A Home Handyman's Tales of Victory and Defeat

Pecos

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Some of you will identify with me, some will sympathize, and some will just laugh.

Today I repaired a leaky faucet on a bathroom sink faucet. Two weeks ago I located the parts that I would need and I watched a U-tube video that made that task look very simple. Now when a U-tube tells that a task is going to take about 20 minutes, you should never, ever believe them. I took me 2 1/2 hours today, and the bulk of that time was spent trying to get a tiny gasket and its associated spring into a hole that clearly did not want either one of them. And here I have this guy on U-tube telling me that if it is difficult to get them in correctly, "just keep poking." I wanted to strangle him.

Over the 26 years we have lived here I have completed with many repair jobs and was usually successful. But I did suffer a number of humbling defeats. I have tangled with:

Top Loading washing machines which were fairly easy except for getting cut by sharp metal corners once I was inside.
Front loading washing machine which was a total defeat. The door locked with a full load of water and was so heavy that I could not budge it.

Refrigerator, simple task and I won, but only after buying a special tool that I had never seen before.
Dish washer, successful once, but I flamed out when I could not find a leak the second time it wanted attention.

Stove, simple task once I found the parts.

Kitchen sink plumbing. I won, but I spent hours under the sink and got a whale of a kink in the neck.. When I was finally wedged in there among the pipes, power cords, and hoses doing my thing, our puppy found me and squeezed in beside me. I could not defend myself against such a vigorous love up job and was pretty thoroughly licked up before I could get untangled.

Shower faucet plumbing. I had to call in a pro. Why do they have to braze those pipes together?
Ceiling fans. I won, but got kinks in the neck both times. They are not as easy as they look.

Bathroom sink faucet. I won, but it was not an easy task.
Water heater. I won, but it was not an easy victory and I got water everywhere which did not make my wife happy.

Sprinkler system, I generally win, but I have zero luck finding any buried control wires running around on the property.
Water leaks under the house. I have fixed them but hate crawling down there on my belly among the spiders and the snakes.

Air Conditioning duct leaks under the house. I hate going down there, but this was a big money saver for me. The pros wanted $2200, I crawled down there and did it myself for about $300. Of course, I was down there for three hours breathing that crappy air and staying vigilant against the critters.

Gas mowers, I failed. Battery powered mowers, not much better.
Window air conditioners, it is best to just throw them away.

Cars, there is no way that I am tangling with turbo charged, fuel injected engines.

Vespa High end scooter. I won, but it took five weeks and I had to order additional parts four times. I did save a bunch of money doing this overhaul myself. The manual was pathetic and the various U-tube videos always made things look way simpler that they actually turned out to be. Vespa uses regular screws, Phillips screws, brindle screws, and hex screws which only proves that Italians have a twisted sense of humor.

Still, I have saved thousands of dollars and my ego is still intact though a bit battered.

Pecos
 

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I bought a ceiling light fixture for the kitchen which will be my newest DIY job so we'll see how it goes. I got my gas weed wacker to finally run properly but it took several years of trying. I'm not a fan of DIY plumbing projects. Failure can be catastrophic with possible flooding. The names of some parts are unknown to me, and "watchamacallit" doesn't work.
 

I fix what I can around here but usually call the managers to do things I can't do.

I did put in some good strainers in the drains so they don't clog as often, does that count? :LOL: 🐹

I believe that fits into the preventive maintenance category and so it does count. You will save someone a lot of grief somewhere down the road.
 
I've been fixing things all my life....household items, plumbing, electrical, vehicles, mowers, etc., etc. It sometimes takes some researching, ahead of time, but I can usually get it done. The few times I've taken a vehicle in for service, or had a service "tech" come by to fix something, the results have usually been 50/50. About the best results I've had with a contractor was a couple of years ago when we had our roof redone. Luckily, we live in an area with several Mennonite businesses, and those people are Very Honest, and hard working....they did a great job.
 
Still doing the DIY the other day the dishwasher started acting up. Troubleshooting brought me to pulling it out, disconnecting the water & electrical. <--- Pulling it out was the tough part. Testing the thermistor and finding it defective meant buying this.
Samsung dishwasher Thermistor Success!!
 
Still doing the DIY the other day the dishwasher started acting up. Troubleshooting brought me to pulling it out, disconnecting the water & electrical. <--- Pulling it out was the tough part. Testing the thermistor and finding it defective meant buying this.
Samsung dishwasher Thermistor Success!!
Good Man! I would guess that you saved yourself a couple of hundred dollars, or more.
 
Good Man! I would guess that you saved yourself a couple of hundred dollars, or more.
Parts = $52.00 New washer = $650.00 for delivery, installation & removal of the one that only needed repaired.
It ain't easy for me @80 to crawl around on the floor to undo the connections but a lifetime of DIY doesn't go away easily.
 
Parts = $52.00 New washer = $650.00 for delivery, installation & removal of the one that only needed repaired.
It ain't easy for me @80 to crawl around on the floor to undo the connections but a lifetime of DIY doesn't go away easily.
I know that feeling about how difficult it becomes to crawl around on the floor and get into tight places. I will turn 79 in a few months and it gets difficult. But wasting money on repairs that I can do myself just bothers me.
 
I know that feeling about how difficult it becomes to crawl around on the floor and get into tight places. I will turn 79 in a few months and it gets difficult. But wasting money on repairs that I can do myself just bothers me.
If I knew how to make substantial repairs and save money I'd go for it, too. I'm 63 and getting on the floor is a pain, literally..getting up is another fun part of it :oops:
 
Nowadays I just get a new faucet and have my son install it. Plumbing is miserable because the parts are welded together from years of being soaked in water. Also new parts don't fit well because everything is worn from being soaked in water for years and from abuse when trying to take the welded stuff apart. Blah. I feel your pain.
 
I just had to have a new hot water heater installed (by pros). It was expensive, took forever, and was still a pain in the butt. My big ol' dog took issue with having a bunch of strange men in the house, so that was an added layer of aggravation.

The plumbing in this house is old and funky, so that doesn't make things any easier.
 
Renting this place saves me calling a repair service--the landlords get all repairs taken care of without complaint. Before they bought this place from my ex-landlord, yikes! my youngest daughter would go after 'fixing' whatever stopped working as though she knew just how to fix it. She often somehow succeeded, but I finally stopped telling her about anything that needed fixing because I was afraid one day she'd end up electrocuted or break her neck.........
 
I've done a fair amount around the house and elsewhere. Generally it's easy stuff such as installing or fixing a faucet or garbage disposal but I've done other things we well. My wife and I ran electrical through conduit from one of her studio buildings to our shade structure last year. I also got under the house and ran both coax cable for cable TV and cat-6 cable for internet access as well. I've done that a few times in previous years to get both coax and cat-6 (then cat-5) cable to other rooms in the house. I've also built fence gates and built or extended fences in various places. I also put in the deck on our house along with my wife's ex step father.

Years ago my parent's purchased a mountain house that had partially burned (the top floor was almost completely gutted) and I helped my dad tear it down and re-build it which was a lot of fun. He always did the electrical and the plumbing but I did help with it.

My wife has opened two art glass centers and I helped her do various things around those to get them ready for the public.
 
The most recent thing I had to fix was the transmission on my Toro Personal Pace lawnmower. The rear wheel drive was acting up when I did my first mowing this Spring. The gears and bearings cost about $25, and I also put a new drive belt on...an extra $15. It was a bit of a PITA task, but for $40 I now have a mower working fine now....far better than spending $400 for a new one. I noticed a squeaky belt pulley on my Husqvarna riding mower, so the parts for that are on the way....due here tomorrow...gives me something to do during this rainy upcoming week.
 
How is it that men know how to repair things, build things without first being taught? :)
LOL, We have to learn from someone else, do some research, or go the ā€œtrial and errorā€ route which often teaches us that we should have tried the other routes first.
I worked with a number of military electronics technicians who happened to be women and they were the equal of their male counterparts. One advantage they did have was greater patience, and a better appreciation for the probably results if they got careless.
 
The thing with DIY is knowing when you're in over your head. And the problem with that is you don't know until it's way too late. I've come to a point in my life that screwing around with a 30 year old washer ain't worth it. Yeah, if it's something minor and takes ;less than 5 minutes-OK. I've been down the DIY road before. I bought that special $180 wrench to save the cost of a repairguy. Used for 8 seconds, once. In DYI, you have to pick your own battles.
 
Some of you will identify with me, some will sympathize, and some will just laugh.

Today I repaired a leaky faucet on a bathroom sink faucet. Two weeks ago I located the parts that I would need and I watched a U-tube video that made that task look very simple. Now when a U-tube tells that a task is going to take about 20 minutes, you should never, ever believe them. I took me 2 1/2 hours today, and the bulk of that time was spent trying to get a tiny gasket and its associated spring into a hole that clearly did not want either one of them. And here I have this guy on U-tube telling me that if it is difficult to get them in correctly, "just keep poking." I wanted to strangle him.

Over the 26 years we have lived here I have completed with many repair jobs and was usually successful. But I did suffer a number of humbling defeats. I have tangled with:

Top Loading washing machines which were fairly easy except for getting cut by sharp metal corners once I was inside.
Front loading washing machine which was a total defeat. The door locked with a full load of water and was so heavy that I could not budge it.

Refrigerator, simple task and I won, but only after buying a special tool that I had never seen before.
Dish washer, successful once, but I flamed out when I could not find a leak the second time it wanted attention.

Stove, simple task once I found the parts.

Kitchen sink plumbing. I won, but I spent hours under the sink and got a whale of a kink in the neck.. When I was finally wedged in there among the pipes, power cords, and hoses doing my thing, our puppy found me and squeezed in beside me. I could not defend myself against such a vigorous love up job and was pretty thoroughly licked up before I could get untangled.

Shower faucet plumbing. I had to call in a pro. Why do they have to braze those pipes together?
Ceiling fans. I won, but got kinks in the neck both times. They are not as easy as they look.

Bathroom sink faucet. I won, but it was not an easy task.
Water heater. I won, but it was not an easy victory and I got water everywhere which did not make my wife happy.

Sprinkler system, I generally win, but I have zero luck finding any buried control wires running around on the property.
Water leaks under the house. I have fixed them but hate crawling down there on my belly among the spiders and the snakes.

Air Conditioning duct leaks under the house. I hate going down there, but this was a big money saver for me. The pros wanted $2200, I crawled down there and did it myself for about $300. Of course, I was down there for three hours breathing that crappy air and staying vigilant against the critters.

Gas mowers, I failed. Battery powered mowers, not much better.
Window air conditioners, it is best to just throw them away.

Cars, there is no way that I am tangling with turbo charged, fuel injected engines.

Vespa High end scooter. I won, but it took five weeks and I had to order additional parts four times. I did save a bunch of money doing this overhaul myself. The manual was pathetic and the various U-tube videos always made things look way simpler that they actually turned out to be. Vespa uses regular screws, Phillips screws, brindle screws, and hex screws which only proves that Italians have a twisted sense of humor.

Still, I have saved thousands of dollars and my ego is still intact though a bit battered.

Pecos
That's a pretty good record, Pecos. Mine is about the same but one of my projects redeems all the failed ones (imo). My sons and I converted an old gardener's shed into a 2 bedroom bunkhouse for them; installed flooring and new roofing, finished the walls, and rewired it for lights and their TVs and stereos. Turned out really nice, and it was necessary because the main house had only 2 bedrooms. My 8yr old daughter was already in one, and I got the other (I'd been sleeping in the living room).
 
Installed a new Package Heating/AC unit ( 2 1/2 ton job ) just before winter set in last year.
On my inspection of our old unit, saw some signs of age on the Heat Exchanger.
It's the one place you don't take chances on, so after talking to my old supply house, opted for a new unit.

Quoted me a nice price, called a friend with a trailer and truck, loaded it up
and with his help and my youngest son, we pulled the old one and set the new one on the pad. ( about 350 lbs. )
One of the easiest hook-ups I done in years, got lucky, everything fit nicely.
Recovered the old unit's Refrigerant to a tank and took back to the supply house.
Keeping my old HVAC tools and equipment paid off, saved a bunch on installation.

This job was a reminder why I retired. Sure felt my age that day...:)
 
Installed a new Package Heating/AC unit ( 2 1/2 ton job ) just before winter set in last year.
On my inspection of our old unit, saw some signs of age on the Heat Exchanger.
It's the one place you don't take chances on, so after talking to my old supply house, opted for a new unit.

Quoted me a nice price, called a friend with a trailer and truck, loaded it up
and with his help and my youngest son, we pulled the old one and set the new one on the pad. ( about 350 lbs. )
One of the easiest hook-ups I done in years, got lucky, everything fit nicely.
Recovered the old unit's Refrigerant to a tank and took back to the supply house.
Keeping my old HVAC tools and equipment paid off, saved a bunch on installation.

This job was a reminder why I retired. Sure felt my age that day...:)
I am impressed, I don’t know if I would have undertaken a task like that.
 
For me I had to "help" my father on various projects when I was growing up. In addition I sometimes used to watch him build or fix things and learned from what he did. Sometimes I learned from his successes and sometimes I learned from his failures.
I think that I always learned the most from the failures.
 
I am impressed, I don’t know if I would have undertaken a task like that.
It is definitely not a job for most homeowner to try.
I've had my HVAC license starting in 1995.
I worked mostly commercial equipment, but did some smaller, home HVAC when needed.
Miss it sometimes, but mostly that goes away pretty quick.
 


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