I was raised in a main-line church but truthfully there were a lot of mixed signals. The church seemed to preach works, that is, if one's good works outweighed the bad, then you went to heaven. I remember my father, who was a problem drinker, bee-lining for the liquor cabinet as soon as we got home from church. It was as if attending church not only negated the sins of the previous week, it allowed for a shot and a beer or two free of charge on the "sin tab".
My mom, however, had a genuine faith and she also was a regular church attendee. I followed in my father's drinking footsteps, becoming a problem drinker and wild man in general. I attended church for a while as an adult, but then gave up, knowing that simple church attendance could not atone for the boat-load of sins I was racking up. But then at about age 27 I lost my job and was in sort of a pickle financially. The walls started closing in. That is when I turned to Christ as payment for my sins without any works of my own.
It was a whole new world for me. I then started re-attending various churches, gravitating toward non-denominational. Through the 36 years as a Born Again Christian I have attended a variety of churches but now have settled into a very traditional Baptist church for the last 7 years. My current view on church, which I think is a better view, is "What can I do for the church and within the church" as opposed to "What can this church do for me". I was in jail ministry with a fellow church member until Covid hit and now I help with AWANA, helping little kids memorize and understand bible verses.