Who sent this aide to you? That should be rectified immediately by your doctor and son. You should not be in this situation at all, and it frustrates me to read this. Do you have a visiting nurse?
Pepper, we all want you well and your old self again. I wish I could be there to help you.
Pepper, this is hard but you can do it...I know you can! I hope you get an English speaking aide very soon. You've gotten very good suggestions here. I hope you will consider following them. You are one tough cookie! I know we are not experiencing what you are right now, but we all care about you and your well being.
How have I missed this for days and days? @Pepper, I hope by now the aide problem has been resolved, and there's someone there who's helpful and speaks English.