I wish there was an app to do this for me...

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As I get older, some things feel more complicated — health appointments, travel, finances, even daily routines.
Sometimes I wish there was a simple, calm app that could: explain things (like medical procedures) in plain language,
summarize long instructions or emails,
remind me of small routines,
keep travel plans in one clear place,

What’s your app wish?
What do you wish an app could do for you at this age?
 

I use a calendar religiously for appointments. But I'm finding shortcomings with that. I need to actually look at the thing. Which I forget to do sometimes. I can't make new appointments while away from home because I don't know if I already have something scheduled.

The biggest downside is keeping up with my Goldendoodle's allergy injections.
 
My dad always did the finances. He went to heaven 2 years ago. My 90 y o mom had no clue what to do. My brother does everything for her. One or 2 years before he died dad almost gave 17.000 to some random number. That's when my brother had to take over. He could prevent it just in time. Dad was so used to doing everything. He wanted to keep on doing it. My brother had never done all that either. He had to learn quick.
 
As I get older, some things feel more complicated — health appointments, travel, finances, even daily routines.
Sometimes I wish there was a simple, calm app that could: explain things (like medical procedures) in plain language,
summarize long instructions or emails,
remind me of small routines,
keep travel plans in one clear place,

What’s your app wish?
What do you wish an app could do for you at this age?
Not sure what your thoughts are on AI (Artificial Intelligence) but it can be very helpful. I have used it to help breakdown complex procedures, I just ask it to explain XYZ like I'm a 5 year old. It will also summarize emails, etc.

Apps like Alexa can remind you of upcoming appointments, create shopping lists, etc.
 
My dad always did the finances. He went to heaven 2 years ago. My 90 y o mom had no clue what to do. My brother does everything for her. One or 2 years before he died dad almost gave 17.000 to some random number. That's when my brother had to take over. He could prevent it just in time. Dad was so used to doing everything. He wanted to keep on doing it. My brother had never done all that either. He had to learn quick.

I have heard these stories many times.

I was 12 when mom started driving me around to pay all the bills, including the utilities. She had everything in separate envelopes and thoroughly explained what I should do at each stop, including counting my change back before I left the counter.

It was an immensely valuable lesson. I carried that through with my son when he was that age and boy did that pay off in ways I couldn’t have imagined.

It came to pass one of his good school Friends’s mom was in a head-on collision and landed in the hospital for quite a while. She had the money in the checking account, but she wasn’t able to get out of bed and go pay the bills, and she had never taught her daughter how to pay the bills.

By that time, my son and his other friends had their drivers licenses. He grabbed the bills out of the mom’s hands and said give me the checkbook, I know what to do. Mom taught me well.❤️❤️

He made the daughter go with him so she could learn to do it and they got all the bills paid on time. Teaching the kids how to pay the bills is a valuable lesson. Not only for knowing the process but appreciating where the money goes and why you don’t always have change left over to buy a toy, or eat at McDonald’s.
 
As I get older, some things feel more complicated — health appointments, travel, finances, even daily routines.
Sometimes I wish there was a simple, calm app that could: explain things (like medical procedures) in plain language,
summarize long instructions or emails,
remind me of small routines,
keep travel plans in one clear place,

What’s your app wish?
What do you wish an app could do for you at this age?
Oh, there are literally 1000s of apps out there for planning and reminding. I use Google search to decipher medical terms and procedures.

My app wish? That they didn't contain all sorts of annoying advertising and solicitations, while demanding to access all your personal data(contact lists, texts, photos etc).
 
As I get older, some things feel more complicated — health appointments, travel, finances, even daily routines.
Sometimes I wish there was a simple, calm app that could: explain things (like medical procedures) in plain language,
summarize long instructions or emails, remind me of small routines, keep travel plans in one clear place, What’s your app wish? What do you wish an app could do for you at this age?
All the above exist now, have existed for years, and with the recent rise of AI require less effort to use than ever. But not an app but rather are website search engines and news aggregator sites like Google, Bing, and Yahoo. The primary issue in the past is that many people, especially seniors that have not used computers until recently, have not adequately learned how to use computers and specifically Internet programs.

In decades past, there were many news stories of people who were never able to program their TV VCRs to record programs, or use even simple early era GUI interfaces of newer products like FM radios. With the rise of smartphones, all this has just become more divisive between the tech savvy and those not.

Usually, the issue is more one of attitude, not being willing to read the user information and manual. Although some of those are language limited, or sbubstance use dumbed, there are plenty of otherwise intelligent persons that are simply too lazy to bother reading instructions, a poor habit developed by many in recent decade public schools. Many people just want to turn power on any device and perform simplest operations, without having to deal with setting up options or going into specific modes or entering commands. Because their past experience is one of getting confused and lost trying to deal with such minor complexities, they learn to avoid and ask others for help. Not a wise direction in an increasingly complex and competitive world unless one isolates themselves in rural environments.

I spent much of a career working with the most complex equipment and programs, and was very good at it, that resulted in better paying employment in electronic hardware engineering. I also occasionally wore customer and field support service hats and the most common issue has always been a lack of RTFM. So instead of just answering questions say on the phone or within email, I would first point to user manual pages and website product information as a way of showing the many people, that resist doing so, that they really didn't need to contact support for most issues.
 
Not sure what your thoughts are on AI (Artificial Intelligence) but it can be very helpful. I have used it to help breakdown complex procedures, I just ask it to explain XYZ like I'm a 5 year old. It will also summarize emails, etc.

Apps like Alexa can remind you of upcoming appointments, create shopping lists, etc.
I agree with this about the use of chat AI to explain things for you about procedures, and do it in a simple, easy to understand manner, and answer any and all questions you might have.
I use my iPad calendar for appointments, and have alerts set for doctor appointments, plus the doctors usually send out emails or texts before any appointments now, too.
If I have questions about anything, I use Copilot, which is part of my Bing search engine, and I can get good answers and explanations for just about everything medical or health wise from Copilot. It also remembers questions ai have asked before, so it it is relevant to the new question, Copilot also factors that into the answers for me.
 
All the above exist now, have existed for years, and with the recent rise of AI require less effort to use than ever. But not an app but rather are website search engines and news aggregator sites like Google, Bing, and Yahoo. The primary issue in the past is that many people, especially seniors that have not used computers until recently, have not adequately learned how to use computers and specifically Internet programs.

In decades past, there were many news stories of people who were never able to program their TV VCRs to record programs, or use even simple early era GUI interfaces of newer products like FM radios. With the rise of smartphones, all this has just become more divisive between the tech savvy and those not.

Usually, the issue is more one of attitude, not being willing to read the user information and manual. Although some of those are language limited, or sbubstance use dumbed, there are plenty of otherwise intelligent persons that are simply too lazy to bother reading instructions, a poor habit developed by many in recent decade public schools. Many people just want to turn power on any device and perform simplest operations, without having to deal with setting up options or going into specific modes or entering commands. Because their past experience is one of getting confused and lost trying to deal with such minor complexities, they learn to avoid and ask others for help. Not a wise direction in an increasingly complex and competitive world unless one isolates themselves in rural environments.

I spent much of a career working with the most complex equipment and programs, and was very good at it, that resulted in better paying employment in electronic hardware engineering. I also occasionally wore customer and field support service hats and the most common issue has always been a lack of RTFM. So instead of just answering questions say on the phone or within email, I would first point to user manual pages and website product information as a way of showing the many people, that resist doing so, that they really didn't need to contact support for most issues.
Unless you're like me and are a visual learner. I've always struggled unless I could see how, why the thing functioned or went together.

As a kid I was always taking things apart and then putting them back together with success. Hand me a printed page with the how to information on it and I would be completely lost.
 
All the above exist now, have existed for years, and with the recent rise of AI require less effort to use than ever. But not an app but rather are website search engines and news aggregator sites like Google, Bing, and Yahoo. The primary issue in the past is that many people, especially seniors that have not used computers until recently, have not adequately learned how to use computers and specifically Internet programs.

In decades past, there were many news stories of people who were never able to program their TV VCRs to record programs, or use even simple early era GUI interfaces of newer products like FM radios. With the rise of smartphones, all this has just become more divisive between the tech savvy and those not.

Usually, the issue is more one of attitude, not being willing to read the user information and manual. Although some of those are language limited, or sbubstance use dumbed, there are plenty of otherwise intelligent persons that are simply too lazy to bother reading instructions, a poor habit developed by many in recent decade public schools. Many people just want to turn power on any device and perform simplest operations, without having to deal with setting up options or going into specific modes or entering commands. Because their past experience is one of getting confused and lost trying to deal with such minor complexities, they learn to avoid and ask others for help. Not a wise direction in an increasingly complex and competitive world unless one isolates themselves in rural environments.

I spent much of a career working with the most complex equipment and programs, and was very good at it, that resulted in better paying employment in electronic hardware engineering. I also occasionally wore customer and field support service hats and the most common issue has always been a lack of RTFM. So instead of just answering questions say on the phone or within email, I would first point to user manual pages and website product information as a way of showing the many people, that resist doing so, that they really didn't need to contact support for most issues.
I learned the lesson (and value) of RTFM in the early stages of my IT career. I went to ask the senior tech a question one too many times. He was a gruff guy and didn't pull any punches and I was the better for it
 

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