Since I never use credit cards in my name, (always, dad's, hubby's or son's), I do not have a credit rating. This can be very problematic in some cases.
And that was normal when we were all vital adults, right?
My cousin Linda and I were very close; the same age, looked a lot alike, and hung out together as often as we could. And we both married young. Her marriage lasted longer than mine, and when she finally decided to leave the mu'f'ker, I told her to pack up her 4 kids and come live with me and my 3...I could help her find work, get her own place, help her furnish it, and all that.
So she packed up her kids and all their clothes and toys and blankets, and all her stuff plus all her dishes (for some freaking reason), and on her way out of her town, she made a stop at the bank to withdraw everything from
her savings account. She worked a part-time job, and deposited half her pay every week in this account that was in
her name ...
her name only.
You know where I'm going with this, right? Linda had accumulated over $5,000 in her savings account at that point, but there was only three-hundred and fifteen dollars and twenty-seven cents in it.
The teller told her that
Mr. Linda withdrew all but $315.27 - the minimum balance plus a fifteen dollar.twenty-seven cent FU - just the day before, the day she told him she was leaving him.
But husbands could do that back then. When Linda opened that account,
as required, she put the a-hole's name down as her spouse. I'm 99% certain that, even if a woman's name was on the "name of spouse" line, she could not walk into a bank and withdraw from any of her husband's accounts without him being present.
Best a wife could do is forge a check and risk becoming a felon. (and her cell-mate's spouse

)