What was the name of your first love...can you remember ?

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Your first love as a teen or older.. do you remember their name even if it was only an innocent school girl/boy romance for a short time...

What was their name.. first names will do if you don't want to reveal more.....and tell us any story you have to add to it.👩‍❤️‍👨


Mine was a boy called Tony.. it lasted just a matter of weeks.. I was 14 years old... I;d gone on the first holiday of my whole life along with my best friend at school and her parents.. and my friend and I met these boys on the Island.. we had a wonderful , kisses only romance for a few weeks.. ..it all fizzled out after the holiday ...
 

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I was very much a late bloomer due to family poverty, so I couldn't afford to take a girl out, and also couldn't work up the courage to overcome my shyness around girls. As such I just had crushes on various girls when I was at secondary school, and it wasn't until much later that I actually managed to get past my own inhibitions and go out with anyone.

Only by lowering the tone of this conversation can I explain how I managed to overcome my own shyness, so I won't elaborate.
 
I was fifteen and his name was Bob. He was so good looking and I didn't think he noticed me except at a party, he asked me to dance and said romantic things to me and of course I thought it was love. We dated a few times but it ended and nothing more happened as we dated others.
 

squatting dog said:
Lot's of flirting in my younger days, but, the wife (Linda) ♥️ is and always will be my first true love. Now, if I could just remember her birthday and our anniversary, I'd be tops. :)
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yes I wasn't really referring to the person you married necessarily unless of course that was your first romance...

I really mean the very first flushes of what we thought was love... but was actually just a crush or infatuation.. and fizzled out quite quickly
 
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hollydolly said:
yes I wasn't really referring to the person you married necessairly unless of course that was your first romance...

I really mean the very first flushes of what we thought was love... but was actully just a crush or infatuation.. and fizzled out quite quickly
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Oh, that's easy. It was the Puerto Rican whore that lived upstairs in our old slum in Harlem that got my cherry when I was 11 or 12. I thought I knew love then.
 
BJintheUK said:
I was very much a late bloomer due to family poverty, so I couldn't afford to take a girl out, and also couldn't work up the courage to overcome my shyness around girls. As such I just had crushes on various girls when I was at secondary school, and it wasn't until much later that I actually managed to get past my own inhibitions and go out with anyone.

Only by lowering the tone of this conversation can I explain how I managed to overcome my own shyness, so I won't elaborate.
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That sounds like my story.
 
Pappy said:
Marilyn Vedder was my first love. Imagine my shock when she took off out of town with another guy. But really upset me was the loss of my school jacket and several records she took with her.
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Pappy..I'm laughing because I had a similar thing happen to me..

One of teen romances.. whose name was Frank. did exactly the same thing taking off with a brand new Album I;d just bought....

I didnt want him back but I did want the album it was the very first one I;d been able to afford...
 
As an older teen .. and of age IYSWIM...my first love was Pat... he was a skinhead.. he worse all the expensive latest gear.. cool as a cucumber... Not violent .. not in a gang ..it was all just skinhead bravado with him and his mates in their braces, turned up levi's , and crombie coats

I had the pash for him for quite a long time ..but he wasn't for me ultimately, he really was from the wrong side of town.. .. and he turned out to be a bit of a pig..
 
Not really a first love but a first entanglement with a girl. One day she came up to me on the playground and announced "I'm going to be your girlfriend". I'd never had a girlfriend before and thought it might be fun. We were off-again on-again puppy love gf/bf for a couple of years and friends after that. Her name was Linda or Lynda depending on her mood.
 
At 7 years old, I had a girlfriend named Kathy. We walked partway home each day after school together, until we got to the end of a block where we had to go separately toward our homes. Kathy reminded me of Minnie Mouse.

Didn't have another girlfriend until age 12, when I knew a girl t have fun with at school... and I invited her to several parties. Her name was Cheryl.
 
The first I can think of as a teen was Corey. The boys in Junior High (Middle School) wore bracelets with their name engraved on them, and when you 'went steady' the girl would wear the boy's bracelet. I'm pretty sure I had Corey's for a while (unless it was some other boy's and I'm forgetting others). I probably wouldn't remember Corey either except it was my first physical relationship.
 
Before I left school I did have a female friend. Her name was Pat and I used to go round to her house a lot in the evenings, and we'd sit and chat and basically put the world to rights. I really fancied her for ages, but she told me she'd rather have me as a friend.

After we'd been like this for a couple of years or so, one evening she told me she wanted to go out with me. I thought about it for a while, but then told her I'd prefer it that we stayed friends, and we did.

She then actually went out with a school friend of mine called Doug, and they later got married. So that was that.

I left Bristol when I was 24 and have only gone back on odd occasions to visit my mum (when she was alive). However, one time when I went to visit her, she told me that Pat and Dougie had divorced. I later saw him walking down the road and going into his front gate. I don't think he recognised me, as by this time I was in my 40s, or it could have even been my early 50s. He looked like a shadow of the boy I once knew, who had been a confident young man. Now he looked old and lonely, but I suppose that's what a broken marriage had done to him.
 
Oh, yeah....Mike was his name. We met in Geometry class early in our Junior year in high school and "went steady" the rest of the year (he wore my class ring on a chain around his neck and I wore his on my finger, wrapped in angora yarn as was the practice at the time).

We broke during the summer before senior year, for some reason, There was a very short period in college when it looked like we might relight the spark, but that didn't work out, either.

We remained best friends to this day. In fact, last week, we were on the phone for almost an hour when he called to wish me happy birthday, just yapping about things. He's a great person but we wouldn't have worked out long-term because we're too much alike. There's a little corner of heart, though, that still belongs to him as my "first love". Neither of our spouses ever had any problem with it.....we're just two people who are life-long friends.
 
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