Cheaters Beware!

Anyone who defaces property like that should suffer the legal consequences. Those angry partners should be adult about it, if married, file for divorce. Just shacking up, then pack your bags and leave, or kick the offending partner out.
 
One of my neighbors keyed her ex-boyfriend's car, who lived in the same building. He reported her and she was issued a restraining order, keeping her out of her apartment building and her own apartment for half a year. Sometimes revenge is not sweet.
 
My X keyed my brand new SUV, an he did it alot . I had to chg jobs twice,my car was a mess. I finally just quit my job forever. Wasn't all because of him but partly.
I did take him to court to get a restraining order, that's when it all started. Could never catch him in the act ,so could never press charges. Haven't seem him in about 10 years
thank you God.
 
A lot of years ago I was in a dealership in Ft Lauderdale when an MG sports car was towed in. It seems an irate wife or GF had driven it into a canal. It was a soggy mess inside and out.
 
An acquaintance of mine (not a friend, thank goodness, just an acquaintance) got mad at her husband and destroyed his company van. She broke all the windows and lights, slashed the seats, interior and tires and hit engine parts with a hammer. He told the company that it must have been done by a competitor and THEY BELIEVED IT. The wife bragged about it to several people (including me) and the husband seemed to think it was pretty funny. I seriously considered writing an anonymous letter to his company but decided it would be best if I just stayed out of it. The last thing I wanted to do was get that coo-coo bird mad at ME. The year before, she had broken down the front door of their house with a sledge hammer because he had locked her out after an argument. This was about 30 years ago and, yes, they're still married. I think they deserve each other.
 
I can understand the hurt and anger (been there) but I don't know what is proven by going to those extremes. If the marriage cannot be saved, move on. Why complicate things even more?
 
Carla said:
I can understand the hurt and anger (been there) but I don't know what is proven by going to those extremes. If the marriage cannot be saved, move on. Why complicate things even more?
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I agree Carla. I've been blessed to be married to a good man for almost 40 years now, and we lived together before that. But I always felt that if he ever wanted to be with someone else, I'd step aside and let him go. I don't want anyone who would be happier with another person, and I acknowledge that none of us were born on this earth to please anyone else. When things click and work out with a couple, that's great, but if it doesn't I can understand letting go. I was never into hurting people or their property regardless of circumstances.
 
SeaBreeze said:
I agree Carla. I've been blessed to be married to a good man for almost 40 years now, and we lived together before that. But I always felt that if he ever wanted to be with someone else, I'd step aside and let him go. I don't want anyone who would be happier with another person, and I acknowledge that none of us were born on this earth to please anyone else. When things click and work out with a couple, that's great, but if it doesn't I can understand letting go. I was never into hurting people or their property regardless of circumstances.
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I wholeheartedly agree. No point in pouring gasoline on the flames.
 
My only complaint is that it's all directed at cheating men.

How about cheating women, of which there are very, very many?

When I got divorced I attended several 'divorce recovery' groups sponsored by churches and other non-profits (far better therapy than $125 an hour counselors, by the way). About 1/2 the men there had cheating wives/ex-wives.
 
Old Joke:

A guy sees an advertisement in the newspaper - Brand New Porsche, barely used, $200. He answers the ad, test drives the car and finds it perfect in every way. After buying it for $200 he asks the seller why she sold such an expensive car for $200. "Simple", she replies, "My husband took off with his secretary and told me I could keep the house and to just sell the Porsche and send him the money".
 
Very true, Brookswood. But as we all know men are rational, responsible creatures who do not posses the same vindictive streak that women do. Neither do they simply put it down to a primal sexual need to have another mate! :bigwink:

However, seriously - despite the fact that this was meant simply to be a humorous topic - a couple of things puzzle me about this behaviour. Firstly, do women ever consider the 'other woman' and her responsibility in all this. I would have thought that women would have been very, very hostile towards the 'other woman' simply because they may suspect that they were at least complicit in the infidelity. And, basically, through jealousy.

And, secondly. Aren't cars joint purchases in a relationship? Don't most couples share their finances and resources? So, if many of these cars are still being paid for through a joint loan or finance agreement, why would they wreck the car?
 
Sometimes the person cheating is married to a jerk. Yes, it can be good to just leave, but that can take planning. One has to get one's legal ducks lined up first. So....
 

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