Sleep issues?

The other thing I take to bed is a microwaved heating bag filled with grain. In the winter it’s to warm my freezing feet and then I put it on my back. Unless it’s a really hot night, I warm it slightly and in the middle of the night I will put it on my lower back for the weight. Not sure if it keeps my back in place or is just comforting.
Years ago my now retired Navy son visIted and brought us a set of grain (likely rice) and herb things. 2 were sort of shallow U shaped designed to go over across upper back and over shoulders and one smaller straight one. We've used them in various ways including the way you do. I have on occasion heated and put them between the sheets (which in winter i use flannel ones) to pre warm the bed especially where my feet will go.
 

on o2 all night, leg cramps, hips one or the other pained, mind blowing episodes of past startrek/starwars adventures. dark is okay, white noise from o2 concentrator, up to bathroom at least once...
 
I normally sleep like the dead, waking up just to go to the bathroom. We are in bed about 11:00, I take a melatonin or a sleep aid basically benadrill. I read for about an hour, turn off the light, adjust my pillows, arrange a small one between my knees. I sleep on my side.

About one night a month or so I can't get to sleep, so I read for another hour and see if that works, normally it does,then I sleep much later than normal.
 

No sleep issues. Go to bed when I'm sleepy usually wake up 8 hours later. During this high heat waking up is at 5 a/m to get to the park to get our miles of walking in.
 
I normally sleep like the dead, waking up just to go to the bathroom. We are in bed about 11:00, I take a melatonin or a sleep aid basically benadrill. I read for about an hour, turn off the light, adjust my pillows, arrange a small one between my knees. I sleep on my side.

About one night a month or so I can't get to sleep, so I read for another hour and see if that works, normally it does,then I sleep much later than normal.
Have ever paid attention ro whether there's a pattern to when it happens? Decades ago i realized i usually sleep less around the full moon, maybe 3 days go sleep later but not sleep any later in morning.
 
Couch cushions are usually filled with foam. Have you tried a foam mattress?
Other than hotels I sleep on foam mattresses at home - for the past 30 years or so. I have been using the hardest foam mattress available but since my back has been so much trouble I switched with my wife whose foam mattress is a bit softer. It's possible that it's still too hard? Yes, that is certainly a possibility.
My human pillow, the Missus, keeps my backside all toasty.
Maybe I need to get a new wife. 😁
 
My nose/mouth area mask has a soft cushiony rubber edging so gives some with movement but doesn't leak cause it conforms to contours of cheeks, but sometimes--usually in summer the rubbery texture becomes and issue. Usally by morning i am antsy to remove it.

A while back i injured the the bridge of my nose and put a bandaid over i and the mask felt more comfortable that night. But i've also seen elasticized soft mask covers that look like kind of like hair scrunches but also like they'd securely cover the rubber edge. i'm going to order some (they come in sets of two--which would be good because unlike the parts of CPAP they'd likely take longer to dry when washed so i'd still have one to use while other drying.
I sometimes wake with an extremely dry mouth. According to videos on the subject (there are many), this is because I am breathing through my mouth while sleeping. Using the nose & mouth variant would solve this problem but - as I said - I suffer from pnigerophobia so it is out of the question. In any case, I wear a beard so (just as when I was in the Army) the mask won't fit properly.

By the way, last year my CPAP wasn't functioning as it should so the doctor ordered me a new one. This one, an AirSense 10, with a humidifier that I can detach at any time. Is there a humidifier on yours, and do you notice any difference with or without using it?
 
The other thing I take to bed is a microwaved heating bag filled with grain. In the winter it’s to warm my freezing feet and then I put it on my back. Unless it’s a really hot night, I warm it slightly and in the middle of the night I will put it on my lower back for the weight. Not sure if it keeps my back in place or is just comforting.
About once every two or three years I get a backlash of malaria (I assume it's malaria) that I picked up in Vietnam back in 1966. I get dreadful, uncontrollable cold shivers that make my whole body twitch violently. My wife immediately jumps into action piling as many blankets onto me as possible, giving me a woolly hat, woolly socks, and one of those 'microwaved heating bags filled with grain' you mentioned under my lower back. With all of that attention, the shivers are over in about ten minutes, without it, it can last a few hours.
 
I sometimes wake with an extremely dry mouth. According to videos on the subject (there are many), this is because I am breathing through my mouth while sleeping. Using the nose & mouth variant would solve this problem but - as I said - I suffer from pnigerophobia so it is out of the question. In any case, I wear a beard so (just as when I was in the Army) the mask won't fit properly.

By the way, last year my CPAP wasn't functioning as it should so the doctor ordered me a new one. This one, an AirSense 10, with a humidifier that I can detach at any time. Is there a humidifier on yours, and do you notice any difference with or without using it?
Yes i have detachable humidifier too. I live in what is a normally dry climate, have to refill the reservoir every other day most of the time, but when he had a lot of rain in July and humidity was higher it didn't seem to go thru it as fast. Can't figure that out cause ithas a heating element under the reservoir. But i definitely wake up dry mouthed if the reservoir goes empty during the night. So check i every other morning to be sure.
 
Other than hotels I sleep on foam mattresses at home - for the past 30 years or so. I have been using the hardest foam mattress available but since my back has been so much trouble I switched with my wife whose foam mattress is a bit softer. It's possible that it's still too hard? Yes, that is certainly a possibility.

Maybe I need to get a new wife. 😁
People are going to think I get a commission because I say "purple" every time the topic of mattresses comes up -

Mine is a brand called Purple; the Purple Mattress. I like it so much I ordered a Purple Pet Mattress, large dog size, for my little guy, Paxton. It's made of weird material, a cross between foam and gel, feels like a cloud and has a nice cushy cover on it. You can get a total refund after either a 30-day trial or 90-day trial, I forget which, plus you get a freebie. I strongly recommend the free sheets if they still offer them. The sheets are special made, and a necessity, imo. They sell the platform, too, for a reasonable price, but it'd be real easy to build one. Paxton's is just on the floor.

purple.com is their website. I don't know if they'd ship to where you're at, tho.

I also recommend you keep the wife. I have a feeling she's pretty special.
 
Yes i have detachable humidifier too. I live in what is a normally dry climate, have to refill the reservoir every other day most of the time, but when he had a lot of rain in July and humidity was higher it didn't seem to go thru it as fast. Can't figure that out cause ithas a heating element under the reservoir. But i definitely wake up dry mouthed if the reservoir goes empty during the night. So check i every other morning to be sure.
I fill it every day whether it needs it or not. But I can't clean the calk from it very well. How about you?
 
People are going to think I get a commission because I say "purple" every time the topic of mattresses comes up -

Mine is a brand called Purple; the Purple Mattress. I like it so much I ordered a Purple Pet Mattress, large dog size, for my little guy, Paxton. It's made of weird material, a cross between foam and gel, feels like a cloud and has a nice cushy cover on it. You can get a total refund after either a 30-day trial or 90-day trial, I forget which, plus you get a freebie. I strongly recommend the free sheets if they still offer them. The sheets are special made, and a necessity, imo. They sell the platform, too, for a reasonable price, but it'd be real easy to build one. Paxton's is just on the floor.

purple.com is their website. I don't know if they'd ship to where you're at, tho.
Yes, I recall you mentioning "the purple". The bottom line is that I won't spend a penny unless I know 100% that the product solves my problem. And at $ 2,000, well.
I also recommend you keep the wife. I have a feeling she's pretty special.
That's a fact. :)
 
I usually sleep pretty well, but occasionally if I've had a strenuous day, I keep a bottle of flavored Vodka in the cabinet, and drink a small shot of that about an hour before bedtime. I seems to relax me by bedtime, and I get a full nights sleep. I gave up booze a long time ago, but a small shot of Vodka, or a small glass of wine seems to work well for me.
 
I usually sleep pretty well, but occasionally if I've had a strenuous day, I keep a bottle of flavored Vodka in the cabinet, and drink a small shot of that about an hour before bedtime. I seems to relax me by bedtime, and I get a full nights sleep. I gave up booze a long time ago, but a small shot of Vodka, or a small glass of wine seems to work well for me.
I have also discovered the benefits of a small shot of whiskey or Slivovica. I ALWAYS use it on flights to distract my phobia and occasionally to get a deeper sleep if I need to rise the next morning earlier than normal. I too am not "a drinker" other than a half glass of wine with an evening meal.
 
Sleep is a challenge. Usually I can get to sleep, it staying asleep that‘s the issue.
Same for me. There are nights when I can return to sleep, others it's a no-go. Sometimes I get as little as 3 hours of sleep. So maddening. When that happens I rearrange my schedule to avoid anything requiring good reflexes (like driving) or serious brain power (business work). There's always tomorrow...
When I have a few 5 hour or less nights in a row I'll take 1/8 of an OTC sleeping tablet to help me get back on track. I'm extremely sensitive to most medications - much more so than even 10 years ago.
 
Feywon, I found out years ago, before my atrial fibrillation was corrected that it was better for me to sleep with my head elevated. It seemed to lessen the nighttime A-fib episodes. No matter how I tried to do that by propping pillows in back of me, I always wound up laying down. I slept on my side at the time. It got to be so that when I did try sleeping in our tempurpedic waterbed, which seems very comfortable, I'd wake up aching on whatever side I slept on. Then I discovered the wonder of sleeping in my rocker-recliner that I hadn't made use of for so many years.
I sleep better in that. Once in awhile I try the bed again and always wake up feeling achy. It's even worse at the timeshare since their beds are firmer than mine.
My sleep patterns have been erratic for quite a while. No telling what time I'll go to sleep and how many hours I'll stay asleep. Sometimes I fall asleep at the table after eating dinner, a snack or dessert. That especially happens when I've had 18 - 19 hour days. Then I slowly wake up to make it to my recliner. Same thing happens after I eat if I'm already in the recliner. Unlike when I was working, I'm a very early riser most days since I strive to make my obligatory morning prayer which is due before sunrise. When I was working I needed my 8 hours. Now it seems that 5 hours is enough. Some nights I sleep better than others. If I've taken my water pill early in the day, I may have to get up too often to use the bathroom some nights. My dreams are usually very busy and social.
 
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Feywon, I found out years ago, before my atrial fibrillation was corrected that it was better for me to sleep with my head raised. It seemed to lesson the nighttime A-fib episodes. No matter how I tried to do that by propping pillows in back of me, I always wound up laying down. .....
This thread is turning out to be much more helpful than I anticipated.

As I've mentioned more than once I get better results when I sleep on the sofa. Why? That's the question that has me stymied. I've been thinking about the width and firmness/softness of my leather sofa but I never considered the length. YOU have me thinking! "Elevated head". Yes, I have also noticed elevating my head is beneficial. So ........ ? Right, when I sleep on the sofa (always, as it turns out) my feet are up against the armrest at that end and that's the furthest I can be. That leaves my head on the pillow which is slightly raised against the armrest at the upper end! I am just about the same "height" as the length of the sofa you see. So, I'm sleeping with a slightly raised head all night long. The riddle may finally be solved! (y)
 
I fill it every day whether it needs it or not. But I can't clean the calk from it very well. How about you?
My humidifer reservoir is totally removal from the unit and they replace periodically. I was told when i picked it up from Lincare and got tutorial on use and care, to use only distilled water. I do and don't have a residue. (Unlike the lime buildup i get in my household sinks and around faucets.)
 
My humidifer reservoir is totally removal from the unit and they replace periodically. I was told when i picked it up from Lincare and got tutorial on use and care, to use only distilled water. I do and don't have a residue. (Unlike the lime buildup i get in my household sinks and around faucets.)
Yes, that's right, the instructions recommend distilled water. I take it from the tap anyway, hence the calk. I don't think it influences the performance, though. I mean if we can drink coffee from the percolator ..... I'll just have to endure the calk or maybe clean it with that .... you know ... stuff to clean percolators.
 
This thread is turning out to be much more helpful than I anticipated.

As I've mentioned more than once I get better results when I sleep on the sofa. Why? That's the question that has me stymied. I've been thinking about the width and firmness/softness of my leather sofa but I never considered the length. YOU have me thinking! "Elevated head". Yes, I have also noticed elevating my head is beneficial. So ........ ? Right, when I sleep on the sofa (always, as it turns out) my feet are up against the armrest at that end and that's the furthest I can be. That leaves my head on the pillow which is slightly raised against the armrest at the upper end! I am just about the same "height" as the length of the sofa you see. So, I'm sleeping with a slightly raised head all night long. The riddle may finally be solved! (y)
Glad I could help Verisure! :D
 
I also have trouble sleeping. For the past couple of weeks, I've been trying an ounce of whiskey before bed. I can't drink it straight without coughing & choking, so I mix it with an ounce of Irish Cream. Since I rarely drink, it works. This morning, I slept an extra hour.
 
I also have trouble sleeping. For the past couple of weeks, I've been trying an ounce of whiskey before bed. I can't drink it straight without coughing & choking, so I mix it with an ounce of Irish Cream. Since I rarely drink, it works. This morning, I slept an extra hour.
There you go. Whenever I think I need a "shot" I mix it with cola. As we used to say in Vietnam, "Wikicoke".
 
I also have trouble sleeping. For the past couple of weeks, I've been trying an ounce of whiskey before bed. I can't drink it straight without coughing & choking, so I mix it with an ounce of Irish Cream. Since I rarely drink, it works. This morning, I slept an extra hour.
I wish I didn't hate the taste and or smell of alcohol... I'd try some to keep me asleep...

It's 4.45am and I've been awake for over an hour..., it's not getting to sleep that's the problem it's staying asleep..
 
I wish I didn't hate the taste and or smell of alcohol... I'd try some to keep me asleep...

It's 4.45am and I've been awake for over an hour..., it's not getting to sleep that's the problem it's staying asleep..
I got up at 4 AM myself, I usually do. But I go to bed at 9 PM so it's fair. If you don't like the taste of alcohol (who does?) then take a glass of coca-cola and mix it with a dram of whiskey, preferably cold.
 
I got up at 4 AM myself, I usually do. But I go to bed at 9 PM so it's fair. If you don't like the taste of alcohol (who does?) then take a glass of coca-cola and mix it with a dram of whiskey, preferably cold.
*ugh* whiskey and brandy are the worst smell of all to me ... anyway I couldn't because coke also keeps me awake..all that caffeine I suppose...

I'm a night owl, so going to bed at 9am is not an option for me, I'd lie there awake for hours...it doesn't help there's some trauma going on in my private life at the moment, so once this all passes... then maybe sleep will be available to me again...
 


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