Guys Only Question: What are you looking for in a Woman?

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Guys Only: What are you looking for in a woman? What attracts to that certain female? Be honest.
My question rose after reading the thread Women Who constantly Seek to be Desirable to Men.
I would like to hear the male perspective of this.
 

Adrian Belew. The Ideal Woman

She's demure...Friendly...Loving and good-looking
Good-looking and wealthy
She is tall, pretty, thin blonde
A loving person, great personality, fun to be with
Independent, gorgeous, rich, powerful
Liberal yet she's very romantic
Of course, she'd have to have the perfect figure...

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Everyone I meet says she's beautiful...

Blonde hair, blue eyes, about 5' 6"
Well,blonde about 5' 8"
Blonde about 5' 9"
36" 24" 36"

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I dream about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...

Not necessarily beautiful, but...

Lovely...Sexy...She's contagious
Talented...Creative...Controllable
Very fashionable... Good religious woman
She's extremely mobile
Silent...Electrostatic... Enigmatic
My wife...My mother
Pretty with hairy legs...


Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...



 

againstthegrain said:
Adrian Belew. The Ideal Woman

She's demure...Friendly...Loving and good-looking
Good-looking and wealthy
She is tall, pretty, thin blonde
A loving person, great personality, fun to be with
Independent, gorgeous, rich, powerful
Liberal yet she's very romantic
Of course, she'd have to have the perfect figure...

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Everyone I meet says she's beautiful...

Blonde hair, blue eyes, about 5' 6"
Well,blonde about 5' 8"
Blonde about 5' 9"
36" 24" 36"

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I dream about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...

Not necessarily beautiful, but...

Lovely...Sexy...She's contagious
Talented...Creative...Controllable
Very fashionable... Good religious woman
She's extremely mobile
Silent...Electrostatic... Enigmatic
My wife...My mother
Pretty with hairy legs...


Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...
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You forgot to mention the mega-squillions that she won on the national lottery!
 
I'm not sure whether this is asking about attracting a guy, or what interests him in creating and sustaining a relationship after some introduction?

But I always have a terrible go of it with these threads, so I won't say more.
 
Now? I don't make distinctions based on sex. :)

16 - any girl that would dance slow. 22 - a brown haired brown eyed stable loving young woman ( 2 children ) 30 - divorced, professional musician, real hot sexy thing, 34- my spiritual soul mate trophy wife #2 42- not looking...bump into Misa...beautiful, caring, smart, loves nature, best friend...still together. :)
 
Hard to say exactly because it could be a number things that attract me to my ideal woman. Some physical features I am not attracted to and it doesnā€™t have anything to do with race or cultural differences. I find by the magic of right place/right time that special someone happens without so much as a single prompt.
 
A woman that looks at me with lustful eyes, without hesitation. I would like to wake up in the morning thinking thoughts about her naked. I had "good enough" chemistry with the prior women. That's not good enough anymore.
 
Vicky said:
Guys Only: What are you looking for in a woman?
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I've found the one woman I need, and we've been happily married for 46 years.
Vicky said:
What attracts to that certain female? Be honest.
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I was attracted to her attitude, her smile, and her thoughtfulness. She has always given me a different point of view, and always supported me in my plans. We have grown together over the years, had some wild years, some nurturing years, some stressful years, and are now happily retired.
Vicky said:
My question rose after reading the thread Women Who constantly Seek to be Desirable to Men.
I would like to hear the male perspective of this.
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I think being "desirable" belongs to the beginning of a relationship, and every woman has their own allure. Too much stereotyping is going on, and each person must find out who they are rather than trying to adapt to stereotypes. The most attractive aspects of a person for me are a confident smile and feeling comfortable with themsleves.

Everybody has their own preferences, taken from their prototypes, but these may also be preferences for what attributes you don't want, rather than those you do. For me, it was not all about sexual attraction, although that was there too, but about the tender moments of sharing our dreams and making plans.

A good relationship slowly develops into being two sides of the proverbial coin, extending that confidence and comfortable feeling to encompass both parties. To be lasting, a relationship must work on retaining that confidence with each other through all the tribulations that can come. I found the yin-yang symbol a good way of showing the intimacy of a relationship.
 
It seems to me that looking for someone who checks the boxes is too regimented. I think it's more about chemistry, and you know it when you find it. When you just enjoy each other so much that you can hardly stand being apart, then it's right, and there's not much point trying to see if she measures up to some idealistic image you might have entertained. Just let natural attraction guide you.
 
Not actively looking. Well not at least currently. Rather not involved in mating activities like those many men that are constantly so. Not a preoccupation. Think about it rarely. Friends, trusting first.

Just living my active life. Difficult person to otherwise approach. Well hidden. Retired from work. Not involved in community.

Ideal woman would be intelligent, educated, emotionally stable, communicative, economically set, involved in some similar activities, especially outdoor nature pursuits and science, athletic, fit, dancer.
 
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againstthegrain said:
Adrian Belew. The Ideal Woman

She's demure...Friendly...Loving and good-looking
Good-looking and wealthy
She is tall, pretty, thin blonde
A loving person, great personality, fun to be with
Independent, gorgeous, rich, powerful
Liberal yet she's very romantic
Of course, she'd have to have the perfect figure...

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Everyone I meet says she's beautiful...

Blonde hair, blue eyes, about 5' 6"
Well,blonde about 5' 8"
Blonde about 5' 9"
36" 24" 36"

Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I dream about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...

Not necessarily beautiful, but...

Lovely...Sexy...She's contagious
Talented...Creative...Controllable
Very fashionable... Good religious woman
She's extremely mobile
Silent...Electrostatic... Enigmatic
My wife...My mother
Pretty with hairy legs...


Everywhere she goes she's beautiful
Everyone I know says she's beautiful
And I deram about her even in my sleep
Even with her clothes on she's beautiful...



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What is so wonderful about blonde hair? I was, naturally. a blue eyed, fair skinned brunette. I used to have men say to me. "You'd be a ten if you were blonde." Well, after I started to go gray I turned "blonde" and strange things happened. In traffic young men will pull up beside me to check out the front view of the blonde. We look at each other and laugh, but I still get followed around the grocery store from men my age, even after they've seen the front view. I just don't get it.
 
I admit there are certain things that intially attract me to a woman, a healthy and natural appearance, calm personality, intelligent eyes, age appropriate dress. Then you move on to personality, intelligence, how they speak, how they interact with others, habits and lifestyles, etc.

I've also been surprised by becoming attracted to women who didn't necessarily fit my criteria, maybe that's simple chemistry.

I think I keep an open mind but admit to being more focused on deal breakers. If a woman smokes I'm not interested, drinks excessively, I'm out, laughs like a hyena at the end of every sentence, I'm walking away. Living in debt, living in a mess, being hysterical, being disorganized, all turn offs for me.

Thinking about all my wants and not wants is kind of exhausting, no wonder I haven't been on a date in four years.
 
Della said:
What is so wonderful about blonde hair? I was, naturally. a blue eyed, fair skinned brunette. I used to have men say to me. "You'd be a ten if you were blonde." Well, after I started to go gray I turned "blonde" and strange things happened. In traffic young men will pull up beside me to check out the front view of the blonde. We look at each other and laugh, but I still get followed around the grocery store from men my age, even after they've seen the front view. I just don't get it.
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It's a silly song not to be taken seriously.

Besides I wouldn't know I'm a baa, baa, bachelor. ;)
 
A lady with a state of the art Harley would be nice.
I wouldn't mind sitting behind her with my arms wrapped tightly around her..... only 'cause I'm nervous about motor-bikes you understand. šŸ˜Š
 

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