Oh I hadn't seen that link. They need Dutch equality. I totally get these guys.
My colleagues who are happily married, well the guys always work a day more, but it's more equal. The man mostly works 4 days and she 3.
It's infuriating what these guys in the link say who fell for a gold digger.
But the weird thing is, people would say I was stupid when I dated a mooch, but my ex remarried a woman from Brazil who just quit her job and said the man must provide and his sister said: Oh how nice. She's a housewife.
I made debts to help him out. He couldn't even feed the kids anymore. She costed a fortune. Closets full of fancy clothes. I walked around like a beggar.
When I stopped being so dumb she left within a week and went to America to go mooch off her son and she took my son's laptop, which I paid.
I remarried a guy who first refused to work. I had 3 kids to feed. These guys like in the link are always so gentlemanly. Oh she doesn't want to work. Lets work some more myself. I don't like it that she lives like a queen, but I just let her.
What kind of craziness is that? I put him on bread with cheese. I ate that too 3 times a day. The money was for the kids. I'm not a millionair. Don't work don't eat. In 2 weeks he got a job cause he got hungry. He kept the money for himself, but did pay half the rent and his own food, so that was fine with me. He got mad when I bought the kids a balloon. A gas balloon, all 3 got 1 for 10 euro. I need to eat normal!!!! Then work normal!!!