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Lilac
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Just a few late night thoughts:
If a woman can't accept a man being a man, maybe she should take a look at herself. We are different & have different thought processes, views, ideas, etc. That's a fact of life. A woman who tries to change a guy to fit what her "idea" of what he should be isn't going to end well. You gotta accept him for what he is. If he's good, he's a keeper & if he's bad, put him back. This applies to guys as well.
In the beginning feminism may have had good intentions bringing to light the need for equal pay, maternity leave, violence against women, etc. But somewhere along the way it's been turned to the point of being rabid towards men in that they are what is wrong with everything.
IMO, the sole purpose of this movement (feminism) now is to purposely disrupt the natural relationship between men and women. Your guess is as good as mine as to why.
Over the years, I worked with more men than women in my job & I preferred working with the men. Some guys were a$$wipes, but the vast majority were not. I didn't judge all men the same when a few were the problem.
The women I got along with at work with had the same attitude as the guys ... no non-sense, right to the point & with little BS. And they gave it back as good as they got it. These women showed they were capable of doing the job & earned respect from the men. I also wasn't stabbed in the back by these women as I was by those who were catty, two-faced, needy ... your basic be-atches. The latter also didn't hesitate to openly bad mouth boyfriends/husband when things didn't go their way. They also didn't understand why at work the guys avoided them after hearing them.
I met my husband at work & we hit it off. We had some of the same interests & if we did something the other didn't, we tried it. At no time over the 35+ years we've been together have I ever tried or wanted to change him. Our roles are pretty much traditional with some jobs being shared. He is what he is & I am what I am ... we accept each other for that.
I can understand why some men are going their own way. But just remember, not all women are alike just like all men aren't alike.
And if you keep picking the wrong type, maybe you should have your friends help you.
If a woman can't accept a man being a man, maybe she should take a look at herself. We are different & have different thought processes, views, ideas, etc. That's a fact of life. A woman who tries to change a guy to fit what her "idea" of what he should be isn't going to end well. You gotta accept him for what he is. If he's good, he's a keeper & if he's bad, put him back. This applies to guys as well.
In the beginning feminism may have had good intentions bringing to light the need for equal pay, maternity leave, violence against women, etc. But somewhere along the way it's been turned to the point of being rabid towards men in that they are what is wrong with everything.
IMO, the sole purpose of this movement (feminism) now is to purposely disrupt the natural relationship between men and women. Your guess is as good as mine as to why.
Over the years, I worked with more men than women in my job & I preferred working with the men. Some guys were a$$wipes, but the vast majority were not. I didn't judge all men the same when a few were the problem.
The women I got along with at work with had the same attitude as the guys ... no non-sense, right to the point & with little BS. And they gave it back as good as they got it. These women showed they were capable of doing the job & earned respect from the men. I also wasn't stabbed in the back by these women as I was by those who were catty, two-faced, needy ... your basic be-atches. The latter also didn't hesitate to openly bad mouth boyfriends/husband when things didn't go their way. They also didn't understand why at work the guys avoided them after hearing them.
I met my husband at work & we hit it off. We had some of the same interests & if we did something the other didn't, we tried it. At no time over the 35+ years we've been together have I ever tried or wanted to change him. Our roles are pretty much traditional with some jobs being shared. He is what he is & I am what I am ... we accept each other for that.
I can understand why some men are going their own way. But just remember, not all women are alike just like all men aren't alike.
And if you keep picking the wrong type, maybe you should have your friends help you.
All true, particularly these two points of yours below:
I think, to be fair, it is the feminist’s (not equality-seekers) idea (just as cover-girl models & adverts) that has created a trend that the women themselves don’t really seek. It is the seemingly natural nature of women (please note I said ”seemingly”) to follow the pack. Honestly, I believe very strongly that women do not pump themselves with Botox, silly-cone, plastic fingernails, camel-hair eyelashes, yada-yada-yada to attract men ... but to appease their women friends in order to ”fit in” and have something to talk about.
I agree with you one thousand percent!
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I agree.
George1959
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Lilac, I agree wholeheartedly. And my wife prefers working with men too. The feminism of today is toxic.
I have made most of the common mistakes in my marriage and I am paying dearly for being too open and too honest. But it could be much worse if I had done these three things:
1). Let my wife know how much money I have saved or stashed.
2). Give my wife access to my bank account.
3). Let her see me do any kind of work while she's at home or tell her what work I did while she was out.
GUYS! Don't do it!
1). Let my wife know how much money I have saved or stashed. 2). Give my wife access to my bank account. 3). Let her see me do any kind of work while she's at home or tell her what work I did while she was out.GUYS! Don't do it!
George1959
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#2 is perhaps the biggest mistake.I have made most of the common mistakes in my marriage and I am paying dearly for being too open and too honest. But it could be much worse if I had done these three things:
GUYS! Don't do it!
A cousin of my mother gave his wife access to his bank account. He got a severe stroke and came into the hospital. His wife thought that he would die and emptied his bank account. But he recovered almost completely after several months. Later he had to work very hard to fill up his bank account again.
But there was a kind of karma. His wife, although 13 years younger than him, died some years before him.
I have made most of the common mistakes in my marriage and I am paying dearly for being too open and too honest. But it could be much worse if I had done these three things:
I think you're right.
So, she spent it, right?
I was in hospital for three weeks last year and I had quite a bit of cash stashed away in our home. (MY OWN EARNINGS mostly from before I even met her). I told my wife where it was just in case I'd kick the bucket so that my funeral expenses would be managble plus a tidy sum left over for her to do with whatever she wanted. After two weeks I was feeling better and I was allowed out of the hospital for only a few hours. I needed some cash so I took a very small amout from my stash at home without saying a word.
Later she texted me calling me every nasty word in the book because, (in her own words) "I had taken her money" and she wanted to buy something for herself! "Her money" she called it! I saved every penny of that money for her in case of my death .... but that's the way she treated me! She had been snooping in my stash to see how much was there and then she snooped again in order for her to know how much I had taken from it that day!
I gave her 20 years of love and trust but now I have that money hidden in a place where she will never find it and I am going to donate all of it to charity instead. To add insult to injury I later found out that she has been cheating on me for quite some time.
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Lilac
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All true, particularly these two points of yours below:
I think, to be fair, it is the feminist’s (not equality-seekers) idea (just as cover-girl models & adverts) that has created a trend that the women themselves don’t really seek. It is the seemingly natural nature of women (please note I said ”seemingly”) to follow the pack. Honestly, I believe very strongly that women do not pump themselves with Botox, silly-cone, plastic fingernails, camel-hair eyelashes, yada-yada-yada to attract men ... but to appease their women friends in order to ”fit in” and have something to talk about.
I agree with you one thousand percent!
I agree there are some women that follow the herd. Too many commercials, along with social media, have convinced a lot of people that they need whatever they are pushing. What they are pushing is just another form of a drug that's full of unattainable qualities that are in fact unhealthy for people. It's easier for some to follow along than rather stand up or think on for themselves.
The TV displays so many women that are far from natural it's more like watching a freak show. Now they have started with products for men. This is a link to a commercial that has recently been aired in the states:
All true.
They should not be allowed in public. Think of the children who get a glimpse of them! Horror!
I watched the video but I don't know if I should thank you or be upset with you. I want to vomit now.
Lilac
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As I stated plainly - IMO (in my opinion). Feminism was about equality between the sexes in the beginning. Now, I see it as radical movement that is all over the place basically putting the blame on men. The one message I see is that it tells young women you don't need men - men are bad for you. I wonder how many young women how are drinking this cool-aid & may find out too late that believing this ruined their lives ending up alone?
Again, IMO, it takes a man & a women to make it in this world ... always have & always will.
Lilac
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Yes, you did.
Yes, and I still agree.
I've seen them on Feminist TV shows stating it in those very words.
Oh, they'll get artifically insemiated like horses do or rent a womb from one of the Ukrainian baby factories.
Allow me to repeat: ALWAYS HAVE ..... ALWAYS WILL.
That's what us normal people want to know.
Yes, that's my understanding of it.
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Some people won't agree, but it takes a Mom & Dad to raise a kid in a home. We see what happens to kids that make the news & you find they come from a single parent household where, usually the father, wasn't ever there except for insemination. These kids grow up lacking a good male role model & look for that role model in the wrong places with the wrong people. I blame the female for this just as much, but they are just emulating what they grew up with. Very sad cycle that seems never ending.
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Are you trying to give us nightmares?
I am sorry. Please forgive me.
Yes.
I know.
I agree.
True-true.
Is this the right time for me to mention same-sex couples adopting children or should I shut up?
CooCooforCoCoPuffs
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Wait! Let me close my eyes first!
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