VintageBetter
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I have got a book of Sam Shepard plays and dang, talk about Gifted. The guy had minimal university education but wow, he could write. I just read "True West" and "Buried Child". Both great plays.
A lot of what you say makes sense to me. It feels like every aspect of living is in transition. I have started to anticipate some kind of disruption to accompany most all of my activity. In other words "don't be so surprised at all the confusion around us."it's strange but unlike paper books I tend to move from one to another. Reading two right now and to be honest, have no clue on either plot.
With a paper book you picked it up, turned to the bookmaker and went on. Digital adds another aspect to reading. So much, so much access, so many options. Hence I am never settled in on one book. It is much like TV these days. So many channels, so much access. Next thing you know you are sub scripted to more channels then you wanted.
How to rein this all in, is another question. How do you retain those things that mattered in a world where nothing seems to matter. How do you keep a steady routine thru a world that spins at a mind boggling pace. How do you say no. enough!
I don't know the answer but I know the question. I suppose that if you are younger then this is the new normal. If you are older, however the Question is how to make it stop? how to control it, how to ignore it, if need be. interested in comments
You keep the traditions you love. You say no to the new things that make you uneasy or give you the uh o feelings. You understand that the rest of the world doesn't know you exist and are going at their pace and making their traditions. Yes, things change, but you do not and should not bring them into your life. This is one reason I refuse to own a cell phone...I don't have any reason to carry a phone around with me! No earth shaking life changing call is going to come while I am changing the sheets.it's strange but unlike paper books I tend to move from one to another. Reading two right now and to be honest, have no clue on either plot.
With a paper book you picked it up, turned to the bookmaker and went on. Digital adds another aspect to reading. So much, so much access, so many options. Hence I am never settled in on one book. It is much like TV these days. So many channels, so much access. Next thing you know you are sub scripted to more channels then you wanted.
How to rein this all in, is another question. How do you retain those things that mattered in a world where nothing seems to matter. How do you keep a steady routine thru a world that spins at a mind boggling pace. How do you say no. enough!
I don't know the answer but I know the question. I suppose that if you are younger then this is the new normal. If you are older, however the Question is how to make it stop? how to control it, how to ignore it, if need be. interested in comments
You are smart in that you know an d see the problem very clearly. Do you need/want to keep the shop running? Sell it, retire? That would limit the need for the technology and give you some free time for you. Or you could set a time aside when you accept calls from the store between certain hours unless it is an emergency. Or you could run the shop and eliminate the hassle of calls.I love all the comments. Dusty in particular. Keep the traditions you love. Your right, I agree, but it is so difficult. I need a cell phone. I have people working for me in our gift store that have questions and need quick answers. I just can't ignore them. Hence I am between a rock and a hard place. I need the technology but I don't want it. I can live in a world that I can understand or I can deal, as best I can, with a world that has changed drastically. I cannot live in both. What to do???????
you hit something in me with your comment, Can you offer anymore comments?You are smart in that you know an d see the problem very clearly. Do you need/want to keep the shop running? Sell it, retire? That would limit the need for the technology and give you some free time for you. Or you could set a time aside when you accept calls from the store between certain hours unless it is an emergency. Or you could run the shop and eliminate the hassle of calls.
It seems as though you may as well be there then to worry about when a call will come in. For myself, unless i needed the income, I would sell or close the shop and relax. Life does not get longer or easier. Just how important is the shop for your daily life??
Iām listening to this audiobook right now.Just got a good start on Stephen King's Fairy Tale, and am having trouble putting it down to do other things. Getting some odd dreams about it too and not even into anything scary or weird yet.
I don't know but there are lots of things to discover about oneself through sitting and being quiet. Also, seriously, just how important is the shop to you? You may be more ready to quit the rat race than you think.you hit something in me with your comment, Can you offer anymore comments?
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