Need to have people care about me

Hi ,no she hasn't.
How was your weekend,good I hope.
I was feeling scared earlier,but better now.Thank you for caring.
RadishRose said:
Hi Jane,

Thanks for responding.

I'm sorry I thought you were expecting people from here to visit you at home. I misunderstood. :(

Has Bella visited you over the weekend?

Hope you're feeling fine. :biggrin-new:
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I just don't know how to talk to people anymore,I only go out to shop.

And I can't go out to socialize,no way to get there,where ever there is.

If anyone needs someone to talk too I'm here.
 
Jane we're here for you... just chat about anything here on this thread or join in any topics on the forum..

There's lots of people here who can't or don't go out for many reasons so don't feel you're alone!!
 

Jane. If you are trying to connect with people, then start responding to other threads.
At first it’s difficult and uncomfortable but after a while, it gets easier.

Most members come HERE to socialize. It’s fun. It’s entertaining AND it’s a place to meet people but you have to post to get a feeling of belonging.

We aren’t any different from you and creating a positive attitude DOES take effort but anything worth anything takes effort.

We get out of life, what we put into it.
 
Oh do try and stay postiive if you can jane. It's hard if you're on your own, and you don't have folks to socialise with to think no one cares about you..but really we're all out here, and socialising in the modern way electronically...so please try not to get too despondent..there's nothing you can't talk about on this forum if you need to..except politics (everyone gets into fights because of it)..but otherwise please feel and act as if we're your real life freinds.

Thanks for asking, I've had a very eclectic day today.. It's 1.30am here in London England but because I fell asleep this afternoon I'm wide awake now..

I've spent half the day today packing for my trip to Southern Spain to visit my daughter... and I'm looking forward very much to visiting with her and my grandfurkids..I love dogs!!

Do you have any pets?
 
Jane said:
I don't know how Bella's tail was broken. Never heard about how a kittens tail can be broken when they are being born. I know no one is coming to my house to visit.

I live with my daughter and son.
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HI Jane, do your daughter and son have any children?
Do you all get along pretty well?
Who is the cook in the family?

What else would you like to tell me or anyone?
 
Keesha said:
Jane. If you are trying to connect with people, then start responding to other threads.
At first it’s difficult and uncomfortable but after a while, it gets easier.

Most members come HERE to socialize. It’s fun. It’s entertaining AND it’s a place to meet people but you have to post to get a feeling of belonging.

We aren’t any different from you and creating a positive attitude DOES take effort but anything worth anything takes eff
We get out of life, what we put into it.
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I've done that a little bit,guess I will try to do better.

Thank you for the advice.
 
Jane said:
I've done that a little bit,guess I will try to do better.

Thank you for the advice.
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You are very welcome Jane. I SEE you trying and you ARE getting better.
Perhaps next time you can respond to this thread and maybe another.
Then the next time try for two other threads. Soon enough you will get more comfortable.

I’m so proud of you for ‘trying.’
 
Keesha said:
You are very welcome Jane. I SEE you trying and you ARE getting better.
Perhaps next time you can respond to this thread and maybe another.
Then the next time try for two other threads. Soon enough you will get more comfortable.

I’m so proud of you for ‘trying.’
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Thank you so much for saying that.

How is your night going? I'm watching baseball,the Mariners vs the Angels:)
 
hollydolly said:
Oh do try and stay postiive if you can jane. It's hard if you're on your own, and you don't have folks to socialise with to think no one cares about you..but really we're all out here, and socialising in the modern way electronically...so please try not to get too despondent..there's nothing you can't talk about on this forum if you need to..except politics (everyone gets into fights because of it)..but otherwise please feel and act as if we're your real life freinds.

Thanks for asking, I've had a very eclectic day today.. It's 1.30am here in London England but because I fell asleep this afternoon I'm wide awake now..

I've spent half the day today packing for my trip to Southern Spain to visit my daughter... and I'm looking forward very much to visiting with her and my grandfurkids..I love dogs!!

Do you have any pets?
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RadishRose said:
HI Jane, do your daughter and son have any children?
Do you all get along pretty well?
Who is the cook in the family?

What else would you like to tell me or anyone?
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Jane said:
Thank you so much for saying that.

How is your night going? I'm watching baseball,the Mariners vs the Angels:)
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You’re welcome Jane.
My night is going ok. I spent most of my day doing gardening. I used 16 litres of vinegar and deweeded our driveway. It’s a long driveway. I also dug up all the soil and whipper snipped around all the trees. Then there was inside work to do so it was a busy day and night. In between I come here and post in a few threads.

I don’t really watch baseball but lots of people here do.
By the way Jane, RaddishRose and hollydolly both asked you questions.

Hollydolly asked if you have any pets?

And RaddishRose asked if you have any grandchildren?
Do you all get along?
Who is the cook in the family?
And .... what else would you like to tell us about yourself?

I just thought I’d point them out in case you missed them.
 
Hmm never heard of using vinegar to deweed before.Like my Mom used to say you learn something new everyday:) You have been busy.Keesha;838847]You’re welcome Jane.
My night is going ok. I spent most of my day doing gardening. I used 16 litres of vinegar and deweeded our driveway. It’s a long driveway. I also dug up all the soil and whipper snipped around all the trees. Then there was inside work to do so it was a busy day and night. In between I come here and post in a few threads.

I don’t really watch baseball but lots of people here do.
By the way Jane, RaddishRose and hollydolly both asked you questions.

Hollydolly asked if you have any pets?I used to,but not anymore,but I do have a neighbors cat who comes over to visit from time to time,we named her Bella because of her broken tail,she was named after a character from the Twilight books and movies. Her owners named her Samantha.

And RaddishRose asked if you have any grandchildren?No no grandkids:(
Do you all get along?We get along very well for the most part.
Who is the cook in the family? My son,although I do cook most of my own food.
And .... what else would you like to tell us about yourself?Can't think of anything right now,will try to think of something soon:)

I just thought I’d point them out in case you missed them.[/QUOTE]Thank you Keesha,you are such a kind person.
 
I want peoples perspective on what is going on in my life,but it would take some time to explain. I don't know where to begin and explain it right.

So I guess I will just talk about more pleasant things,like how well the Mariners are doing and our nice weather.

I hope everyone is doing well tonight:)
 
Jane said:
I want peoples perspective on what is going on in my life,but it would take some time to explain. I don't know where to begin and explain it right.

So I guess I will just talk about more pleasant things,like how well the Mariners are doing and our nice weather.

I hope everyone is doing well tonight:)
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Jane, if what you ‘want’ to do is get other members perspective on some aspect of your life then why not be true to yourself and do just that.

Decide what you’d like to ask about and just type out the questions or make a paragraph about it.
You could even do this offline so it will give you time to think so you aren’t so overwhelmed.

Members here talk about everything from what they ate at dinner time to why they aren’t getting along with loved ones.
I doubt there’s anything you have to say that hasn’t been talked about before.

Please don’t ever feel the need to force a positive attitude if it’s not true for you.
Thats just being pretentious. Having a positive attitude is nice but if you are frustrated then let it out. Its called venting and most of us do it from time to time.. You’ll feel better.

Put it in General Duscussion.

If the staff needs to move it to another section they will.
 
I felt the same about you.Nothing for 3 weeks. You could have said something so I knew what was going on.How am I suppose to know the reason for your absence?
Shalimar said:
Jane, I am sorry you feel as you do. As far as I recall, you stopped pm me. If I missed answering one of your pm, and that led to you feeling I had rejected you, that is not the case. I have a busy practice, and my off time is limited, as is my energy. It can take some time for me to respond. Once you cut me from your friend list, I presumed you preferred to be left alone.
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Jane said:
I felt the same about you.Nothing for 3 weeks. You could have said something so I knew what was going on.How am I suppose to know the reason for your absence?
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Pardon me

but...

GEEEEEZZZZUS!!!!

ah, I feel better now

and, I gotta retract my retraction from another OP/thread
(same freakin' theme)


Gary O' said:
'and retract my observations
I can only deal with logic
and sometimes not even that'
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I'm sure the whining will continue
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Jane said:
I felt the same about you.Nothing for 3 weeks. You could have said something so I knew what was going on.How am I suppose to know the reason for your absence?
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C'est Moi said:
It is extremely rude of you to be calling out someone on the forum, Jane. Have the good graces to DROP IT. Shalimar provided an explanation which she certainly had no obligation to do. This is beyond the pale.
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applecruncher said:
Agree. Jane, you really need to get a grip. :rolleyes:
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I agree. Jane! What the heck are you thinking here?
THIS , my dear, is NOT OK. You seem to think people here owe you something.
Newsflash! They don’t!
When you wrote your last thread asking why you had no friends both Shalimar and myself befriended you.
YOU unfriended us !!! Apparently we weren’t doing a good enough job of being your friend.

YOU CAN NOT DEMAND FRIENDSHIP! It doesn’t work that way.
And just for the record, you aren’t doing yourself any favours here and I personally resent the fact that you are treating MY FRIEND disrespectfully. I think the best thing you can do right now is apologize.
 

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