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Very wise thoughts.I think that it’s possible to find a walkable area in most any city, town, village but I don’t think that any p!ace is perfect.
I live in a gritty urban neighborhood where almost everything I need is within walking distance.
I still have a car and use it about once a week.
If I was looking to relocate, I would probably focus on smaller college towns or seasonal resort communities. Those places tend to be a bit more expensive but they usually have a few more interesting things to offer than my current neighborhood.
I would also look at the reality of the next phase of life when walking may no longer be a safe option.
Good luck!
I wish I could help you solve your problem. If you sold your house would there be enough left to offer your husband something he has always wanted? A trip, a car, an apartment with a view?I would love to live somewhere like that so much; I just know I'm gonna die out here in the sticks.![]()
Probably not since I want to live closer to town and prices go up (even while house/lot sizes go down) the closer you move to town. If we moved into a much smaller place (like a 2-bedroom condo or something), there would probably be enough money for something like that but putting him in that small of a place would be like trying to cage up a wild animal. Good idea anyway, though; thanks.I wish I could help you solve your problem. If you sold your house would there be enough left to offer your husband something he has always wanted? A trip, a car, an apartment with a view?
Toronto is a very special city indeed. ♥I live in a big city, but could get anywhere via subway, bus, and walking, as so much of the population do.
I think a lot of the large cities in the U.S. are probably similar .. NYC for instance.Toronto is a very special city indeed. ♥
NY has a lot of mixed use neighborhoods, as does Chicago. LA not so much. Western cities tend to be largely comprised of business districts, convention centers, hotels, eateries (many only open for breakfast and lunch), and some entertainment venues downtown, but true grocery stores are scarcer than hen's teeth.I think a lot of the large cities in the U.S. are probably similar .. NYC for instance.
Pinky. You forgot to mention the 9,000 rental pedal bikes that are available in Toronto. The bright orange ones sponsored by Tangerine Bank. For those that don't know, the bikes are parked in individual docking charger units. You swipe your credit or debit card through the reader on the handle bar, the docking device unlocks, and off you go. The bikes have an electric motor assist so you can pedal and if you are going up a hill the electric motor kicks in to help you.I live in a big city, but could get anywhere via subway, bus, and walking, as so much of the population do.
Good points, all of this. But the fact remains, if you live long enough, there will come a time when you're no longer able to drive safely so it'd be good if something could be done about this other than every old person in the U.S. who can no longer drive moving to NYC.Part of the problem is that we use our cars for more than just shopping. Even if your groceries, etc. all deliver, or if you have good bus service to the stores, we all have to (or want to) go to places other than stores. How about doctors and dentists, physical therapy, places that provide hearing aids and glasses, etc.? (Becomes more important as you get older).
And there are other things we drive to. What if you want to go to a lovely park or other kind of natural attraction, which may be way over on the other side of town? What if you need to get to an airport, for yourself or to pick someone up? What if you want to take a course at a local college which is not within walking distance? And as you get older, "walking distance" gets smaller and smaller.
And there are other things that might be important to you, such as religious services, volunteer work, visiting friends and relatives.
What about theatre, sports events, games you like to play, gyms, the pool, etc.? Most of those places are available by uber or cab, but can be very expensive and from what I hear, they don't always show up on time. If driving your own car, you can accomplish several errands in rapid succession, going to places that are near each other. Can you do that with uber?
Outside of New York City, I can't think of any other place in this country where it is easy to live without a car. (Of course, you can always see if Morgan Freeman is interested in being your chauffeur, 24/7.)
Unbelievably, there is a neighborhood here in this darn town that is almost European in its walkability, large supermarket, pharmacy, the library (my most favorite place in the world), primary care clinic, at least one each hair salon and barber shop, several good eateries, nice gift shop, huge shoe store, a full-service branch of our bank, a used bookstore, an upscale consignment shop, a natural foods store, etc. And there's actually some affordable, nice housing (single-family homes, apartments, condos); and I'd move there in a minute but my Huzz despises that neighborhood, so here we stay.I agree, officerripley. It is a growing problem as the "older" population continues to grow. And even living in a seniors-only community, well equipped with many of the things I mentioned above, I still find that I am driving my car nearly every day. It's a necessity for most people.
That was a dicey time in the Bronx - and much of the other four Boroughs. He must have been made of very strong stuff. Did you know him then?My FIL had a small liquor store in the Bronx back in the 60's through the 80's. Most of his regular customers had never gone beyond that block. They did all their shopping there at all those specialty stores (that I loved compared to our big grocery stores). Some had immigrated from other countries and once they got settled in their apartment stayed within that area.
I wish the downtown area of my small city had a grocery store and a doctor's office on the main street. That would make living without a car much easier for me. If I did not have mobility issues I could walk to those too.
Yes, I knew him very well. Spent a lot of time with him and my MIL over the years.That was a dicey time in the Bronx - and much of the other four Boroughs. He must have been made of very strong stuff. Did you know him then?
That was a dicey time in the Bronx - and much of the other four Boroughs. He must have been made of very strong stuff. Did you know him then?
My FIL had a small liquor store in the Bronx back in the 60's through the 80's. Most of his regular customers had never gone beyond that block. They did all their shopping there at all those specialty stores (that I loved compared to our big grocery stores). Some had immigrated from other countries and once they got settled in their apartment stayed within that area.
I wish the downtown area of my small city had a grocery store and a doctor's office on the main street. That would make living without a car much easier for me. If I did not have mobility issues I could walk to those too.
It was on Lydig Avenue. I have looked on Google Earth trying to find it but I don't know the number so couldn't find it. There was a produce market right across the street, a seafood store, a drug store (with a soda counter where we filled up on egg creams), a butcher and the most wonderful bakery! We would bring boxes of baked goods back home with us.What neighborhood was the liquor store? I spent plenty of time in the Bronx growing up during the late 60's-late 70's culminating w the blackout of 1977. I was down in Hunts Point around 2am skirting the looting and lawlessness on my way to work.
NYC Blackout 1977
I passed by Lydig Ave about a million times. The bakeries of the day were phenomenal!It was on Lydig Avenue. I have looked on Google Earth trying to find it but I don't know the number so couldn't find it. There was a produce market right across the street, a seafood store, a drug store (with a soda counter where we filled up on egg creams), a butcher and the most wonderful bakery! We would bring boxes of baked goods back home with us.
If 4 story, luxury housing is attracting retirees of some monetary means, your community must have some greater appeal than an outlying Walmart, a local pharmacy and some small eateries would offer. People only move to Podunk when there's a good reason.The community that I live in was once a much smaller village surrounded by farms.
It was on a major railway and had a station primarily used to load cattle and hogs, apples and onions and potatoes, corn and beans and wheat and rye and flax to ship them onward to Chicago, or the other direction through Port Huron/Sarnia to Toronto. These trains also brought in shelf stock, clothing, notions, non-local foods, and such for retail. There was also a passenger train several times each week.
In addition there was a parallel inter-urban light railroad that connected the village with the capital city in one direction and the next two villages "up the line" in the other. In the capital there were horses and wagons, but also horse-drawn (and later electric) streetcars.
People got around within the village on foot or by horse and wagon.
The days of a compact walkable village and connectors to other communities are long gone here.
I was able to still do that until almost three decades back when we lost the last two grocery stores in the old village when Walmart came in. At least I can still walk to our last pharmacy and hardware store and a Mexican food truck and small Chinese take-out food place. Speculators are buying everything up. Once they have enough land together in one place they build 4 story luxury retiree housing locals can't afford.