LadyEmeraude
Senior Member
Repeat topic from long ago.
So let’s do it again…
So let’s do it again…
First thing you notice about a man or woman.
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LadyEmeraude
Senior Member
Think I mostly notice overall appearance, then
If I am standing closer to him, I will notice more particulars, like his eyes and smile .
If I am standing closer to him, I will notice more particulars, like his eyes and smile .
Lewkat
Senior Member
- Location
- New Jersey, USA
His eyes and lashes. If his smile is soft, all the better. Another thing I look at right off the bat, is the thickness of a guy's neck. It can tell you if he was a wrestler and that is a turn-off for me.
Flarbalard
Senior Member
There's an old joke, what's the first thing a man looks at when he sees an attractive woman?-- The size of the guy with her.
For me, it changes from person to person. Sometimes it may be clothing, or it could be the way they gesture, their eyes, or their voice, it's never the same.
For me, it changes from person to person. Sometimes it may be clothing, or it could be the way they gesture, their eyes, or their voice, it's never the same.
CaliS
girl next door
- Location
- West Coast, USA
If their smile reaches their eyes.
bowmore
Senior Member
That was the first thing I noticed about my wife the first time I met her.
jujube
SF VIP
His smile.
That's a good one. I forgot about that.
Capt Lightning
Well-known Member
- Location
- Historic Buchan, Scotland
If they're holding a mobile phone.
QuietByNature
Classic Car Guy
- Location
- Ontario, Canada
I'd have to appearance, smile and her eyes.
mike4lorie
SF VIP
- Location
- Brockville, Ontario, Canada
The first thing I notice is her nails. If she has nice nails, then I know she takes care of the rest of her... and also smiles...
Tommy
Senior Member
- Location
- New Hampshire
First thing you notice about a man or woman.
What they're doing and saying. Physical appearance in generally secondary.Never thought of that...we need the women on this site to respond to that conclusion about the nails..
I agree 100%
Their expression, if I see someone looking depressed or lost I will nearly always make contact in a way
to get them to smile. I hate to see people looking like no one notices them. Man or woman. Not in
a flirty way. Just something ironic that makes them think and smile or laugh.
to get them to smile. I hate to see people looking like no one notices them. Man or woman. Not in
a flirty way. Just something ironic that makes them think and smile or laugh.
I used to have a standing appointment every week for a manicure; my nails were beautiful. Always dressed nicely. Then I moved to this rural place requiring hard, dirty, physical work. Everything changed. Now I am satisfied if I can just get clean.
mike4lorie
SF VIP
- Location
- Brockville, Ontario, Canada
I always strike up a conversation with a complete stranger, and when it's time to go, we are both laughing and smiling...
I have a strong feeling that there are some very nice women out there who may not have the cleanest of nails for different reasons. Men, we need to go beyond that nails appearance assumption as this member so clearly and honestly pointed out.
More than Good enough in your post, GoodEnuff... thanks fur sharing your personal experience...