Recent content by Nozzle36

The situation culturally was very different for women at that time. It was different for children also.

That Play was from the 1600's, I believe, where it was pretty much a given that men will be unfaithful

It isn't just about the infidelity, it's about the betrayal. If you have an "open" marriage/living arrangement and each partner knows about and gives approval to "open" behavior, no problem, but if there is an agreement between you to be faithful and one partner betrays that on the QT then there...

"Yes, he was like that, dear; you were just in denial. " Ouch, but all too true!

"No man worth having is true to his wife or can be true or ever was or will ever be so." I have to wonder what "worth" is being referred to? Money? Charm? Connections? As far as I personally, am concerned, there is no "worth" great enough to merit staying with a cheat - and a lot of health...

I had quite long hair while I was in grammar school; I lived with an older farm couple who had no children of their own. I was moved to town at the beginning of 7th grade to a different family and had my hair cut quite short.. Most of my adulthood I kept it at mid length. I have naturally wavy...

The last I heard passing a counterfeit bill is not a capital offense

I did a lot of traveling alone after my divorce - most of it by motorcycle and alone which caused quite a bit of comment about "a woman traveling alone". I eventually did all of the US and western and southern Canada - and had a ball! I eventually did Ireland, Scotland, and Spain (for horseback...

I get so tired of these supposed descriptions of what is a man; he is a human and he doesn't need prove anything to anyone. The same is true of a woman. There are wide variations in both genders and the same qualities that make a man make a woman - ethics empathy/compassion and respect for your...

"Jim said -And financially and legally, I’m much safer if I’m single. I do a lot of things on my own, I’ve travelled alone, I’m good with that " That pretty much sums up how I felt after my final divorce. I tried x 3 and never found real happiness - at least partially my fault for bad choices...

Over the years, I have tried a little bit of everything, But a few I always seem to come back to. Music: Played the violin in grammar school taught myself piano in High school and guitar in my 30's. I recently have signed up for banjo and violin lessons. Art: I was an art major in high school...

Sasha, My Golden is 10 Ratdog, my Westie is 15 Lily, my Yorkie is 10 months

we currently have 2 cats and 3 dogs. Sasha is a Golden Retriever. Ratdog is a west Highland White She will be 16 this coming October. Last December I bought a little Yorkie for Sasha to have as a friend when the Westie passed. It kinda backfired in a positive way. Lily (the Yorkie looks upon...

Understand? What exactly do YOU mean by that? No one really knows what goes on in someone else's head. Do you understand other people? You can make predictions based on previous behavior, but that's not really "understanding". You may be expecting way too much from others - way beyond human...

Part of the problem was me and the very poor choices I made. I did elect to go through some short term therapy after the divorce and as my therapist said - my picker was broke" (had a very dysfunctional childhood - spent most of it in foster homes)