Are All Men Looky-Loos?

Mr. Ed said:
Question for the women. Do you approve or disapprove of men looking at you?
Is it true women always knows where a man's eyes are?
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Sometimes we don't even know when we're being looked at, and sometimes we do and can't really do anything about it except quickly move on.

My husband and I were in Jamaica on vacation. We were walking down the beach, where there were several stalls selling various items. My husband stopped to talk to a guy with a boat about going out fishing, and I walked ahead. As I was going on my way, I heard a voice behind me call out, "Hey lady, you gotta niiiiiice...... walk!" I just kept walking. If I'd been with my husband, I don't think the guy would've called out.

On another vacation, we stayed at a resort that had private pools next to the rooms. My husband noticed a man peering at me through the bushes while I was laying out on the lounge chair. He went over and chased him away. The next day, the same guy was at it again. My husband had a few choice words for him. Then he went to the front desk and asked to speak to the manager. He told the manager what had been going on and that if he saw the guy staring at me again, "I'm going to kill him." After that, we never saw "Peeping Tom" again. Let me say that my husband was a non-violent person, and that was only said to make an impression. I never knew him to lay a hand on anyone.

Throughout my life, I've had my share of looks, stares, and catcalls. I don't mind if guys take a look, as long as they aren't pigs about it.

Bella ✌️
 
Alligatorob said:
Looking your age doesn't mean you don't look good, and won't be looked at.

Understandable, that is not good behavior. I know it happens, but I don't think most men do that, not to strangers.

I look a lot, but have never commented or catcalled, except to women I knew well and was sure they would take it well.
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It happened quite a bit in the city where I grew up. Once, when I was about fifteen, I was coming home from school and there were construction workers on my block. They all stopped and stared at me, when all I was doing was walking by. It made me very nervous!
 
carouselsilver said:
It happened quite a bit in the city where I grew up. Once, when I was about fifteen, I was coming home from school and there were construction workers on my block. They all stopped and stared at me, when all I was doing was walking by. It made me very nervous!
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When I was a kid in Toronto, about 10 years old, the construction workers would call out things and whistle. It made me really upset to walk past them because I was a really shy kid.
 
Bella said:
Pinky is correct, chef. You are incorrect!
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Compared to how men think about women's bodies, woman's interest is very slight. Women have a MUCH greater interest in a man who can provide 'security'. For women, it's all about the money.

Think about this. Consider all of the "men's magazines" and then ask yourself how many "women's magazines" show completely nude men ? Not a single one that I can think of. If women had much interest in nude men, surely there would be magazines that cater to that interest.

Then, consider the overwhelming number of advertisements that show photos of sexy women as the center of interest.
Take a gander at all of the movie posters/ads. If the ad has BOTH a man and a woman, generally speaking, she is displaying : long sexy legs, low cut tops, a tiny waist, and a tight firm butt. He, on the other hand, is shown strong and "tough" but not much of any skin showing.

Repeat: Men are are overwhelmingly attracted to a young, sexy female body. Women, much, much less so.
Moreover, a very high percentage of women go to GREAT lengths to enhance every bit of their bodies. Jeez, coloring their faces, even spending much time on their nails, hair etc. There is a multi-billion dollar industry geared toward female 'beauty'.

If men thought, for one second, that women would respond to how men dressed, I promise you that men would spend a great deal of time
getting made up.
 
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Alligatorob said:
Not the case in Saudi Arabia! In the time I spent there I could tell nothing about what a woman in a full burqa looked like underneath, nothing but maybe height... Couldn't tell an 80 year old from 18.

Some of the guys I worked with called them walking garbage bags, I didn't but did get their point.

Be grateful most women can choose more revealing clothing, not hard.
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Hey, you don't have to go to Saudi Arabia to see covered up women. Come right here to the apartment block where I live. They all walk around with those god awful masks. I have been here for 10 months and I haven't met 1 woman (I'm a widower). This morning I saw this woman walking down the hallway this as I was returning from my car. About 50 feet in front of me, she puts on this horrible masks so I can't even tell if she is good looking or ugly as sin. She made feel like I was totally diseased.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel. In another 40 hours I will be gone. Life is to short to remain in "The Land of the Living Dead." I figured it out this morning that you don't have to be crazy to live here but it sure helps!
 
Pinky said:
I have a calendar with hot firefighters .. women like eye-candy too!
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Yes, there is SOME truth in that. BUT, the vast majority of women are much, much more interested in his money.

If I had a choice between being extremely handsome, OR ultra rich, I'd chose rich every time.
Look at it this way. Which man would do better with women ? A dead broke handsome young waiter OR a ultra rich senior man ?
 
senior chef said:
Compared to how men think about women's bodies, woman's interest is very slight. Women have a MUCH greater interest in a man who can provide 'security'. For women, it's all about the money.

Think about this. Consider all of the "men's magazines" and then ask yourself how many "women's magazines" show completely nude men ? Not a single one that I can think of. If women had much interest in nude men, surely there would be magazines that cater to that interest.

Then, consider the overwhelming number of advertisements that show photos of sexy women as the center of interest.
Take a gander at all of the movie posters/ads. If the ad has BOTH a man and a woman, generally speaking, she is displaying : long sexy legs, low cut tops, a tiny waist, and a tight firm butt. He, on the other hand, is shown strong and "tough" but not much of any skin showing.

Repeat: Men are are overwhelmingly attracted to a young, sexy female body. Women, much, much less so.
Moreover, a very high percentage of women go to GREAT lengths to enhance every bit of their bodies. Jeez, coloring their faces, even spending much time on their nails, hair etc. There is a multi-billion dollar industry geared toward female 'beauty'.

If men thought, for one second, that women would respond to how men dressed, I promise you that men would spend a great deal of time
getting made up.
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Wrong again! I'm sorry if your experience has been limited to women who are only interested in your bank account. Making a generalization about all women that “it's all about the money” is way off base. And WTH does nudity have to do with anything? Why are you bringing nudity into it? We aren't talking about nudity. 🤨

I'm not going to debate this any further with you, chef. From your misogynistic remarks, I can see that it is a complete waste of my time. There's nothing I can say that will change your perspective. You have an exceedingly low opinion of women. I have no doubt that you are single and will remain so.

Bella ✌️
 
Bella said:
Wrong again! I'm sorry if your experience has been limited to women who are only interested in your bank account. Making a generalization about all women that “it's all about the money” is way off base. And WTH does nudity have to do with anything? Why are you bringing nudity into it? We aren't talking about nudity. 🤨

I'm not going to debate this any further with you, chef. From your misogynistic remarks, I can see that it is a complete waste of my time. There's nothing I can say that will change your perspective. You have an exceedingly low opinion of women. I have no doubt that you are single and will remain so.

Bella ✌️
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Sorry you feel that way, BUT it's a well known fact that money attracts women .
In any event, I never said or implied "ALL WOMEN".
Doubt what i say ? One example of thousands. Henry Kissinger, a powerful, wealthy, very unattractive man was famous for being surrounded by young , sexy women.
 
carouselsilver said:
It happened quite a bit in the city where I grew up. Once, when I was about fifteen, I was coming home from school and there were construction workers on my block. They all stopped and stared at me, when all I was doing was walking by. It made me very nervous!
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It did used to be a construction workers role in life almost, to wolf whistle at every opportunity, though to counter your argument slightly, there must have been quite a few young women getting a boost to their ego through it going on so often, and now its been banned, or disappeared for whatever reason, those chances to be boosted and made to feel good have been taken away to protect those who felt as you did, ("long winded" I know :) ).
 
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senior chef said:
Repeat: Men are are overwhelmingly attracted to a young, sexy female body.
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Can't speak for others, but I am more attracted to women in my age range. I do enjoy looking at young sexy women, but "attracted", no. Not interested in that way in someone who looks like my granddaughter... Feels a bit like being a podophile. Women of the kind who I can actually imagine a relationship with are more interesting.
senior chef said:
money attracts women
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Men too, do you believe Madonna attracted her 20 something based on looks or personality? I doubt it. I find myself paying more attention to people with money... I think most of us do.
 
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Jules said:
When I was a kid in Toronto, about 10 years old, the construction workers would call out things and whistle. It made me really upset to walk past them because I was a really shy kid.
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Men used to get away with that kind of behavior more so than they do now. Usually men who demand an audience to reinforce crude behavior are immature and wanting something they cannot have, hence ridiculing an unattainable object of person simply reinforces the reason why they do not deserve the object of their caveman desire.
 
grahamg said:
It did used to be a construction workers role in life all!ost, to wolf whistle at every opportunity, though to counter your argument slightly, there must have been quite a few young women getting a boost to their ego through it going on so often, and now its been banned, or disappeared for whatever reason, those chances to be boosted and made to feel good have been taken away to protect those who felt as you did, ("long winded" I know :) ).
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senior chef said:
Compared to how men think about women's bodies, woman's interest is very slight. Women have a MUCH greater interest in a man who can provide 'security'. For women, it's all about the money.

Think about this. Consider all of the "men's magazines" and then ask yourself how many "women's magazines" show completely nude men ? Not a single one that I can think of. If women had much interest in nude men, surely there would be magazines that cater to that interest.

Then, consider the overwhelming number of advertisements that show photos of sexy women as the center of interest.
Take a gander at all of the movie posters/ads. If the ad has BOTH a man and a woman, generally speaking, she is displaying : long sexy legs, low cut tops, a tiny waist, and a tight firm butt. He, on the other hand, is shown strong and "tough" but not much of any skin showing.

Repeat: Men are are overwhelmingly attracted to a young, sexy female body. Women, much, much less so.
Moreover, a very high percentage of women go to GREAT lengths to enhance every bit of their bodies. Jeez, coloring their faces, even spending much time on their nails, hair etc. There is a multi-billion dollar industry geared toward female 'beauty'.

If men thought, for one second, that women would respond to how men dressed, I promise you that men would spend a great deal of time
getting made up.
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It is true women think differently than men. For men it is about what is arousing and women it may be about what is attractive to them. Both sexes have wants and needs, For a female, long term sustainability, support and strength to ensure a strong lineage of offspring. Men are different. Most men including myself do not often think about long-term commitment in the heat of the moment, I am driven by attaining , wooing over a woman's prized possession, trust, companionship and loyalty. Not everything is about sex, however, everything is about sex or else we would not be having this discussion.
 
grahamg said:
It did used to be a construction workers role in life all!ost, to wolf whistle at every opportunity, though to counter your argument slightly, there must have been quite a few young women getting a boost to their ego through it going on so often, and now its been banned, or disappeared for whatever reason, those chances to be boosted and made to feel good have been taken away to protect those who felt as you did, ("long winded" I know :) ).
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I had an hilarious encounter with a construction guy years ago. I passed by a site and a worker yelled "Hey Baby, will you Marry Me?" complete with grunts & whistles. Instead of being offended, I realized how ridiculous it was and started laughing. Then he realized how ridiculous it was and he started laughing and before long we were laughing hysterically together and as I was leaving to go about my business he gave me the thumbs up sign. Good memory, still makes me laugh.
 
Clarification: Is it true women always knows where a man's eyes are?
Do women know when a guy looks at her breasts?
Guys, do find it difficult to avoid looking at women's breasts?
 
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senior chef said:
Yes, there is SOME truth in that. BUT, the vast majority of women are much, much more interested in his money.

If I had a choice between being extremely handsome, OR ultra rich, I'd chose rich every time.
Look at it this way. Which man would do better with women ? A dead broke handsome young waiter OR a ultra rich senior man ?
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Oh what a load of crap.
 
senior chef said:
Compared to how men think about women's bodies, woman's interest is very slight. Women have a MUCH greater interest in a man who can provide 'security'. For women, it's all about the money.

Think about this. Consider all of the "men's magazines" and then ask yourself how many "women's magazines" show completely nude men ? Not a single one that I can think of. If women had much interest in nude men, surely there would be magazines that cater to that interest.

Then, consider the overwhelming number of advertisements that show photos of sexy women as the center of interest.
Take a gander at all of the movie posters/ads. If the ad has BOTH a man and a woman, generally speaking, she is displaying : long sexy legs, low cut tops, a tiny waist, and a tight firm butt. He, on the other hand, is shown strong and "tough" but not much of any skin showing.

Repeat: Men are are overwhelmingly attracted to a young, sexy female body. Women, much, much less so.
Moreover, a very high percentage of women go to GREAT lengths to enhance every bit of their bodies. Jeez, coloring their faces, even spending much time on their nails, hair etc. There is a multi-billion dollar industry geared toward female 'beauty'.

If men thought, for one second, that women would respond to how men dressed, I promise you that men would spend a great deal of time
getting made up.
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I guess you never heard of the magazine called "Playgirl " ? Nude men in every edition, full frontal. You need to get out more buddy. JImB.
 
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