Mariana is now in The Hot Seat

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boozercruiser said:
A DATE? :rolleyes:
A DATE?:eek:
A DATE?:cool:

Pray tell us more Mariana.
We are all ears!

Are you up out of your pit yet?
Come on, it is a lovely Sunny day out there in the good old UK.

Now then
A nice easy question for you...

Which would be harder for you to give up Mariana.
Coffee or booze? :eek:nthego:
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Easy Kenny--I do not drink any more---so it would be coffee.
 

boozercruiser said:
Thank you for all the questions you answered there Mariana.
Nice one.
Now then, now that you are back from Sainsbury's....

What trajectory are you hoping to push yourself onto
Where do you want to head?:cool:
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Sorry Kenny--dont understand your question---all I know is i want to head to a place in my head where I can be happy again.
 
Gail.S said:
Okay, Mariana, another question : What is the most disgusting thing that has happened to you so far?
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Well, thats easy--maybe not disgusting in the way you think, but made me physically sick still does---Ill try and keep it short---i have just come out of a relationship where my ex boyfriend hurt me over and over-at one time I had to have counselling for depression-at Christmas and New year he was despicable towards me--I cannot explain how bad it was---then about a month ago, right out of the blue, i had a phone call, from his sister, saying that he was very very ill, it was all my fault---I was totally to blame--they were going to report me to the police--tell everyone in church just what an awful person i am---how can I possibly call myself a Christian--and if I tried to contact him again, they would send the police round to me. Then slammed the phone on me. ! Left me not knowing if he is dead alive or dying--I have been blocked from all facebook accounts, phones texts--and Believe me i did nothing wrong. That to me was the most disgusting behaviour---and I am finding it hard to come to terms with , quite honestly.
 

mariana said:
Well, thats easy--maybe not disgusting in the way you think, but made me physically sick still does---Ill try and keep it short---i have just come out of a relationship where my ex boyfriend hurt me over and over-at one time I had to have counselling for depression-at Christmas and New year he was despicable towards me--I cannot explain how bad it was---then about a month ago, right out of the blue, i had a phone call, from his sister, saying that he was very very ill, it was all my fault---I was totally to blame--they were going to report me to the police--tell everyone in church just what an awful person i am---how can I possibly call myself a Christian--and if I tried to contact him again, they would send the police round to me. Then slammed the phone on me. ! Left me not knowing if he is dead alive or dying--I have been blocked from all facebook accounts, phones texts--and Believe me i did nothing wrong. That to me was the most disgusting behaviour---and I am finding it hard to come to terms with , quite honestly.
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How horrible for you, Mariana. Honestly, I was thinking more along the lines of the time when I had to clean up a three thousand pound chocolate spill once upon a time when I worked in a candy factory. What you described certainly does fall under the heading of disgusting though, much more so than my story. Hugs.
 
Gail.S said:
How, horrible for you, Mariana. Honestly, I was thinking more along the lines of the time when I had to clean up a three thousand pound chocolate spill once upon a time when I worked in a candy factory. What you described certainly does fall under the heading of disgusting though, much more so than my story. Hugs.
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Yes Gail.
I think it is alright for me to say that I have spoken to Mariana very recently on the telephone.
I am aware of what she is saying to you and us here in her thread.
She has, and is going through a very difficult time in her life, which makes it even more courageous to come here and answer your question like that.
And I agree with you.

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Awww...Mariana.... I am so sorry for what you are enduring....that is very sad to hear....but I think with the support of you many friends, you will be okay. I wish you all the very best..... Now....

My question for you is this: Do you have any nervous habit? :) Thank you, from Gia xo
 
boozercruiser said:
Actually Mariana.
You just answered my question..
And of course that is what I wish for you as well.

Now then...

Where are your favourite places to to go when you have no plans or obligations?
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Well kenny , the place I nearly always go to when I have no plans etc, is to my local church--there is always something going on--a coffee morning, shop, meetings etc etc, so there is always someone coming or going--which is good for me... plus of course I can always go into the Church--think about things, trying to work things out in my head--pray for family and friends---plus myself . No matter how bad I felt when i went in, i always feel better when I come out.
 
Gia said:
Awww...Mariana.... I am so sorry for what you are enduring....that is very sad to hear....but I think with the support of you many friends, you will be okay. I wish you all the very best..... Now....

My question for you is this: Do you have any nervous habit? :) Thank you, from Gia xo
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Thank you Gia, yes my forum friends give me lots of support... Actually, i am not aware that I do have a nervous habit--although sometimes, i will bite the top of my thumb---not where the nail is, the other side---so , i guess that counts.
 
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Hi Mariana,
If you had a "do over" at a critical point in your life, what would it be and how do you think it would have impacted your life?
 
Bobw235 said:
Hi Mariana,
Sorry, I meant a point in your life where you made a critical decision, and now had a chance to change that decision.
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Ah I see---well, i have had lots of critical decisions in my time---and most of them have turned out for the best--one that I made recently , just this year, was to send a text to someone, at a time when I was feeling very angry, bitter and resentful, i said things I did not mean, and i would give anything to change that decision of actually sending that text---because in fact, it has changed my life. For the worst.
 
Good morning Marian, and you seem to be coping well with the questions.
Except when it comes to Ninjas!
I am saying nuthin' :cool:

I hope that you are as well as can be.
Now then...
What did you love about the place you grew up?
What did you love the least?
What kind of home did you have back then?
 
Gail.S said:
Sorry, I was speaking American. LOL. Ninja-like would be doing something in stealth, sneaking and doing something and not getting caught.
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Oh Wow Gail--that is uncanny--I am doing something like that right now---I made up another identity for myself on facebook, and I am getting information through that I could not get in any other way..as the person I am messaging has no idea that it is me. Not sure if im allowed to do it, but I am not hurting anyone--or lying--just using a different fb name.
 
boozercruiser said:
A good simple straightforward question there ossian.

And if I may add...
Motown or Musicals?

I find that this type of question tells a lot about a person.
For instance.
Do they have any taste? :eek:nthego:
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Well Kenny---I have to admit that is musicals for me everytime--I have 8 different cd versions of "Carousel"--one in Japanese !! plus a German version of "Evita"--lots of musicals in another language---I am a musical addict---wether you think I have taste or not--who knows !!
 

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