@chic ... you are not alone.
There are some people who will always be willing to drink the kool-aid or live their lives as a sheeple & go along with the herd mentality. For whatever reason, it seems to make them feel superior to others because they do this & are our proud to admit it. By lumping everyone as a anti-vaxxer reinforces this to them, even though most are not anti-vaxxers, but stood against one shot that wasn't thoroughly vetted & rushed to market.
They are so fixated on this one disease, that they fail to realize what other illnesses & diseases they come in contact with everyday. And this was happening prior to covid. Staph infections, E-coli, salmonella, hepatitis, MRSA, aids, STDs, regular TB, antibiotic resistant TB (from our south border), pneumonia, measles & that's not all. The only way you wouldn't is if you never left your home.
A couple of our friends had mild to moderate cases of covid & only one person we knew in his 90's passed from it. No one else we knew told us of anyone they knew who died from it.
I had the first two shots & I will not do that again. No booster for either myself or my husband. My kids made their own mind up about the shots & decided not to get them. I stand by their decisions.