LoveTulips
Senior Member
- Location
- British Columbia, Canada
So I have no complaints against any of the nurses and or doctors from the past or recently. But I have noticed some changes. I'm just wondering if you all have too. For example, when my dad was in the hospital in the 1990's and passed away there....I remember going into his room whom he shared with two other patients and when we saw the families of these patients, we all said hello and would chat about things. And if Dad needed a nurse, he could buzz for one and they would come into the room to see what he wanted.
Fast forward to 2022 and I had an operation for removal of cancer in my lower parts. I was on a ward and could see the patient and his family directly across from me unless we chose on either side to close the curtain for privacy. Well, that patient and his wife, never would say hello to me, although I did once.
And on the ward, if I went to the bathroom, and at one point did not know how to get to a further bathroom( because the closer one was occupied).... I asked the patients closest to the door who were sitting up and they said they didn't know but in a real nasty way, like why was I bothering them. They were reading so it wasn't as though they were in pain and I was bothering them
Another thing is that when I had to buzz a nurse regarding my stent, the nurses don't come to your bed at first which I did not know. Instead you ask your question within the intercom system which everyone can hear and can disturb anyone who is trying to sleep. I was embarrassed, (yes I know it is a hospital), but still to ask a question about your private parts and the stent out loud is a bit embarrassing.
Fast forward to 2022 and I had an operation for removal of cancer in my lower parts. I was on a ward and could see the patient and his family directly across from me unless we chose on either side to close the curtain for privacy. Well, that patient and his wife, never would say hello to me, although I did once.
And on the ward, if I went to the bathroom, and at one point did not know how to get to a further bathroom( because the closer one was occupied).... I asked the patients closest to the door who were sitting up and they said they didn't know but in a real nasty way, like why was I bothering them. They were reading so it wasn't as though they were in pain and I was bothering them
Another thing is that when I had to buzz a nurse regarding my stent, the nurses don't come to your bed at first which I did not know. Instead you ask your question within the intercom system which everyone can hear and can disturb anyone who is trying to sleep. I was embarrassed, (yes I know it is a hospital), but still to ask a question about your private parts and the stent out loud is a bit embarrassing.