My closest relatives that are sill alive:
On mom's side - 3 aunts by marriage, 5 cousins- I am the oldest cousin on that side. Mom had 3 brothers, one older and two younger than her - all deceased now.
On dad's side - 3 cousins whom I wouldn't know if our paths crossed. I am 3rd oldest on that side, one cousin just beating me by 3 months. Dad was estranged from his family, so I didn't have contact with them. He had 2 sisters and a brother, all younger than he was - all have passed. Only one aunt had the children.