others said, though- I'd be more concerned about health/safety than the appearance, as anything could be making its home underneath all that stuff.
he may have thought you were just being nosy. around here i have to watch my trash. we have homeless and other types that like going through people's garbage. i don't like that.