He Said Her Body Looked Too Old and Wrinkled to Make Love to Her

OMG, the shallowness of this man just beggars belief. What goes around comes around, and one day he will have a 'young thing' tell him just how repulsed she is by his body..
 
QuickSilver said:
Yes.... don't you believe there are nice guys on dating sites? Don't nice guys want to meet nice women too?
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Do you believe there are nice men on dating sites?...1 in 8 women here..using dating sites have been date raped..

The thing that amuses me is the description of the men..

''young at heart..athletic..working..own house..own car..financially buoyant..good sense of humour..enjoys..art..foreign travel..would like to meet a loving lady, to spend the rest of my life with..

If he was that good?..would he have to advertise????
 
Yes.. I KNOW there are nice men on dating sites.. Not all men are rapists and cads. Where do people go to meet others looking to have a relationship.. Church? The grocery store? Seriously, after a certain age, it's hard to meet people. I think dating sites fill this need. I don't understand the stigma?
 
QuickSilver said:
Yes.... don't you believe there are nice guys on dating sites? Don't nice guys want to meet nice women too?
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Anyone of whatever age using a dating site is crazy, imo. But when they are getting on in years and looking a lot older than they are, it is crazy, they aren't going to attract anyone decent!
 
Because it is usually a business deal..I'll show you what I've got..and then you show what you've got...but you have to be careful...

I wouldn't look for love..sometimes it happens without you realising it...

There is a quote..

Love leaves first when sorely needed..

Laughs and flies when sorely heeded..

Basically, it means when you fancy someone..and they don't fancy you..they leave..

But the people you don't fancy..stay..

I couldn't start a relationship with someone checking my ass out and asking me how much money I have..

They would get no where near my family..
 
QuickSilver said:
Yes.... don't you believe there are nice guys on dating sites? Don't nice guys want to meet nice women too?
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I believe that there are many nice people out there on dating sites, waiting to meet up.You have to be careful, but that is just as true when you meet someone in a bar or theatre etc.I am not in that situation [single] but I know people who have met that way and are now happily married, or living together, so it does work.
 
...but you have to be careful...
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Yes Twixie..... that is the operative phrase.. You have to be careful. Not saying that some people cannot fool you no matter how careful you are.. but for the most part, if you have common sense and are careful.. things can work out just fine.

I have to chuckle at the adamant remarks about dating sites and the people that use them... being crazy.. and all the men are bad.. It's really funny to me. You must be VERY careful about generalization.

Let me tell you a little story.

I was widowed suddenly after 21 years of marriage when my husband had a massive heart attack

My husband was widowed after 29 years of marriage. His wife died of MS and inflamatory breast cancer. He was her sole caregive for 19 years. She passed away in his arms.

I think you already know where I'm going... Don't you. Yes.. we met on a dating site.. lol!!! AND we just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary. We never would have crossed paths if it were not for Match.com. Neither one of us had a huge social circle and we are both pretty much homebodies. He is a wonderful man, and has been a wonderful husband. But maybe we both are just CRAZY!!
 
oakapple said:
I believe that there are many nice people out there on dating sites, waiting to meet up.You have to be careful, but that is just as true when you meet someone in a bar or theatre etc.I am not in that situation [single] but I know people who have met that way and are now happily married, or living together, so it does work.
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And no hidden agenda???

I met my current partner in a bar..there was a good band on..I was impressed how gentlemanly he was...we've been together for 11 years..he is my best friend, confidant, and I trust him...

Even though his hair is down his back and he is a drummer in a local rock band at week-ends..
 
Twixie said:
And no hidden agenda???

I met my current partner in a bar..there was a good band on..I was impressed how gentlemanly he was...we've been together for 11 years..he is my best friend, confidant, and I trust him...

Even though his hair is down his back and he is a drummer in a local rock band at week-ends..
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I think that's great!! So why are you so down on dating sites? I've just told you my story. You cannot generalize. There are good and bad people everywhere. I kind of resent being called crazy or thought less of.. Some people don't care to socialize in bars either.
 
I did actually delve into on-line dating...I had a rendez-vous with an Italian in London...I lived 15 miles away...

He met me with a beautiful bunch of flowers..and said ''come with me..I have our evening planned..

so as we walked along..I could see him checking himself out in every shop window..

When we got to the bar..he was checking out anything female with a pulse..

He jumped up..dancing alone..and appeared to be having a really good time without me..

As the evening drew nigh..I told him that I would have to catch the last train home..

Obviously this wasn't a part of the plan...so I walked back to the station..with him in tow snivelling..he started to cry louder..dropping to his knees...I have never been so glad to get a train home in my life..
 
QuickSilver said:
I think that's great!! So why are you so down on dating sites? I've just told you my story. You cannot generalize. There are good and bad people everywhere. I kind of resent being called crazy or thought less of.. Some people don't care to socialize in bars either.
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I'm glad it worked out for you..:glitter-heart:
 
So you cannot seriously believe that all encounters with someone from a dating site are going to be bad...

I agreed to meet my present husband for brunch at a very busy restaurant. I made sure it was pretty far from my home. That brunch lasted 3 hours. He brought me flowers. It was weeks before I agreed to let him come to my house to pick me up for dinner. He was patient.. that was a good sign. As I said.. we have been married 11 years last July.
 
QuickSilver said:
So you cannot seriously believe that all encounters with someone from a dating site are going to be bad...

I agreed to meet my present husband for brunch at a very busy restaurant. I made sure it was pretty far from my home. That brunch lasted 3 hours. He brought me flowers. It was weeks before I agreed to let him come to my house to pick me up for dinner. He was patient.. that was a good sign. As I said.. we have been married 11 years last July.
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Yes I told my now partner to ''go away'' many times before we finally became friends..
 

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