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Ruthanne I do not know you very well and have enjoyed reading some of your posts. I do not know what you are specifically referencing but I am sorry you feel the way you do. Of course, we all have to do what is best for us emotionally so I wish you only all the best whether you stay or go or go and come back.
From the comments it is obvious many here appreciate you and perhaps that will be an incentive for you to stay (or return.)
Briefly I will share what I did when things became nasty and I felt the desire to leave one particular board years ago. I decided to stay and practice patience and look at interpreting messages and try to imagine the reasons/causes for the attackers to be so negative and at times vicious. I based some of my ideas on exercises I read in self-help books found online. It took a while (years lol) but I can honestly say it was the best decision I could have made..It made all the difference in how to handle criticism.
Just a thought...wishing you well!! 🙏 🌷
 
@Ruthanne
I am sincerely sorry from my whole heart that you are feeling this way.
I’m not going to tell you to get over it, or ignore what you’ve experienced…..when hurt has happened.
I will say…..you do what is best for you to heal. 🌹.
I wish for you not to leave SF…..if a break is needed…..I understand…..but….. please…..don’t make your absence permanent.

I feel I’m repeating myself with the following comment…..

There are those who practise unkindness, rudeness, and attacks far too often.
SF is for all of us to enjoy…..not just for a selected few.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion…..but not if one is racking others opinions over the coals.

One member is no better than another member……we are all equal here as adults, and members.

We, I for one, am not here to run a race in how many messages or responses one receives.
I’m here to learn, share, and care about others and for others.

We shouldn’t have to fix what should have not been broken, in the first place.

Ruthanne……please find it in your heart to stay…..you are a valued member. 🌹.
 
Serenity4321 said:
Ruthanne I do not know you very well and have enjoyed reading some of your posts. I do not know what you are specifically referencing but I am sorry you feel the way you do. Of course, we all have to do what is best for us emotionally so I wish you only all the best whether you stay or go or go and come back.
From the comments it is obvious many here appreciate you and perhaps that will be an incentive for you to stay (or return.)
Briefly I will share what I did when things became nasty and I felt the desire to leave one particular board years ago. I decided to stay and practice patience and look at interpreting messages and try to imagine the reasons/causes for the attackers to be so negative and at times vicious. I based some of my ideas on exercises I read in self-help books found online. It took a while (years lol) but I can honestly say it was the best decision I could have made..It made all the difference in how to handle criticism.
Just a thought...wishing you well!! 🙏 🌷
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I hope your endeavors keep you safe and smiling along your journey and God bless you
 
I am so sorry you feel you need to leave @Ruthanne . I will miss you. Hope you decide to come back again soon. Timeouts were created by God to help us heal from the daily hurts sent by the devil. A warm embrace for you when you come around again. There's always a friend or two here if you know where to look for them.

Peace from Chic.

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Well, some folks come and some folks go. Perhaps Ruthanne, you just need a wee bit of a holiday from all these postings. I enjoy pretty well all of the postings. The reason is that I live in a very politically correct country and for me, this is one of the last bastions of free speech that I love so much. I don't think anyone should leave this site due to pressure from anyone. Shame on any bullies that might be "stinking up" this forum.

When I post, I might be right and I might be wrong but it does my little heart a world of good to say my 2 cents worth. It will be a very sad world when all of us are only permitted to repeat what the media tells us or what is expected for us to say. FREEDOM AND FREEDOM OF SPEECH; MAY IT NEVER DIE!
 

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