hollydolly
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- London England
BMI........nope, don't go by that either. Wife and I know that we could (should?) lose some 20 pounds, but even that is hard to do at our age and have to give up some of the foods we eat. When my wife says "I'm fat", I show her photos of men and women online who are really overweight.......much, much more than 20 pounds. She smiles and doesn't complain anymore.
Sorry CR but didn't you mention before that both you and your wife are diabetic?