Unless it's a copper, in which case, they're probably about to arrest you!I haven't flirted with anyone since 1984 so I don't really remember what I used to do. But I seem to remember that if someone places a hand on your shoulder or touches your hand while talking to you, it means they are interested. Of course, it may just being friendly...I can't really tell.
That should have been all in past-tense, btw.I don't flirt, per se, I just go talk to the lady if she seems receptive....and you can see that in her eyes. It's really obvious. Dilated pupils, I guess; a little twinkle and a slight but perceptible smile.
I just go say "Hi, how are you?" and if she gives a friendly answers, I say "I'm Frank" and offer a handshake. Then I ask if she's new to the neighborhood or the club...depends where we are, but it's a fresher version of the ol' "Do you come here often?" line.
Then we simply have a conversation. That's when I learn if she's conceited, intelligent, interesting, has a sense of humor, and, of course, game.
I saw someone do that to a lady in a coffee shop a year or so ago (hand on shoulder while trying to talk to her)... she yelled at the poor dude "why the hell are you touching me?!"I haven't flirted with anyone since 1984 so I don't really remember what I used to do. But I seem to remember that if someone places a hand on your shoulder or touches your hand while talking to you, it means they are interested. Of course, it may just being friendly...I can't really tell.
Awkward!
LOL. I wondered.That should have been all in past-tense, btw.
gerrouttta here... you just let Michelle slap your booty and you were putty in her hands....I don't flirt, per se, I just go talk to the lady if she seems receptive....and you can see that in her eyes. It's really obvious. Dilated pupils, I guess; a little twinkle and a slight but perceptible smile.
I just go say "Hi, how are you?" and if she gives a friendly answers, I say "I'm Frank" and offer a handshake. Then I ask if she's new to the neighborhood or the club...depends where we are, but it's a fresher version of the ol' "Do you come here often?" line.
Then we simply have a conversation. That's when I learn if she's conceited, intelligent, interesting, has a sense of humor, and, of course, game.
Well, that's true. That's how I knew she was a keeper.gerrouttta here... you just let Michelle slap your booty and you were putty in her hands....
Don't have any
Not a clue
Always thought so
Perish the thought. Last thing I need is one more thing to take care of.
Agree with all replies.
I guess I was thinking back to my bar hopping days in Chicago. Crowded bars, everybody just milling around, trying not to knock someone's drink out their hand. A hand on the shoulder could mean, "sorry, I need to get around you" or "I've had too many vodka gimlets and I need to steady myself" or "stay here, I'll get us another drink". But that was years ago, before it was politically incorrect to touch another person.I saw someone do that to a lady in a coffee shop a year or so ago (hand on shoulder while trying to talk to her)... she yelled at the poor dude "why the hell are you touching me?!"
Or take advantage of. Perspective counts.
If you claim anyone ever fell for that one, not gonna believe ya, Jim!
Did you used to, though?
