A heartfelt thanks to everyone here

[bobcat]

A lot of times things aren't said that should be said, and I have put this off, mainly because I really didn't know how to express my thanks to everyone.
It is now going on 6 months since my wife passed, and in the first couple months the grief was heavy and hard to bear. After that, I felt a bit lost and the void that was left in my life was ever present.

I have friends and a wonderful family, but I can't call them up everyday just to talk. I had searched a few other sites of senior groups, but nothing seemed to fit. Then I happened upon this site, and I felt welcome from day one.

Again, I don't know how to express the appreciation I have for each of you. You will never know how much it has meant to me, and what a difference you have made in my life. Whenever, I feel the need for company and friendship, you are always here. I know, many times you are just seeing my twisted sense of humor, but the serious side of me sincerely wants to let you know that I'm deeply grateful for you and your wonderful, diverse personalities. I know I'm going to be okay now, and you deserve much of the thanks for that. You're the best of the best, and don't ever doubt that you aren't making a difference in the lives of others, because you certainly are. Thank you to all.

 

[Pink Biz]

You are a wonderful asset to this Forum and we're so glad you're here!

 

[feywon]

You are quite welcome, you've been an Interesting and fun addition, glad we could make you feel at home here.

 

[officerripley]

How nice, Bob; thanks for the nice post.

 

[Gaer]

That is so sweet.

 

[hearlady]

I'm glad you've found friends here @bobcat48 and if it has helped you through your loss, well, that is a wonderful thing.

 

[Beezer]

I know how you feel @bobcat48

When I lost my brother I found this forum...it helped me immensely through that difficult process.

 

[Paladin1950]

You mentioned your twisted sense of humor. Let me tell you my friend. A sense of humor is one of the most precious gifts you can have. A sense of humor will get you through a lot of bad times. It was humor that got me through my mother's heart attack and death in 1998, and my younger brother's heart attack and death in 2020. Never lose your sense of humor!

 

[palides2021]

Glad this forum helped you during your time of loss, @Bobcat! You also have brought your own special sunshine to brighten our days.

 

[seadoug]

Not much I can say that others haven't said, but I'm glad this forum has brought you solace and has proven to be a positive distraction. Glad you are here!

 

[Jules]

Bobcat, you have also helped many on this site. Thank you.

 

[SmoothSeas]

^^^^what they all just said...

adjectives are failing me at the moment, but I feel compelled to say, that the sense of community and camaraderie amongst all our disparate members is something I'm thankful for.

shout out to @Matrix, for giving us this quiet and peaceful place to gather.

 

[Dustbunny]

So sorry for your loss @bobcat48 . Thank you for your words. And for all the comments above and to come.
It is amazing what this forum has done for me also. A simple thumb's up, ha-ha, heart, hug and a kind word means so much to me. Thanks to all here also.

 

[Alizerine]

Not sure I have contributed much of anything, but I know you have brightened my day.

 

[bobcat]

Bobcat, you have also helped many on this site. Thank you.

Well, I guess if that's true, you all certainly deserve the help you have given me.

 

[bobcat]

Not sure I have contributed much of anything, but I know you have brightened my day.

It takes a village. We all contribute something.

 

[oldaunt]

I lost 2 of my 3 beloveds a couple years ago. I know what you mean about finding something to fill the gap it leaves.

 

[Teacher Terry]

This is a great forum and you have been a wonderful addition to it!

 

[Pinky]

@bobcat48
Consider yourself ((Hugged))

 

[PamfromTx]

 

[oldpop]

Good to hear all the way round.

 

[bobcat]

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It was like virtual reality, only better. Thanks.

 

[bobcat]

@bobcat48
Consider yourself ((Hugged))

Thank you. With material things you can run out of places to put them, but with hugs, there's always room.

 

[Devi]

Let me acknowledge what you've said, @bobcat48. I'm grateful that you've found Senior Forums a help and companionship.

I too have enjoyed and valued the companionship and friendships I find here, and will, especially, should my spouse be gone before I am.

 

[Tish]

@bobcat48 You are a true asset to this online family.