grahamg
Old codger
- Location
- South of Manchester, UK
Two friends of mine left their wives for other women. Both were my boss either before or after this took place, and in one case I knew the first wife, (having offered her employment where I was working, at the request of my friend), and knew the second wife a little, and they are still together twenty odd years on with a second family getting grown up now. The other guy I only knew his second wife, and you could say "she broke up the marriage", but I do believe what the man said, that though he had two lovely daughters with his first wife, he was simply bored with the marriage, whilst the next lady was a definite challenge!.
The first man I mentioned I've had a lot to do with and can testify that his first wife, although lovely too, she was definitely on the boring side, whilst his second wife is a challenge from the little I know of her, but they seem happy and fulfilled too. Neither man can I condemn, much as I'm against he relaxation of rules about divorce, because I do believe staying with their first wives wouldn't have ended well, if it had been attempted.
A brother in law of mine who wanted to leave one of my sisters twenty five years ago, and maybe had an affair so could have left to be with another woman, drunk himself to death fifteen years later, (and maybe staying with his marriage played a part in this?).
Sorry, rambling post and all that, but a subject maybe worthy of scrutiny(?). .
The first man I mentioned I've had a lot to do with and can testify that his first wife, although lovely too, she was definitely on the boring side, whilst his second wife is a challenge from the little I know of her, but they seem happy and fulfilled too. Neither man can I condemn, much as I'm against he relaxation of rules about divorce, because I do believe staying with their first wives wouldn't have ended well, if it had been attempted.
A brother in law of mine who wanted to leave one of my sisters twenty five years ago, and maybe had an affair so could have left to be with another woman, drunk himself to death fifteen years later, (and maybe staying with his marriage played a part in this?).
Sorry, rambling post and all that, but a subject maybe worthy of scrutiny(?). .
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