I miss America

A big part of the problem with America is that a large segment of the population chooses to live in an alternate reality -- one created by big business to polarize our country so the rich can get richer and more powerful. That segment of the population completely disregards fact that don't conform to their world view.
 

In my experience, fifty years ago, it was simply easier to get away with such behaviour. Sadly, I know this all too well.
Violent behavior, you mean? 50yrs ago, that depended on what type of community you lived in. That's true today as well, but it seems reasonable to me that there were way more tight-knit communities 50yrs ago than there are today. For instance, when I was a kid, small communities along the Sacramento River "pocket" area didn't tolerate criminal behavior, so it just didn't happen there. Young ladies and kids were safe, robberies didn't happen, etc.

Not true today. Those small communities grew into huge residential areas, Karen hates her neighbor, gangs popped up, and Bob's your uncle.

But it's true we're way better at solving crimes.
 
Unfortunately there is truth to that. It makes looking at statistics a bit harder.
I think what Shalimar may be referring to are domestic issues such as; domestic violence, wives and children being beaten in their home, minors being sexually abused, etc. Back in the day, people avoided being embarrassed by reporting these incidents.

We never knew what went on behind closed doors. In our small town, we had a lady up the street from our house that would have a black eye, broken wrist and other injuries from time to time. My mom would say, “I see Mrs. Smith got beaten again over the weekend.” She never reported it, but we all knew her husband was a drunk and smacked her and the kids around.
 

Every generation has had its cross to bear, and I've been through several. But all things being relative, I find that both David777 and Murrmurr have the better handle on this thread.

For instance, I was born at the height of the Great Depression in 1933. Times were tough for both the haves and have-nots. The world survived, and some folks even have fond memories of those days.

As the 40s approached and WWII was underway, I became very aware of the world around me. Sad and tragic as war is, we pulled together, and I can remember many families still were able to enjoy life.

When the war ended and the post-war brought men home with hopes and dreams for a much enlightened future. It was boom time, with education opening up to one and all, everyone able to work and buy homes and marry. It was the time for the Boomer generation to join us. They were great years, even though another war in Korea interrupted some of our lives. Even I am a Korean War vet.

When the 60s gave us a young president with vision, we were all agog. He was sorely tested with the miscommunications of the Bay of Pigs incident, the building of the Berlin Wall, and then the Cuban Missile crisis. And, Holly, I will add here; it had everything to do with yours and all nations on this globe. Had not JFK stuck to his resolve, we'd have been catapulted into WWIII, make no mistake about that. His brother and his military leaders were pushing him to wipe Cuba off the map. But, having had a front row seat to WWII which nearly cost him his life, he prevented it from happening. We breathed a collective sigh of relief, but, sadly, someone wasn't happy. He was assassinated, and thus really began our loss of innocence. Vietnam came along, and with it, anger and cynicism ensued. We lost faith in our leaders. The media blasted us daily with negatives and haven't let up.

Internal strife during the late 60s throughout the 70s and 80s have continued non-stop into the present day.

Technology has, like all modern advances, been both good and bad. Closing mental institutions was inherently wrong, yet those running them were sometimes worse than the patients. No one seems to have bothered to find a solution to this problem. All manner of mental aberrations has been around for generations, but, we were not made aware of same due to lack of communications. So much more could be said about all of this thread and what we miss or not miss. Each of us faces all our difficulties with the world daily, yet I perceive most have some level of contentment. There are a few here,
I have observed, who do not find joy at all in the past. I suspect they find no joy in the present either.

I, for one, choose not to be bitter over those injustices of the past nor present. Yet will continue to look for solutions to right all wrongs as they come along. And, yes, I do miss the America I so enjoyed of the past, but am happy where I am today as well.
 
I really think the whole world is going crazy not just America.
You got that right. I live in Canada. Two years ago, they were building everywhere 3rd toilets because "men" and "women" did not suite special people. Apparently, they were not "comfortable" using toilets that said "men" or "women." Go figure!

Today Canadians are wondering which of the 73 types of genders they are? Canadians are more confused then ever! Me? I am all "man" and I have absolutely no problem with that. Guess I am not Politically correct.

I tell you the truth! No shortage of crazies north of the 49th Parallel!
 
Or a rerun of The Dark Ages.......either way, none of us will be around to comment.
Life … It’s not the same for everyone, thank goodness!
Yeah, ya just never know but as horrible as things are,
I’m pretty sure that they aren’t horrible for everyone.
Grandchildren, great or great-great grands, yeah, they’ll
inherit whatever future comes, good or bad, they’ll make
the best if it, same as anyone. It’s just too bad that it’s
hindsight and not foresight that’s so easy to view.
 
Yep, the Eisenhower administration along with France and England installed a brutal right-wing Christian dictator in a land of Communistic Buddhists and then sent advisors in to help the dictator fight Vietnam's civil war. Kennedy inherited the mess and was reluctant to escalate our involvement.
 
I, for one, choose not to be bitter over those injustices of the past nor present. Yet will continue to look for solutions to right all wrongs as they come along. And, yes, I do miss the America I so enjoyed of the past, but am happy where I am today as well.
That's the attitude we need. Yes, the past sucked let's make tomorrow better.
 
What I've been doing for quite a while is to make *my* life, and to whatever degree I can, the lives of those close to me, as good as they can be realistically. At this limited scope I can effect a fair amount of control over some things, and as I broaden my scope, my degree of control drops very quickly, so what't the point, really?

This keeps busy, keeps my mind off of the truly cruddy crap I see daily, and gives a sense of satisfaction.

I mean, really, it's the best I can do with it.
 
I really think the whole world is going crazy not just America.
I agree. This is Global. England is in bad shape for sure with almost a national strike, it seems. Maybe some civil unrest is called for. It's up to us to effect change. Those in charge are unconcerned about us small folk. :unsure:
 
In the UK... it's not MY perception things have changed almost beyond recognition .. and the people too...
Agreed, my wife and I came down with a flu-like virus, I recovered, she deteriorated. Decades ago our own doctor, or locum, would have come out to her. Last night the NHS 111 service sent her to A&E. There could be a possibility that she has the corona virus. After two hours wait a doctor came and announced that it could be as much as a further nine hours before seeing a doctor.

In 2023, my wife's medical care amounts to. "Go home, drink plenty of fluids, monitor your temperature hourly, if things worsen, call an ambulance. She's in bed now, no worse but far from improving. If I call an out of hours doctor I will get transferred to 111 and round we go again. Tomorrow, I am registering us with The Nuffield private health care, we shall go private from now on.
 
Agreed, my wife and I came down with a flu-like virus, I recovered, she deteriorated. Decades ago our own doctor, or locum, would have come out to her. Last night the NHS 111 service sent her to A&E. There could be a possibility that she has the corona virus. After two hours wait a doctor came and announced that it could be as much as a further nine hours before seeing a doctor.

In 2023, my wife's medical care amounts to. "Go home, drink plenty of fluids, monitor your temperature hourly, if things worsen, call an ambulance. She's in bed now, no worse but far from improving. If I call an out of hours doctor I will get transferred to 111 and round we go again. Tomorrow, I am registering us with The Nuffield private health care, we shall go private from now on.
yes this is normal nowadays... which is heartbreaking for us all. This week the media have been full of stories about people who have died from lack of an ambulance attending .. 11 hours for one 36 year old who died.... 14 hours for a 65 year old who died... In fact there was a survey which found that at least 500 people every year are dying simply from lack of care caused by no attention from a Doctor, who would otherwise be saved.

I had Private medical Insurance, right up until last year.. when O/H left, and withdrew our couples policy. Unfortunately I can't afford it on my own now.

Wishing Mrs HC a very speedy recovery.. and incidentally HC.. just in case you don't know , Mrs HC can be seen by a private doctor out of pocket in your area for now, while you wait for your insurance... Just google Private GP in your area, and she can be seen asap..for anywhere between £70 and £130.. terrible situation but when needs must !
 


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