Never thought retirement would be like this

... Sometimes it’s hard to separate exactly how it happened or how you think it happened.
Yeah, that's the thing. I would like to write some things down before my mind goes kaput, and I forget them completely.... or worse yet, things become exaggerated into something weird, or important sounding, that didn't really happen. I would hate to write down untrue things, so I try to double-check, like with Street View, for example.

I really think if it weren't for pictures I'd forget everything.

I keep saying I shouldn't write anything after midnight, because it often doesn't make sense in the morning. But even this doesn't make sense and it's morning. And I don't drink either.

Meanderer, my short term (more like "instant") memory is shot. Where I notice it most is the grocery store. I'll think of something I need, wasn't on the list, head down the aisle to get it, and forget what it was before I get to it. Aisles in my grocery store are not that long, either. :rolleyes: It might be understandable at Walmart. I guess that's what they used to call "scatterbrained."
 

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This is a repeat of a lot of things, but I want it all in one place.


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In 1951 my parents decided to take a summer vacation to Maine, so they built a wood frame in the back of our '49 GMC pickup, and fastened an Army surplus tarp over it to make a camper. They dropped me off to stay with my grandmother in West Virginia and went on from there. I was about 4 years old. This picture must have been taken in the fall, after we all returned to Ohio, because you can still see the edge of the "camper" on the back of the truck. (neighbor's house in back)

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My grandmother lived in a very small town, with I'd guess no more than twenty families at that time. It was on a county road running alongside a river called Sugar Creek. There was one small business---Hadley's General Store/Post Office. I don't think it even offered gasoline. The store burned down many years ago, and I've not been able to find a picture of it. There was one paved side road, called Hog Run, that crossed the river at the store, and went up the "driver's side" of a valley. My grandmother lived on this side road... well...sort of.

Hog Run - Bridge over Sugar Creek (2007)

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This part of West Virginia has a lot of hills. Large stretches of most roads were cut out of the sides of the hills, and it seemed impossible to build a house near the road on those stretches, but many did. It was only a 150 mile trip there from Ohio, but took 5 hours to drive, and the last 20 miles was the worst. It seemed like I got car sick as a kid as soon as we crossed the WV line due to winding roads. My mother said it was all in my mind, but regardless, not a good start for a family visit.

My grandmother had about an acre of land, which might be described as "vertically challenged" (U-shaped). It ran up a very steep hill to the road in the front, and up another steep hill, on the opposite side of the valley, in the back, bordering partly on an old cemetery that belonged to the Methodist church next door. The house sat at the bottom of the U. I'm not sure how long my grandmother lived in this house, I think not more than ten years. It was not the house my father and his siblings grew up in.

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Between the front of the house and the main road, was a small creek that ran back down the valley toward the store. The only way to get to the house by car was across a little bridge, then across a field that belonged to the church. The cluster of white buildings in this picture is where her old house used to be.

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The church was rather central to all stories about this place, because you couldn't go anywhere without passing it, and it is one of the few buildings that has basically never changed. One of my uncles from Ohio liked to drink beer, and when his family would visit my grandmother for a weekend, he would always bring a case of beer in the trunk of his car. Members of the church found out about this and objected to his driving across their property. I never heard how that finally turned out, but it was a big topic of discussion on a later visit.

Between the creek and the main road was a narrow driveway cut out of the side of the hill, leading to an old garage. If you drove in that way, you had to walk a narrow board across the creek to get to the house, and when you left you had to back the car out. It's a good thing folks didn't do a lot of grocery shopping back then, especially for beer.

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There were at least 3 smaller houses, all with U-shaped lots, on up the creek, and there was NO way to get to them by car, so a walking path was made alongside the creek, that went across everyone's property ending near the church. It was made of large flat stones likely pried up from the bottom of the creek in the dry season. Strangers (to me) would occasionally walk by in front of the house. I wish I had asked someone where those folks kept their cars. Maybe they didn't have any. :confused:

This little valley ran North/South, so the sun didn't appear until very late morning, and disappeared early. The dew hardly got a chance to dry off the grass, and there was rarely any air moving at the bottom of the U. In the summer it was always hot, humid, and damp. It seemed like the whole place had a smell of natural gas from old rusty outdoor gas lines.

There was no way to control the weeds and brush because of the lay of the land. All but a little area around the house, and the garden, was overgrown. They needed some goats, but that would have required a fence. Most of my time on this visit in 1951 was spent wandering around the small yard, or inside the house, by myself.

More later....
 
I'm reminded of what I do to FORGET certain things. :)
At times, while I'm watching a T V show, I think of some unpleasant chore I should get done, or I'll think that in the near future I have an appointment that is nerve wracking for me. But they soon slip my mind as I continue watching. Suddenly, I notice a feeling of very uncomfortable anxiety in my gut. Why I have it, I don't know. So I think back on possible reasons. Those thoughts come back and right away I know why, so I make up a 'legitimate'-- :) reason to not do the chore till some other day, &, as far as the nerve wracking coming appointment I tell myself, "I'll skip it,"--& the anxiety dissipates.
(Of course I still keep the appointment.) :)
 
I'm reminded of what I do to FORGET certain things. :)
At times, while I'm watching a T V show, I think of some unpleasant chore I should get done, or I'll think that in the near future I have an appointment that is nerve wracking for me. But they soon slip my mind as I continue watching. Suddenly, I notice a feeling of very uncomfortable anxiety in my gut. Why I have it, I don't know. So I think back on possible reasons. Those thoughts come back and right away I know why, so I make up a 'legitimate'-- :) reason to not do the chore till some other day, &, as far as the nerve wracking coming appointment I tell myself, "I'll skip it,"--& the anxiety dissipates.
(Of course I still keep the appointment.) :)

LOL! Elsie, it wasn't that I didn't want to visit the place. In fact I rather liked it once I got there. We used to have fun playing in the creek and under the little bridge when my cousins were there. It was that car trip I dreaded. I think it's because kids have to sit in the back seat and can't see out the front. Years later my mother confessed that she used to get car sick when she was a kid also.:rolleyes: She was just trying to use psychology on me. But I still don't care much for long winding car trips.

I know what you mean about creating legitimate excuses though. :)
 
Nancy, if your Uncle carried 23 bottles of beer, he could not be arrested...... there wouldn't be enough to make a case.
 
maggiemae: Better get the champagne and the tissues ready! Hope I can watch it online.

Average predicted score (oddshark)

Georgia: 41.5; Oklahoma: 37.2
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Georgia 17; Oklahoma 31 (half) :(

Georgia 31; Oklahoma 31 (end 3rd qtr) :)

Georgia 41.5
Oklahoma 37.2
 
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6 more minutes and it's 45 Ok, 38 GA. I hate to give up on my GA team but it looks pretty slim that they will pull it out. I have to say they were two matched up teams. Good game.

I gave up on the game and decided to vacuum the den and then looked up and it's a tie! What the heck?
 
I can't believe it! Yep, I hear a few fireworks already.

Now I'm going to have to follow the Alabama/Clemson game to see who GA plays next. I hope it's not Clemson. A loss to Clemson would be the pits. :p

It was a really good game. Almost no penalties. A little of everything. Got tired of hearing about Mayfield :rolleyes:. Switched to radio and muted the online coverage. The TV announcers want to talk about silly stuff, and what they *should* have done, after every play, like they are so much smarter than everyone else. Much better on radio.
 
Yes! Alabama is favored over Georgia by only 4 points. Personally, I think GA will get clobbered, but what do I know. Better than losing to Clemson.

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Your word is your bond, even if it's just to yourself. Need to finish what I started.

Continued (Summer of '51)...

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Just a little about that house. (I slept in the unfinished bedroom on the upper left side.)

No indoor plumbing, only an outdoor hand water pump. Indoor hand pump on the kitchen sink never worked. Natural gas instead of electricity, and no lights upstairs, or else they weren't working---you had to use flashlights or oil lamps up there after dark. Rooms had one small gas space heater and that was it for heat. I don't remember fireplaces, no chimneys in picture. I'm sure no insulation, and it sat up on stones so the cold air could blow underneath in winter. We never visited in the winter. I can't imagine living there with weather like we are having now. Nevertheless, this house was fancy compared to the two houses my father grew up in, with 4 sisters and a brother.

There was a hand crank wall phone. I suppose the operator was at the general store. Probably her name was Sarah. :playful: The great thing is I was too young to think things were inconvenient. It was just different, different rules to follow. Same later, when I got older.

All my grandmother's children had married and moved away, except the youngest. He was in the Army at the time, stationed in Hawaii during the Korean War. So it was just she and I. Sometimes my uncle's fiance would spend the night with us. A couple of contemporary photos of them.

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I believe this grandmother thought she had had enough of taking care of children in her life, but even at 4, I knew how to behave, and cause no trouble. The last day a little girl named Terry Arnett, from one of the houses on up the creek, came to visit. She was a little older, but if she had appeared earlier, things might have been more fun. I never saw her again. Other than silly little snippets only a child would care about, like meeting the horse drawn fruit and vegetable cart vendor on the street one day, there were three daily routines I remember well.

One was buckwheat pancakes for breakfast every morning, by myself, at a large table in the dining room. The dining room connected the kitchen to the main part of the house and had two screen doors onto a big back porch. You could go in one door and out the other. :) In fact the house had 7 exterior doors! How cool was that?!!!

The second was climbing the hill in back to collect eggs from the chicken house. Down hill from that was a cellar dug into the side of the hill where they kept bushel baskets of potatoes with shelves of canned goods. The picture below (repost) was taken a year earlier headed up to collect eggs.

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The third, and most important, was checking the mail.

More on that later...
 
Nancy, I have enjoyed your Diary tremendously; I admire your "can do" attitude. I'm a GA transplant, born in Berrien County north of Valdosta and spending my childhood on a tobacco farm on a dirt country road. I've lived in TX most of my adult life but all my family is scattered across Georgia from Douglasville (brother) to Bainbridge (nephew). My sister lives on a farm near Tifton.

So keep writing and I'll keep reading! Keep warm.

ETA: Oh, and my name is Sarah, but I've never been a telephone operator. :D
 
Aww thanks, C'est Moi. I'm a terrible writer. Good to have another person familiar with Georgia here.

I've been through south Georgia on the way to Florida many times to visit my parents when they lived there. Once we met at Tifton so they could transfer their dog to me for babysitting while they went on vacation to Sanibel Island. Then we made the transfer back afterward. Kinda like a relay race. Poor dog. LOL!

Thanks for stopping by. I really enjoy any comments.

Btw, "Sarah" was in reference to the Andy Griffith Show, just in case you never watched that show. :playful:

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I need to cut this short and wrap it up, ASAP. .... :(

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The mail was always the most important thing in this grandmother's life, but probably more so at that time, because of my uncle in the Army. He was the youngest, and her favorite, or so my mother said.;) There was no door to door delivery. Every day we would walk past the church, down the road, and across the bridge over Sugar Creek to the post office at the general store.

The main part of the store looked much like this picture from the web. Around a partial wall was the P.O. window and the mailboxes. (Was the phone switchboard back there too?)

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I don't remember how long this visit lasted. Probably only a week, but it seemed longer. The old house was torn down not long after. The relatives built a small house right next door for my grandmother, and my uncle built a new house where the old one was. Both these houses, and the old garage, are still there, but the property was sold decades ago.

Everyone in this town seemed old, retirement age. It wasn't because I was a child, in fact I just recently found out it was probably true. In the period before WWII started many young people moved from that region of WV to Ohio.

Appalachian Migrants
(During the depression) "...As a result of the worker shortage, a number of Ohio manufacturers began to recruit workers from Appalachia, especially from Kentucky and West Virginia. Many Appalachian migrants moved to Akron, where they found jobs in the rubber industry. ... Numerous newspaper advertisements targeted unemployed miners and poor farmers in Appalachia, offering them new opportunities if they applied for jobs. The region of Appalachia had faced long-term economic problems, and many residents took advantage of the opportunities offered due to the labor shortage to find a better life."

"One study, a 1941 survey of Lewis County, West Virginia, noted that '...the principal export product of this area appears to be children.'" [1]

My father's older sister went first, then my father, and finally the youngest sister. All three met their spouses in Ohio, stayed, and never wanted to go back. My uncle in the Army chose to stay in WV, maybe because his wife had family there.

One final post, a little later...

[1] Cited in Paul Salstrom, Appalachia's Path to Dependency: Rethinking a Region's Economic History, 1730-1940 (Lexington: University Press of Kentucky, 1994), p. 117.
 
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Took a walk to the Post Office using Google Street View in 2007. What struck me most was Sugar Creek. The new bridge is much smaller, and the river appears to have almost dried up. It may just mean the hills that folks used to try and farm have grown up in vegetation, less run off and less erosion.

One house where a young girl named Margaret Ann lived---an only child, about 10 years older than me. I always thought about her and asked about her, because I imagined how different my life would have been if I had grown up there instead.

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I understand and admire my father more now, and his older sister even more, after researching the past a bit. Both of them were always ready to face the next challenge, and they had a lot of them, especially the sister.

What really got my interest, was the oil and gas industry there. This little town was apparently once a boom town, and I found 2 very old pictures of it on the internet from around the turn of the century.

Same town
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I *suspect* that church might have been replaced with the Methodist church (built in 1939) I've been talking about, because the layout of the roads looks similar. If so, that is really cool. The only thing I might recognize is a little shed roof barn on the hill right under a dot below the grayed-out area. Wish I had a clearer picture. I love puzzles like this. :rolleyes::playful::)

This second one is a little earlier, I think, and is of an oil field named after the town. Don't know where the field was but it's cool too!

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What an adventure one little photograph can start.

THE END!!! :banana:
 

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