Are you or someone you love living solo and thriving? Share your story—we celebrate you!
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I'm just trying to survive day to day. I have always embraced my life on my terms, which is probably the reason I am alone today lol! All the friends I once had , have passed on. So now it's just me and my 2 cats. But, I had lived life at the speed of light, and now it's time to relax and enjoy what I have left. I have no desire for the close company of other people; I love my peace.
I live alone and travel alone. It's not because I am a loner, I do wish I had a compaion. But I find it very difficult to find a compatible person to be with as I get older. It may be just my problem, but honestly at this point I don't care anymore. I am gonna live my life.More and more seniors are embracing life on their own terms—living independently, discovering new hobbies, traveling, volunteering, and even starting new friendships (or love stories) later in life.
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Disgustedman
Senior Member
I've been through enough family drama and relationship drama. I appreciate and adore my singular lifestyle.
Oldeagle66
Senior Member
I've been married and I've been single. As I'm getting older I'm enjoying single much much more. I really embrace being independent and don't want anyone depending on me as well.
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Kika
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- Northeast PA
This
Imogene
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- Middle Tennessee
Me too ^^^
From a very early age people have depended on me, fulfilling those responsibilities came at the cost of self sacrifice, which I did willingly for the most part.
Now I live alone and it's a very contented life, I truly don't believe I could make the compromises necessary to live with another person again. I set my own agenda everyday, and no one gets to interfere with that, and that makes me happy.
Now I live alone and it's a very contented life, I truly don't believe I could make the compromises necessary to live with another person again. I set my own agenda everyday, and no one gets to interfere with that, and that makes me happy.
Kika
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- Northeast PA
This is truly a synopsis of my life!! I have been living alone for the past 11 years and retired for just about half of them. It is, for me, true luxury to eat when I want, what I want, either cook or takeout or delivery, or just cereal.
It sounds selfish, but it's really not, to finally have to think of only me! Any decision I want to make is my decision and I don't have to consult and consider the wishes of others. I did not resent doing it during the many years I had to, but I never expected the sense of freedom I have now.
fuzzybuddy
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- The Sticks, Northeast PA.
I live alone. I don't know if I'm thriving. I don't get out of bed and go slay dragons. Mostly, it's the bills are getting paid, the house isn't overrun with cats or mice, and I still know my password.
Live alone [grandpa flat] and dog - in 8 acres approx of forest - love it - health assisted care pick me up for shopping trips and three coffee mornings a week with some "mates". Are women welcome? - occasionally if they don't tidy and fuss too much - but I love the peace and quiet - just me and my pig hunting dog - [no pigs allowed!!!]
jujube
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From what I've seen over the years, there are many people who are living with someone, but still living alone. It happens with a lot of couples. They have very little to say to each other, they have their own activities and interests and their lives don't intersect much, even though they occupy the same house and sometimes, the same bed.
George1959
Senior Member
These are very wise words.
Everyone has had different living arrangements in their life that they prefer. Living by myself, I don't get bored or lonely, but I do miss having a home. I have a beautiful house structure wise, but it's not a home. To me a home is when you have someone to share it with. I always enjoyed having someone around to exchange thoughts with and have a sounding board. This senior forum is nice. When you don't have anyone to vent to, it's nice that there's an outlet such as this to express our feelings and thoughts. It's not the same, but it helps fill in that void. I guess to answer the question presented by the topic...I'm thriving.
nice post TeePee - well put and balanced - just had my adult son spending the long w/end 4 days - enjoyed it all - he brought plenty of spirits and wine and i supplied the cigars - we mozzied into town occasisonally a five min run - intro him to my mates male and female and we cooked some ate some - he's a good asian cook -and fought a bit too - he wants to be the controller - thinks he's ready but not quite yet!!
gruntlabor
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Autumn01
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It’s impressive that you can see both sides of an argument! It takes a lot of patience and understanding to do that. And hey, sometimes hearing a wrong opinion can spark the most interesting discussions—plus, it’s always nice to hear a fresh perspective, even if it's a little off! Keep doing what you're doing—it's a great skill to have! (And here’s a smiley face for you:
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Autumn01
New Member
It sounds like you had a fantastic long weekend with your son! I love the balance between relaxing and cooking together, and it’s clear you both enjoyed each other’s company. The part about him wanting to be in control but not quite ready yet is relatable – we’ve all been there! It’s a fine line between wanting to step up and realizing there’s still a little more to learn before fully taking the reins. Sounds like a great bonding time – you both seem to have found a good rhythm with the cigars, spirits, and some fun disagreements! Keep enjoying those moments together!