Well! For those of you who think folks who use those words are pretentious, I guess I’m pretentious then!

I make a charcuterie board every time we have guests, and name it as such. It’s not just a meat and cheese board. It’s a curated

assortment of meats, cheeses, fruits, nuts, crackers and spreads. My favorite spread is fig, and if I use that I also make sure Brie is on the board because they taste amazing together!
Several of my dance dresses are bespoke. So is our couch! It’s custom made to our size and color specifications.
Seriously though, the English language is always evolving. Words that were uncommon at one point slowly found their way into everyday speech, and ultimately into reputable dictionaries. Selfie, Google, unfriend, emoji, binge-watch, to name some words that you’re probably familiar with and may well have used yourself, were all at one point NOT words at all. They were coined or re-defined to reflect our ever-evolving culture.
Dictionaries don’t “decide” which words are real, they track usage. Once a word shows up frequently, broadly, and across many reliable sources, it’s included.
Verbing nouns is another way our culture and its language has evolved. We no longer put dinner on a plate. We just plate it. We chair a meeting, friend someone on Facebook, salt/pepper our food. We didn’t always use those words this way. As both our society and our technology has evolved, so have new words or usages
Personally I love leaning these new terms. I love words, period! And my understanding of them and their usage allows me to continue to stay “relevant” (another one

) and in touch with generations other than my own. And I love that!