Do you find it weird to have children who are seniors themselves?

I mean it makes me feel absolutely ancient! One daughter will be sixty-one come Sunday, the other is fifty-six. What happened to my life? Where did it go? What happened to my little girls? At one time I considered sixty to be old and now my precious first born is there! I can't believe it!
so your children are roughly the same age as me and lots of others here... :D...
 

Yes, I keep forgetting that being senior starts at fifty and that not everyone is as old as I! I won't get too many responses to this discussion, that's for sure! So, you youngsters, just forget about the subject! :LOL:
I've said before that it's like two generations here and there are big differences between them.

I say this next thing as a generalization. Retirement age used to be 65 and early retirement was 62 or maybe 60. I'm not sure where 50 is the retirement age now. Maybe it's just a discount. :ROFLMAO:
 
I've said before that it's like two generations here and there are big differences between them.

I say this next thing as a generalization. Retirement age used to be 65 and early retirement was 62 or maybe 60. I'm not sure where 50 is the retirement age now. Maybe it's just a discount. :ROFLMAO:
When I mention fifty, that's when one of our grocery chains, and some fast food joints would start giving us seniors' discounts. I took full advantage of it even though I certainly didn't feel like a senior! But from then on, senior starts at fifty, got stuck in my brain.:)
 
Yes, I keep forgetting that being senior starts at fifty and that not everyone is as old as I! I won't get too many responses to this discussion, that's for sure! So, you youngsters, just forget about the subject! :LOL:
Seriously, the only place I've seen calling a 50 year old a senior is right here at the forum. A senior citizen is 65 technically whether or not someone retires early. It's always been like that... and it's when Medicare eligibility begins.
 
Over the years working in nursing homes, I have always been amazed when a person in their 70's & 80's, comes in to visit their moms or dads that are still alive. In the previous facility that I worked at, there were two women who well over 100 years old. One was 104, & the other was 108. But of course by then, there was nothing much left of their mind.
 
Yes, I keep forgetting that being senior starts at fifty and that not everyone is as old as I! I won't get too many responses to this discussion, that's for sure! So, you youngsters, just forget about the subject! :LOL:
No, I think about this because my children are in their forties now. Well, the youngest is almost there.
So, I think "How did I get middle aged children?"
They are discussing health issues, dealing with deaths in the family as in being executors. Grey hair, wrinkles, weight issues.
They're advising us on life issues, taking about THEIR retirements.
Wow! I get it!
 
See my # 11 Kate!
:eek: Well then I'd boycott the durn place for trying to call me a senior citizen at age 50! Just kidding... kind of. There was a place I was buying a ticket in Florida a number of years ago... and the whippersnapper behind the cash register asked if I wanted a senior discount ticket instead of regular adult. I was like 51 at the time and I turned it down and fumed silently for the rest of the day. :ROFLMAO: Senior citizen... bah!
 
I mean it makes me feel absolutely ancient! One daughter will be sixty-one come Sunday, the other is fifty-six. What happened to my life? Where did it go? What happened to my little girls? At one time I considered sixty to be old and now my precious first born is there! I can't believe it!
That happened to my Dad when I turned sixty, he was eighty-eight, talk about freaked out. Years later, Dad by now had passed away, we attended the funeral of family member. At that funeral was our four-year-old bridesmaid, she turns sixty next birthday. Not having children, having grown retired adult children is not something I would expect to experience. My little four-year-old bridesmaid absolutely freaked me out. (Did I just hear my Dad chuckle?)
 
:eek: Well then I'd boycott the durn place for trying to call me a senior citizen at age 50! Just kidding... kind of. There was a place I was buying a ticket in Florida a number of years ago... and the whippersnapper behind the cash register asked if I wanted a senior discount ticket instead of regular adult. I was like 51 at the time and I turned it down and fumed silently for the rest of the day. :ROFLMAO: Senior citizen... bah!
My wife and I didn't mind. It was TEN percent off! :LOL: Wendy's Burgers tasted even better with the discount!
 
My daughter has quite a way to go before she's a senior 😊 but
when that happens, I'm sure it will feel all kinds of strange, yes. She
was born in '84.
My daughter was born in '83, This Sept she will turn 40. i think her feelings will hurt if her brothers don't tease her (because that's a 'love language' for them) about being 'over the hill'.
 
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I can't speak for myself, but it really bothered my mom when she noticed my hair turning silver, to the point she had to mention it. I couldn't do anything about it except dyeing it, and I wouldn't do that.
One my sisters (about 6 yrs older than i am) was the one bothered by my getting grey streaks and was constantly trying to get me to dye it. Why? Because she'd been dying hers for years and everyone we mutually knew (friends, professors when i went to college in my late 40s that she'd had a decade before) knew i was younger. She didn't want them figuring out she dyed hers. i told her to tell them that since we only shared Dad's DNA not both parents that i probably got the genes to do with hair from my Mom.

There was no way i'd dye my hair--i spent too many years putting up with people who didn't know me well being dismissive of my opinion because they thought i was much younger than i actually was. i did get those genes from my Mom. In my 40s the only thing that betrayed my age was the grey hair and some of the things i'd lived thru. The gap is closing now between what people guess me to be and what i am, but many still think i'm a bit younger than almost 77.
 

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