Capt Lightning
Well-known Member
- Location
- Historic Buchan, Scotland
No lists and no resolutions.. Hope to continue without any major health issues, do a lot of travelling and generally enjoy myself (along with Mrs. L of course).
I've just recently started politely declining offers to attend various events if I wasn't truly interested in going. Latest one was an in invite to a New Year's Eve extravaganza. I told the friend I didn't feel like going out on New Years, from the look I got you would have thought I grew an extra head. I never understood why people get so upset if you don't share their views.It was really hard for me to learn to say "no" and stick with it and not feel obligated to explain or apologize. It is still sometimes hard, depending on the situation.