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Yes this number sure makes a difference and not knowing it is frustrating. Though knowing it would probably indicate some really bad news.one number you can't fit into any equation to figure out if you have enough...when you will die.
First, I was using 5M as a easy to manipulate example. I don't have 5M, either!I was forced to continue working until I was 46.......... that was 34 years ago....I'd've preferred never to have started, but I bit the proverbial bullet and stuck it out, (not continuously of course).
We have nowhere near the $5 million that Sawfish mentioned, (I'm not sure I could see it from here even if I stood on the roof)......but we handle our own finances/investments and have never spent more than we bring in, (the Micawber Principle), and generally the outgo is considerably less. We're not spenders, there's basically nothing we want, and we have what we need, but we do like to travel......on our terms...which is close to ground level because that's what we enjoy.......chacun à son goût I guess.
I've been divorced once, widowed once.......never had kids, never wanted kids......now, thanks to my supervisor, (the love of my life), I have 5 granddaughters whom I adore. If the proverbial nest egg continues to appreciate, once we're gone they, and everyone else in our will, are welcome to it. (We're unlikely to come knocking on their doors asking for it back.)Let me ask: how many here have kids and if so, to what degree does the desire to leave a financial legacy to them affect your retirement lifestyle?
Money is the lubricant of lifeWelcome, @Sippican ! I never prepared for retirement, because I thought Prince Charming would take care of such things. I also never made much money.
A few years before I retired, I found out how much the Canadian public pensions amounted to, and it sounded like an awful lot to me. But things changed, and I ended up moving to a "dying" town just to afford rent. I'm doing okay, but things are tight.
Occasionally a young person asks me if I have any advice for them. I tell them to try to put a little money aside, even if it's only 5% of their income.
People say money isn't important, they're happy with this and that. Well, I can't afford this or that!
Thanks! Love the Gold Coast and The Rocks!
I mistakenly made it sound different than it is. We watched our spending all of our lives, if we wanted a vacation or to buy something we planned and saved for it. After over 50 years of living like that, it has become our preferred way of living. Therefore, when we retired nothing changed, we know how much we spend and have emergency money set aside for unexpected problems including health issues. We are comfortable and have only the limitations we have always had...it works very well for us.Sounds like you are living the life most folks dream of!
I have 3 boys. All in their 30's and successful.Let me ask: how many here have kids and if so, to what degree does the desire to leave a financial legacy to them affect your retirement lifestyle?
We have one daughter. I was almost 50 when she was born and by then I had lived the life of a childless old male, and had been fairly self-indulgent, within reason.
So after she got going I wanted to get the best life-toolkit for her (carefully selected private college prep K-12--I tool 4 years selecting and treated it as if I were taking an investment position in her name), then get her thru college with no debt.
This is all done.
Then I wanted to increase/enhance our own financial position without increasing personal expenditures other than for inflation. Happily, my wife seems to be on board with this.
Finally, we set up an estate strategy that made sense, spent perhaps a year at it. I'm fairly pleased with it--any substantial improvements would require us to move from a tenancy-in-common state to a community property state.
These kinds of considerations have really dictated how I'm living right now, which is to try to continue to expand our financial positions.
Exactly. It's fat put away for lean times.Money is the lubricant of life
Yes.I mistakenly made it sound different than it is. We watched our spending all of our lives, if we wanted a vacation or to buy something we planned and saved for it. After over 50 years of living like that, it has become our preferred way of living. Therefore, when we retired nothing changed, we know how much we spend and have emergency money set aside for unexpected problems including health issues. We are comfortable and have only the limitations we have always had...it works very well for us.
If I may ask: where is the Gold Coast you referred to?I have 3 boys. All in their 30's and successful.
They always tell me to spend my money and don't worry about them.
So, when it comes to leaving a financial legacy, it will be towards my grandchildren. Making sure that my Trust spells out exactly when and how they can withdraw funds.
I bought a life insurance policy so my daughter would have "something." Some time later, I couldn't afford the payments any more. But she was already doing waaaay better than me.Let me ask: how many here have kids and if so, to what degree does the desire to leave a financial legacy to them affect your retirement lifestyle?
The Gold Coast is a metropolitan region south of Brisbane on Australia’s east coast. It's famed for its long sandy beaches, surfing spots and elaborate system of inland canals and waterways. Many wineries in the area.If I may ask: where is the Gold Coast you referred to?
I used to live on the central coast of CA, near San Luis Obispo. This region called itself the Gold Coast, but the only rock was Morro Rock, so you must be talking about another place.
Thats one way to put it!Exactly. It's fat put away for lean times.
It is the grease that allows you to squeeze thru places you'd not otherwise be able to pass.
Oh, and the Rocks....is a section of Sydney that is a favorite area for bars and clubs. Back in the day, its where the first inhabitants landed there and were also called aboriginals. I mentioned in my response because the writer was from Australia.If I may ask: where is the Gold Coast you referred to?
I used to live on the central coast of CA, near San Luis Obispo. This region called itself the Gold Coast, but the only rock was Morro Rock, so you must be talking about another place.
Newcastle?The Gold Coast is a metropolitan region south of Brisbane on Australia’s east coast. It's famed for its long sandy beaches, surfing spots and elaborate system of inland canals and waterways. Many wineries in the area.
I think I would really have liked Australia.Oh, and the Rocks....is a section of Sydney that is a favorite area for bars and clubs. Back in the day, its where the first inhabitants landed there and were also called aboriginals. I mentioned in my response because the writer was from Australia.
Live your best life, everyday, because you never know if there will be a tomorrow.Yes this number sure makes a difference and not knowing it is frustrating. Though knowing it would probably indicate some really bad news.
Before I retired the company I worked at had retirement topic webinars, and one of them taught that people need to have 5 years more money than they think they will need, in order to have the confidence to spend what they can afford in retirement.
I just can't figure out what the base number is. According to the Social Security website, a woman my age can expect to live to age 88, so if I add 5 years to that it would be 93. But, otoh I've read that genetics is the biggest factor in life expectancy and when I add up my parents and grandparents ages at death (and add in some years to compensate for a couple of them smoking), it seems like genetically I only have until 79 yr as my life expectancy. Maybe I can add a couple years for being female and for improvements in health care, but that just ups it to 83.
So I think realistically 88 yrs would include the 5 extra years recommended by the webinar.
Gee, maybe I should go to Amazon and order that fan I wanted.