How many of us can honestly say we're masters in our own home?

No TV anymore? Good for you Aunt Marg. I got rid of my cable 20 years ago. Can't stand the advertising and can't stand most of the shows. I buy DVDs from Amazon but limit my viewing. People are being ripped off. With all that advertising, cable companies should pay people to watch TV. Some pay $150/month. That's madness!
As my father -in-law used to say, “500 channels and nothing worth watching”

haven’t had tv in my home for years. Commercials insult my intelligence, shows with foul language and other behaviors I don’t care to see/hear and such bad writing /dialogue for the most part.

give me a good book any day!
 

No TV anymore? Good for you Aunt Marg. I got rid of my cable 20 years ago. Can't stand the advertising and can't stand most of the shows. I buy DVDs from Amazon but limit my viewing. People are being ripped off. With all that advertising, cable companies should pay people to watch TV. Some pay $150/month. That's madness!
You know, Packs, we got to the point where the steady increases in our monthly cable bill weren't adding up. They weren't adding up to better services, to more channels, to better options, nothing, just a few dollars here, and a few dollars there, and we reached our end.

$150 per month is madness, and good on you for cutting the cable, too!
 
Same here with cable, which we haven't had in years. We don't do Netflix, etc., either.

We're more in the habit of buying DVDs and watching/rewatching as the mood strikes us. If I hear about something we may like, I check it out on YouTube -- and then we'll buy the DVD if we hit a good one. We'll also get some, or all, seasons of a TV series if we find something we like.
 

As to the "masters in the home" thing, I don't like the idea of being some kind of control freak over my husband. We're pretty much live-and-let-live, and go with the flow if one or the other of us wants something.
 
Are you only any good at those things your wife is less good at, or are there areas of your life where both are equally adept, for example the operation of a TV remote? (/hoofer roofer, The zapper, The flipper, or tv remote control. :) !)
Not really since we help each other with whatever needs doing. Some examples.
1. food or meal prep.
2. laundry
3. TV remote we have a smart TV & use what is called the magic stick. Either can & does use. We both like Spanish TV novels/series. Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime gives us tons of commercial free viewing choices.
4. Gardening tending to the herbs. For the watering system she put the blue adhesive on the schedule 40 PVC pipes after I cut them. Some she connected some I did.
Latest was doing the tile buttering so I had hands free to set the spacers to align the tiles to be put in place.

We have a tile roof so no need to maintain that. But in the past we had a home that had asphalt shingles that needed replacing. She put on her dungarees & helped with the entire DIY replacement.

We've always worked together & probably the most important we never had a his & hers money division.
 
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I have no tv, the over the air I used to get has stopped transmitting, I think because the cable company bought it out and only wants to sell you cable and not free over the air...oh well,I get plutotv and local tv news from the internet anyway...
 
No television in our home anymore, but I am the master of all things house and kitchen, and hubby knows it... he knows where his next mouthwatering meal is coming from as well as his neatly pressed dress and sports shirts, I rest my case.
We never had a TV for the first thirty years of our marriage. It was only when my mother-in-law became old, she still liked to visit, but missed her daytime soap operas. I wouldn't want my wife to miss seeing her mother, so we got a TV.

It only ever got used when mother-in-law came to stay. Not wanting a TV screen dominating the room, we bought a cabinet, not only to house it, but to close the doors on it when her mother went home.
 
Not really since we help each other with whatever needs doing. Some examples.
1. food or meal prep.
2. laundry
3. TV remote we have a smart TV & use what is called the magic stick. Either can & does use. We both like Spanish TV novels/series. Netflix, Hulu, Amazon Prime gives us tons of commercial free viewing choices.
4. Gardening tending to the herbs. For the watering system she put the blue adhesive on the schedule 40 PVC pipes after I cut them. Some she connected some I did.
Latest was doing the tile buttering so I had hands free to set the spacers to align the tiles to be put in place.

We have a tile roof so no need to maintain that. But in the past we had a home that had asphalt shingles that needed replacing. She put on her dungarees & helped with the entire DIY replacement.

We've always worked together & probably the most important we never had a his & hers money division.
Well suited in every way then.
I did once meet a young married couple at a dinner party who told everyone they had never had a row in the time they'd known one another, (the looks on the faces of the other married women in particular to this news was hysterical :) ).
By the end of the evening however the "blissful couple" were indeed having their "first row", proving timing is everything I thought,....!
 
A very good boss of mine once repeated the line, "One man in a hundred is a leader of men, the other ninety nine are followers of women", (so that's 99% of you/us ruled out!).

Do we expect to largely rule what happens in our own homes these days, "who has charge of the tv remote control in your house",(the ultimate test. :) ! )?
Whoever is the most interested in watching something on TV gets the remote. Saturday morning my wife watches her quilt and sewing programs, so she has control of the remote. Saturday night I watch Svengoolie so the remote's mine.
 
As to the "masters in the home" thing, I don't like the idea of being some kind of control freak over my husband. We're pretty much live-and-let-live, and go with the flow if one or the other of us wants something.
On my one trip to the USA I met a wonderful middle aged couple who were speculating as to whether their marriage would survive their holiday trip.
All in jest I'm sure, and their appreciation of potential pitfalls in life, and humour,..., well you just can't buy that can you! :)
 
Well ... one can always get a second TV. We mainly watch the one in the bedroom, but there's the one in the livingroom for stuff I really don't want to watch.

(We leave the bedroom TV on while we sleep, albeit with the sound turned down fairly low, but still loud enough to hear. Probably sounds strange to some, but we like it.)

We have piles of DVDs we bought over the years, along with a TV attachment (a rectangular doohickey on a cord attached to the TV that pulls in TV channels) which we almost never use. But we could.
 
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I stand up straight and firm, and announce to the world, "I am master in my house, I answer to no-one" , but then there is, Horace, my neighbour's cat, he bosses me about quite regularly.
"Hold your horses, Horace, I've only got one pair of hands." :)
 
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I stand up straight and firm, and announce to the world, "I am master in my house, I answer to no-one" , but then there is, Horace, my neighbour's cat, he bosses me about quite regularly.
"Hold your horses, Horace, I've only got one pair of hands."
We have three cats, the smallest of which is both cocky and confident. Tell her not to do something, nag her in any way and she will walk away with a flick of her tail that, I swear, is feline for: "Up your's!"
 
LOL!

Looking in from the outside I can see where some might think what a sad state of affairs in Aunt Marg's home, but being ripped every month for a signal so we could surf through endless channels of nothing, repeats, and programming that didn't interest us, the decision was made to cut the cable, and we haven't looked back or regretted it once.

Is it possible to get reception with an antenna where you live? ... I pay -0- for my TV watching these days..
I know about years of huge cable bills, and 900 channels of nothing to watch - lol .....
I get several channels (all the major stations) and great quality, for free with my antenna.


As for boss @ home ... my dog seems to rule.
 
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Is it possible to get reception with an antenna where you live? ... I pay -0- for my TV watching each month.
I get several channels (all the major stations) and great quality, for free.


As for boss @ home ... my dog seems to rule.
We're definitely going to be trying the antennae idea when the time comes, Bonnie, along with a few other things, but all-in-all I believe we'll be more than satisfied with being able to watch all sorts of YouTube content, as well as movies, DVD's, and whatever else strikes our fancy, and if history has remained the same, we'll get to enjoy one or two free news stations.
 
Is it possible to get reception with an antenna where you live? ... I pay -0- for my TV watching these days..
I know about years of huge cable bills, and 900 channels of nothing to watch - lol .....
I get several channels (all the major stations) and great quality, for free with my antenna.


As for boss @ home ... my dog seems to rule.
Bonnie; I can get all the TV channels I want. My only problem is I need the Internet, so I found it cheaper to buy Comcast's bundle TV, Internet & phone. As Dish & other satellites internet providers don't work well here very slow & when a dark cloud & rain S/W of me there is no internet from 10 minutes to 3 hrs. I've tried them all.
 
Bonnie; I can get all the TV channels I want. My only problem is I need the Internet, so I found it cheaper to buy Comcast's bundle TV, Internet & phone. As Dish & other satellites internet providers don't work well here very slow & when a dark cloud & rain S/W of me there is no internet from 10 minutes to 3 hrs. I've tried them all.

I understand that Tom ... I have my Internet service with AT&T, and only pay for that monthly.
I'm just outside of Houston, and the different TV transmitters are probably between 20-30 miles away.
Antenna can reach up to 50 miles (I think).
With my iPhone, I'm lucky enough to be on my daughter's family plan.
 


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