Have been doing some extra thinking since Thursday…..I know……scary..…can get myself in trouble by doing that.
My foster daughter messaged me on Tuesday, with her usual 4 words……how are you doing ?
First I heard from her since Chelsea’s birthday on the 29th of November.
She only lives 10 or 11 blocks away.
I guess I said the wrong thing again…..why is it been 2 weeks since I’ve heard from you…..I asked this same question in the middle of November, for the same reason…..and many, many times in the past.
Expressed I was feeling somewhat hurt from very little contact / communication…..why is it like this.
Well she turned the table around, and her feelings were hurt because of my question.
Her excuses……
She doesn’t use messenger much…..
Says her phone doesn’t send notices…..you have to set them to do that, right.
She doesn’t have good communication skills…..
Her history with phones……she’s on her 5th or 6th phone in 5 years.
Has a habit of dropping them……cracks the screen……breaks them……kids uses it, very rough on phones.
She hasn’t any minutes for calls or texting……has to buy them……has to go a hour away to buy them.
Probably having no vehicle must be getting to her……..but……when you spend more than you make……life can be tough.
I have been used, hurt and dumped on from many, through my years, but I didn’t expect this from her.
I give them money for their Christmas tree every year…..and again I had to ask if they got it yet…..she said yes…..sent me a pic…..her phone worked great for that.
I have been so generous with them for so many years…....I’m a slow learner…..I’ll get it someday.

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She as of yet, not mentioned anything about the happenings for Christmas Day.
So……I will quit doing so much thinking about this and wait to hear from her……certainly don’t want to hurt her feelings anymore than apparently I already have.
Ok……done thinking for today…..I’ll go find something else to do.