Christmas Alone

my whole plan for this Christmas was to go and volunteer at the Crises centres, but they are in the city and it means getting there by train, but the rail workers are on strike all over Christmas, so that went out of the window!!
It's a nice idea but maybe you can do it some other time, perhaps this Christmas you should relax, eat well and enjoy the peace in your home and the lovely setting in which you live. If all that doesn't help, remind yourself about the reality of a lot of family Christmasses - nothing like a family Christmas to settle old scores!!! I hope you have a nice day tomorrow 🤶
 

It’s just husband and I for Christmas as always !
! We ve Always loved our own company instead of having argumentative family around us !!
But sadly it’s been slightly different the past 10 yrs since his stroke x
He will sleep a lot and retire early in the evening
But I’m so happy I still have him !

so we re ready for another year” stroke “ !!!
Bring it on ❤️💕
 

My company left at 8 and I finished cleaning up. A friend in my building isn’t feeling well so I dropped off leftovers from the meal I made. I have been doing this every time I cook lately until she’s better and she left a box of good candy at my door. I am exhausted but have been on the go all week. Merry Christmas to all!!!
 
I am living alone and so very much want to move to the town my daughter lives in. I want to bide my time until I can move. The situation I find myself in has driven my actually batty.

I have no one to spend Christmas with this year! Help!!!
Well you can spend Christmas with us! Virtually! I've got some eggnog, some rum, and mistletoe. Cheers to you on Christmas eve!⛄🎄🎄💗
 
I am alone too for Christmas, well except for "Rabbit". I might see other people in my building but maybe not. The fire alarm went off and nobody came out of their apartments. It stopped so don't know what that was about. Not lonely though. Busy is more like it. One of the things I love about being alone is that I can do what I want. Of course, I do that every day but I appreciate it more as I think about past Christmases that weren't so great. No pressure or stress. I didn't even decorate this year (another plus!).
 
I don't know why this year I feel more down than usual. The TV programs and movies about Christmas I usually enjoyed in the past have done nothing for me this year. I cooked a casserole and it just didn't seem that special.
That casserole looked pretty special to me!
Sorry you feel down. Maybe it's still the newness of your house?
Hope you'll feel better tomorrow.
 
That casserole looked pretty special to me!
Sorry you feel down. Maybe it's still the newness of your house?
Hope you'll feel better tomorrow.
I don't think it's the house. If I had to point a finger at a cause, it may be:
1) because of my vision problems
2) the apathy I've encountered about Christmas in other people
3) no family holiday party again this year
4) most of the cards I sent or gave out were not reciprocated.
5) it's barely a white Christmas (there are patches of snow left from the big melt we had here last week, but a lot of lawn peeking up here and there)
6) it's very cold and windy
7) I'm being dunned for some credit card debt that I don't know anything about
8) I have this gnawing feeling something terrible is going to happen this coming year, but I can't say if it will just effect me or the public in gernaral. I always feel like I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop.
 
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Home alone?!? I guess not!
After a lovely family gathering last night, I fully expected to be alone today, getting some dusting done, leftover turkey and trimmings for my dinner.

Wrong? I almost didn't "put my face on" as I expected no one to knock at my door, and thank goodness I did!
I was taking down a giant lighted cardinal I had hanging in window, when a knock came. I answered, and it was the man who lives above me. (I've only been here 3 months)He asked me where I got the decoration. I told him it was a gift a couple of years ago from a friend. He then told me he'd like to buy one as his mom loved cardinals (she's passed on) so he'd like one as a reminder of her. I did remember his mom, she was a very nice lady.

I immediately went and got it, all packed away in its box, and handed it to him. I enjoyed it, but not a favorite of mine.
His face softened, and he said thanks. Then, he stood in the hallway visiting with me for another half an hour. We reminisced about the folks in our small community, where we worked, who we knew, who cleaned snow off our cars, etc.
His wife is in NYC visiting her children, but this man has clients he snow plows for, so he needed to stay here.

Then.....the lady across the hall moved in 2 months ago. I've only spoken to her once. Out came her guests leaving, and a woman I bowled with 35 years ago, recognized me and said it was her daughter who lived there! So we chatted a few minutes, and now I know my neighbor much better!

Small world when we take the time out of our busy lives to chat a bit and slow down.
It's turned out to be a very cheery Christmas Day after all!
 
I don't think it's the house. If I had to point a finger at a cause, it may be:
1) because of my vision problems
2) the apathy I've encountered about Christmas in other people
3) no family holiday party again this year
4) most of the cards I sent or gave out were not reciprocated.
5) it's barely a white Christmas (there are patches of snow left from the big melt we had here last week, but a lot of lawn peeking up here and there)
6) it's very cold and windy
7) I'm being dunned for some credit card debt that I don't know anything about
Well yes, your vision problems are certainly cause for concern. I agree people are wary and scared these days d/t several dangers going on now. We all lost some feelings of festivity I think.

No family party? Next year YOU throw the party! Start planning it now for a smash hit!

Tomorrow is another day.
 
No family party? Next year YOU throw the party! Start planning it now for a smash hit!
I don't think my house is large enough for that and I don't have great furniture for entertaining. It isn't very handicapped accessible (there's no entrance without having to negotiate stairs) and I have an aunt and a cousin for which this would be a problem. I have cousins and aunts that have better venues, why don't they take up the slack for the cousin that apparently doesn't want to do it anymore?
 
It’s just husband and I for Christmas as always !
! We ve Always loved our own company instead of having argumentative family around us !!
But sadly it’s been slightly different the past 10 yrs since his stroke x
He will sleep a lot and retire early in the evening
But I’m so happy I still have him !

so we re ready for another year” stroke “ !!!
Bring it on ❤️💕
I had a stroke two years ago, but it wasn't severe, and I am grateful for it. I know several people who have had stroke that was debilitating. My husband died of a massive stroke almost 10 years ago. I am grateful that you still have your husband! Merry Christmas!
 
I don't know why this year I feel more down than usual. The TV programs and movies about Christmas I usually enjoyed in the past have done nothing for me this year. I cooked a casserole and it just didn't seem that special.
Sorry you're experiencing this! What kind of casserole did you cook? Sounds scrumptious. Enjoy whatever the day brings. ❤️
 
Home alone?!? I guess not!
After a lovely family gathering last night, I fully expected to be alone today, getting some dusting done, leftover turkey and trimmings for my dinner.

Wrong? I almost didn't "put my face on" as I expected no one to knock at my door, and thank goodness I did!
I was taking down a giant lighted cardinal I had hanging in window, when a knock came. I answered, and it was the man who lives above me. (I've only been here 3 months)He asked me where I got the decoration. I told him it was a gift a couple of years ago from a friend. He then told me he'd like to buy one as his mom loved cardinals (she's passed on) so he'd like one as a reminder of her. I did remember his mom, she was a very nice lady.

I immediately went and got it, all packed away in its box, and handed it to him. I enjoyed it, but not a favorite of mine.
His face softened, and he said thanks. Then, he stood in the hallway visiting with me for another half an hour. We reminisced about the folks in our small community, where we worked, who we knew, who cleaned snow off our cars, etc.
His wife is in NYC visiting her children, but this man has clients he snow plows for, so he needed to stay here.

Then.....the lady across the hall moved in 2 months ago. I've only spoken to her once. Out came her guests leaving, and a woman I bowled with 35 years ago, recognized me and said it was her daughter who lived there! So we chatted a few minutes, and now I know my neighbor much better!

Small world when we take the time out of our busy lives to chat a bit and slow down.
It's turned out to be a very cheery Christmas Day after all!
What a wonderful day for you! You brought good feelings to those around you. Merry Christmas!
 
My day turned out okay. I had two visitors, my two friends who live here. One had to come down the stairs (and had to go back up them only with her cane) because it turns out that our elevator is not working today. She said upstairs on the elevator button someone put a sign that says "Merry Christmas! Elevator is not working today".

I found plenty to do and the day seemed to fly by me.
 
Hey @Buckeye, Merry Christmas to you! I love your posts
I had a stroke two years ago, but it wasn't severe, and I am grateful for it. I know several people who have had stroke that was debilitating. My husband died of a massive stroke almost 10 years ago. I am grateful that you still have your husband! Merry Christmas!
Sorry you had a stroke and I’m so pleased it wasn’t severe

yes I’m so glad I still have him with me as he is my soul mate
But I don’t think my husband would agree with that !!
Bless him x he’s sat in an armchair or laid in a bed for 10 yrs !! 🥲🥲
 


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