I was forced into early retirement due to injuries from a car wreck, so I was pretty angry at first. Work is what I did for 50 years. I guess I let it define me. My job was crucial, therefore I was crucial. It was a huge adjustment, took almost 3 years to come to terms with it, but I am very happy in my retirement. And I still feel crucial, just in a different way. A more nurturing way, now I think about it; I'm a second home for my grandkids and tend a couple of nice gardens; one a food source, the other basically ornamental but also functional. It's about perfect.