David Ruffin was my favorite Temptation even after I saw the movie, "The Temptations." I never knew or thought David to be the way he appeared to be in the movie. I was able to meet and talk with David in Atlantic City in 1989. I thought then that he was doing drugs by his eyes and the continual sniffing and snorting. Being a trained Substance Abuse Counselor, I am able to spot a drug addict much more often then someone who has no connection to this habit. When I spoke with him, it was mostly small talk, like what was his favorite song to perform and did he ever think about making a movie and other chatter. He was a very charismatic person and had no problem with relating or connecting to people. He asked me what my favorite Temptation song was and I told him without hesitation that it was, "I Wish That It Would Rain." He sang the first two lines right there in the hallway of the theater. It was great.
David lived a very sad life, at least from my perspective. He allowed himself to be used and abused by those around him and also by himself. This man is another example of a great entertainer making bad choices. He denied his many fans of his talents by making those choices. So, we are all losers in this part of David's life and death.
I had received the two tickets, including a backstage pass at the Trump Taj Mahal in AC by signing up for a Player's Club card and being selected from all of the entries.
I wanted to add the following YouTube video. You may not watch all of it, but you will get the idea of who David Ruffin really was. David had extraordinary talent, but led a very conflicted life. Yes, as you can tell, David was one of my favorite soul performers. And believe me, he had soul. Just listen to how he sings and performs his music. There is so much feeling and passion that anyone who ever heard David sing, would be a fan. It is his lifestyle that killed him and has denied many to hear and see him perform.