Girls’ getaway, me, my daughter and her dog!

Ronni

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Nashville TN
My daughter Paige and I had such a fun getaway last weekend! She’s been really stressed and I wanted to do something fun with her that would be relaxing, so I booked us in at my most favorite Airbnb!! She has several dogs but Dixie, an American Bully rescue, is her special emotional support dog and so we brought her along too!

And we’re off!!
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Dixie and Paige relaxing
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Dix giving me some love! 0EF44AA9-54DC-43E2-ABFB-A68D5AE12BA0.jpeg

Paige eating what she called “the green goo”…an absolutely delicious chilled green pea and mint soup which we both wanted seconds of!
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And finally, a delicious English breakfast the morning of our departure. 3863BEEA-34FE-4C38-B20A-91F95C0D0EDE.jpeg

It really was a lovely time. We’re already planning our next adventure!
 

Being an "old boy" type of guy born and raised out in the country I don't understand what in the world is an "emotional support dog?" Maybe someone could explain this to me. We had horses, dogs, chickens, ducks and all sorts of animals but not one supported me "emotionally." This must be a new urban concept that I am not aware of?
 
Being an "old boy" type of guy born and raised out in the country I don't understand what in the world is an "emotional support dog?" Maybe someone could explain this to me. We had horses, dogs, chickens, ducks and all sorts of animals but not one supported me "emotionally." This must be a new urban concept that I am not aware of?
It’s a new concept to me too @Packerjohn.

Paige has GAD (Generalized Anxiety Disorder) and is taking medication and uses a variety of techniques (yoga, mindfulness exercises etc) to keep it under control, all under her Doctor’s care. As an additional therapy she also has an emotional support dog.

Emotional Support Animal
An emotional support animal provides love, affection, compassion, and support to a specific person with a diagnosed mental or emotional condition. They do not perform a specific task or job; instead, their purpose is to offer relief in challenging situations.

Paige spent 2+ years before her diagnosis desperately seeking answers for the range of physical symptoms that plagued her. She was taken to the emergency room several times by me or her husband for what appeared to be cardiac or respiratory events. She wore a couple different heart monitors for a week or two weeks. She was scanned and X-rayed and tested for everything from pneumonia to gastroenteritis to celiac to ulcers. It was a wretched time.

I slept with my phone on and at full volume for the late night phone calls because if she was having a physical event of some kind I’d need to either take her to the emergency room or stay with the kids so her husband could.

This woman is NOT a hypochondriac. She was seldom ill and when she did come down with something she just powered through it. She suffered in silence for several months before finally realizing that something was badly wrong but even then it was almost two years before she finally got the answer that explained every single symptom, and she hasn’t looked back since.

Even with medication and her carious other techniques the anxiety still sometimes overwhelms her. Having Dixie has been an amazing addition. When Paige is gasping for breath she can hug and pet Dixie who always responds affectionatey, and Paige will settle. Even her kids know to bring Dixie to Paige if she appears to be struggling.

I know it sounds strange and if I hadn’t been actively involved in this entire issue with Paige ove the last several years, I would likely question the veracity of both the condition and the need for an emotional support animal. It all sounds a bit woo-woo! But I’ve seen it up close and personal. Watching your strong, highly functional and capable kid absolutely crippled and frantic and entirely non-functional and wondering if she’s going to die from some undiagnosed condition is a wretched thing. I will gladly embrace and support ANYTHING that brings her relief no matter how unconventional.

Dixie is an absolute gem. I’m so glad Paige has her. Everyone who meets her falls in love with her. ❤️ One day I’ll tell you her rescue story.

 
Being an "old boy" type of guy born and raised out in the country I don't understand what in the world is an "emotional support dog?" Maybe someone could explain this to me. We had horses, dogs, chickens, ducks and all sorts of animals but not one supported me "emotionally." This must be a new urban concept that I am not aware of?
Here's an article on Emotional Support Animals. Traditionally you'll see dogs or cats in the role but others, as this article reveals, are a little more non-traditional.
https://www.thetravel.com/strange-photos-emotional-support-animals/
 
Paige has GAD (Generalized Anxiety Disorder)
In this day and age it would be surprising if we all don’t have some level of GAD. If you don’t feel a little crazy, you’re not paying attention. 🙂

Books are my emotional support animal. Well, I also have a cat that helps.

I sometimes use the ‘name 5 things’ technique for anxiety. Sort of moves you back into the ‘now’ instead of recalling the past and worrying about the future.
Once you find your breath, go through the following steps to help ground yourself:
  • 5: Acknowledge FIVE things you see around you. ...
  • 4: Acknowledge FOUR things you can touch around you. ...
  • 3: Acknowledge THREE things you hear. ...
  • 2: Acknowledge TWO things you can smell. ...
  • 1: Acknowledge ONE thing you can taste.
 
In this day and age it would be surprising if we all don’t have some level of GAD. If you don’t feel a little crazy, you’re not paying attention. 🙂

Books are my emotional support animal. Well, I also have a cat that helps.

I sometimes use the ‘name 5 things’ technique for anxiety. Sort of moves you back into the ‘now’ instead of recalling the past and worrying about the future.
Once you find your breath, go through the following steps to help ground yourself:
  • 5: Acknowledge FIVE things you see around you. ...
  • 4: Acknowledge FOUR things you can touch around you. ...
  • 3: Acknowledge THREE things you hear. ...
  • 2: Acknowledge TWO things you can smell. ...
  • 1: Acknowledge ONE thing you can taste.
This is one of the techniques Paige uses.
 
In this day and age it would be surprising if we all don’t have some level of GAD. If you don’t feel a little crazy, you’re not paying attention. 🙂

Books are my emotional support animal. Well, I also have a cat that helps.

I sometimes use the ‘name 5 things’ technique for anxiety. Sort of moves you back into the ‘now’ instead of recalling the past and worrying about the future.
Once you find your breath, go through the following steps to help ground yourself:
  • 5: Acknowledge FIVE things you see around you. ...
  • 4: Acknowledge FOUR things you can touch around you. ...
  • 3: Acknowledge THREE things you hear. ...
  • 2: Acknowledge TWO things you can smell. ...
  • 1: Acknowledge ONE thing you can taste.
I’m going to try these…….such simple things to do, it’s well worth trying.
 


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