I remember before I even turned 50...and, I believe, I was probably around 44-45, I kept getting these letters and invitations from AARP to join! I was not interested, in fact I was in denial, a fact that I realize now that I'm...um....older.
But my AT&T contract is soon to be up, and whilst comparing mobile carriers online, I came across a certain company that offers a pretty good discount to us seniors. But you have to be an AARP member to get the special! So, with a sigh of acceptance, I decided to join. Even if our demographic is somewhat marginalized, there are many benefits to being older (and joining AARP!) And NO, haha, this is NOT plug for AARP! It's just a milestone for me, I guess! I am still in the midst of checking out AARP and all its benefits.
Funny---I finally realized it and, although somewhat surreal, I guess I do have an expiration date after all! Though that date is, hopefully, some 25-30 years out, I realize now that it's OK to get older....matter of fact, I'm rather enjoying it! I notice people in my age group more and more, and am especially fond of people much farther down the road of life than myself....in their 70s, 80s, and beyond. While still young at heart (heck, I'm still listening to Nirvana, Soundgarden, and many contemporary rock/dance/and some hip-hop artists), I am happy with the wisdom that I'm gaining and it is enabling me to be more understanding and kind to those in their twenties when they say and do silly things that seem so, well, childish.
There is no substitute for wisdom gained through life experiences of all types, from the joy of having children and raising them, to the sorrow of suddenly losing loved ones without being able to say good-bye to them, to sudden and unexpected health challenges and all different things in-between, and still learning every day! I guess the main thing I'm "working on" right now is being more humble, facing my shortcomings and foibles whilst keeping my self-love intact.
Peace and blessings to all on whatever point in your life's journey you may find yourself.
Love from Ellie :love_heart:
But my AT&T contract is soon to be up, and whilst comparing mobile carriers online, I came across a certain company that offers a pretty good discount to us seniors. But you have to be an AARP member to get the special! So, with a sigh of acceptance, I decided to join. Even if our demographic is somewhat marginalized, there are many benefits to being older (and joining AARP!) And NO, haha, this is NOT plug for AARP! It's just a milestone for me, I guess! I am still in the midst of checking out AARP and all its benefits.
Funny---I finally realized it and, although somewhat surreal, I guess I do have an expiration date after all! Though that date is, hopefully, some 25-30 years out, I realize now that it's OK to get older....matter of fact, I'm rather enjoying it! I notice people in my age group more and more, and am especially fond of people much farther down the road of life than myself....in their 70s, 80s, and beyond. While still young at heart (heck, I'm still listening to Nirvana, Soundgarden, and many contemporary rock/dance/and some hip-hop artists), I am happy with the wisdom that I'm gaining and it is enabling me to be more understanding and kind to those in their twenties when they say and do silly things that seem so, well, childish.
There is no substitute for wisdom gained through life experiences of all types, from the joy of having children and raising them, to the sorrow of suddenly losing loved ones without being able to say good-bye to them, to sudden and unexpected health challenges and all different things in-between, and still learning every day! I guess the main thing I'm "working on" right now is being more humble, facing my shortcomings and foibles whilst keeping my self-love intact.
Peace and blessings to all on whatever point in your life's journey you may find yourself.
Love from Ellie :love_heart:
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