Need to have people care about me

Jane , most of us care about people who are lonely and need company, and we're very happy to be here as a group for you to chat to . Please feel free to join in any of the topics, or start one you might think others would be interested in ...you'll soon make friends..:)

Also, so that we all know which poster you're replying to, either address the poster by name in your answer or use the 'reply'' button on the strap underneath their post... :)
 

 
Since no one lives around here I just want to have someone to talk to about our shared interests.

And someone to have their perspective on ideas and feelings I may have.
 
To address a member you hit the button at the bottom right hand corner that says ‘reply with quote ‘
This way the person knows that you are communicating to them, otherwise your post gets a bit lost since it has no direction.
 
Jane, I forgot to mention something about the cat, Bella.

You said she had a crooked tail. I also had a cat with a crooked tail, but she was a calico color. They say some kittens break the tips of their tails when they are being born.

Jane, nobody from here is coming to your house to visit. We talk to each other just by typing here, like I'm doing. Maybe it's not enough, but it's something.

Do you live with your family Jane?
 
Jane said:
I replied to someone,why would it be just anywhere?
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Jane you're not helping yourself my dear... on a forum posts and messages can get very mixed up if no-one knows specifically to whom you're replying.

Please use the ''reply button under the post of the person to which you wish to reply, or at the very least use their ma,e in your answer so we all know to which post or poster you're replying.
 
Jane said:
Since no one lives around here I just want to have someone to talk to about our shared interests.

And someone to have their perspective on ideas and feelings I may have.
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All kinds of members have asked you questions to try and get to know you and you have avoided them.
Friendships are two way streets that take effort , patience and consideration from both parties and if you aren’t willing to put in the effort, then you can’t expect something to ‘magically’ happen. That’s not how relationships work.
 
Thank you for letting me know that.I wondered why there are a reply and reply with quote under a message.
Keesha said:
To address a member you hit the button at the bottom right hand corner that says ‘reply with quote ‘
This way the person knows that you are communicating to them, otherwise your post gets a bit lost since it has no direction.
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Jane?
Have you considered that part of your problem may have been due to your lack of ability to communicate? If you don’t know the technology to communicate to individual members here then it would be understandable to assume you aren’t connecting to people.


Now that you know how to quote other members posts, you may want to go back over this thread and address some members who have tried to reach out to you.


You don’t need to respond to everyone nor do you have to respond to the entire post. You can copy or quote their post and take out everything out that you don’t want to respond to, leaving only a sentence or two.


Also you don’t have to respond to one post at a time. You can multi quote certain members posts by clicking on that “+ symbol on the very far bottom right hand corner. Clicking this allows you to get as many posts on one page as you’d like.


Learning how to communicate is a major step in getting to know people and that’s how friendships blossom but it does take some effort for this to happen.


Many members here have compassionately reached out to your heartfelt request. I just want to point out the obvious in case it went unnoticed by you.
 
Ied to be left alone.[/QUOTE]I just thought you didn't have time to talk to me.Why be on my friends list,you haven't said anything for 3 weeks.

At least let me know what was happening.
 
I don't know how Bella's tail was broken. Never heard about how a kittens tail can be broken when they are being born. I know no one is coming to my house to visit.

I live with my daughter and son.
RadishRose said:
Jane, I forgot to mention something about the cat, Bella.

You said she had a crooked tail. I also had a cat with a crooked tail, but she was a calico color. They say some kittens break the tips of their tails when they are being born.

Jane, nobody from here is coming to your house to visit. We talk to each other just by typing here, like I'm doing. Maybe it's not enough, but it's something.

Do you live with your family Jane?
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I found out today that I need to use the reply with quote. So now I know:)
hollydolly said:
Jane you're not helping yourself my dear... on a forum posts and messages can get very mixed up if no-one knows specifically to whom you're replying.

Please use the ''reply button under the post of the person to which you wish to reply, or at the very least use their ma,e in your answer so we all know to which post or poster you're replying.
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Keesha said:
All kinds of members have asked you questions to try and get to know you and you have avoided them.
Friendships are two way streets that take effort , patience and consideration from both parties and if you aren’t willing to put in the effort, then you can’t expect something to ‘magically’ happen. That’s not how relationships work.
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Not intentionally. How do you know that?How did you find all those links that you posted?
 
Jane said:
Not intentionally. How do you know that?How did you find all those links that you posted?
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How do I know that?
Because of the posts I’ve read of yours

Where did I get those links?
From your profile.

I’m trying to help you by discovering what it is you are after and why you aren’t getting it.
 
Jane,

The tone of several of your posts seems indignant and somewhat snippy.

Also, I haven't seen where you've made any effort to join in discussions or have fun.

Yet you keep telling us you need someone to care about you, and you're keeping track of how long it takes people to reply to you then confronting them.

Hmmm. Not exactly conducive to making friends.
 
I never thought to check there. Thank you for all you've done so far.

Where did I get those links?
From your profile.

I’m trying to help you by discovering what it is you are after and why you aren’t getting it.[/QUOTE]
 
I'm sorry I come off that way. I just don't know about how things work here,but I am learning.
applecruncher said:
Jane,

The tone of several of your posts seems indignant and somewhat snippy.

Also, I haven't seen where you've made any effort to join in discussions or have fun.

Yet you keep telling us you need someone to care about you, and you're keeping track of how long it takes people to reply to you then confronting them.

Hmmm. Not exactly conducive to making friends.
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Jane said:
I don't know how Bella's tail was broken. Never heard about how a kittens tail can be broken when they are being born. I know no one is coming to my house to visit.

I live with my daughter and son.
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Hi Jane,

Thanks for responding.

I'm sorry I thought you were expecting people from here to visit you at home. I misunderstood. :(

Has Bella visited you over the weekend?

Hope you're feeling fine. :biggrin-new:
 

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