Addiction sucks.

Ronni

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I love my son-in-law, William, like one of my own. William’s brother, his little brother, Chris, overdosed sometime Friday night/early hours Saturday morning. Chris was found dead on Saturday.

Chris had struggled with his addiction for years. In and out of many rehabs. In and out of recovery. He’d just come from a several week rehab two or three weeks earlier. Seemed to be doing fine. Now this. The family is gutted.

Addiction just effing sucks. 😢
 

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I love my son-in-law, William, like one of my own. His brother, his little brother, Chris, overdosed sometime Friday night/early hours Saturday morning.

Chris had struggled with his addiction for years. In and out of many rehabs. In and out of recovery. He’d just come from a several week rehab two or three weeks earlier. Seemed to be doing fine. Now this. The family is gutted.

Addiction just effing sucks. 😢
My deepest sympathy. Hugs.
 
I love my son-in-law, William, like one of my own. His brother, his little brother, Chris, overdosed sometime Friday night/early hours Saturday morning.

Chris had struggled with his addiction for years. In and out of many rehabs. In and out of recovery. He’d just come from a several week rehab two or three weeks earlier. Seemed to be doing fine. Now this. The family is gutted.

Addiction just effing sucks. 😢
Ronni.....He OD'd, but did he survive? Did he carry Narcan with him?
 
So sorry. Addiction is rampant these days.
It should be a top priority in these country over some of the other BS taking precedent.
 
Sooooo sorry. I am sure it was living hell to imagine this outcome…let alone live it. We lose about 900000 a year to overdose in this country. Many many sympathies to you and your family.
 
Ronni.....He OD'd, but did he survive? Did he carry Narcan with him?
I started carrying Narcan just before my retirement. In my first year, I was credited with saving 14 lives using Narcan. The U.S. is seeing in excess of 100,000 OD deaths per year. Fentanyl is the one drug every police department is attempting to find the source for. We know a good bit about its network, but trying to locate the sources with undeniable proof has become a challenge.

As for addressing more rehabs, we have tried several times in Pennsylvania to getGovernment to either build more rehabs or have hospitals commit ‘x’ number of beds for rehabbing and hiring Addictionologists, but it has fallen on deaf ears. Instead, they set up hotlines to have addicts referred to doctors to help those people addicted to drugs. This plan is going nowhere, even though it has aided a few, but for the majority, it can’t be considered a success.

Police have finally accepted the fact that narcotic addiction is a disease and not a weakness brought on by voluntary use. When our young people (and in some cases older folks) have a few drinks, they become easy to convince trying a pill or two, or three. It doesn’t take many pills or injections to turn that person into an addict.

I had severe pain in my lower back for over two months and finally went to an Orthopedic doctor. He told me it was just a severe strain and maybe some inflammation. He prescribed Hydrocodone 4 times per day. Well, after I took the first one, I knew there was no way I could do my job taking this drug. This was in 2008. I contacted another doctor and he told me to immediately stop taking these pills and instead use Advil, which I did. A few years later, we learned that using opiates, even short term, can cause an addiction.

Ronni, I hope your relative survived, if he didn’t, you may want to consider being an advocate against using drugs, even when coaxed to do so by a friend. A person trying to get another person on drugs is no friend. Those are the type of friends you need to separate yourself from. “Just one time” is too many. I became an advocate and work with youth groups to try to teach them the pitfalls of taking drugs. A few of my former young people (all races) have contacted me over the past few years to thank me for saving their life because had they not known what we were teaching, they may have “just tried” a few pills. Just be prepared. You may get a few very early morning phone calls.
 
Chris didn’t survive. I edited my original post. He was found dead Saturday morning.

My son is an addict, battled his addiction for many years, in and out of rehabs, countless recoveries, finally found his way and has been working a strong recovery now for over 10 years. I’m sadly very familiar with addiction. Attended countless Naranon meetings.

But as a result of being up close and personal with addiction, and because an addict will always be an addict, I am always armed with Narcan…… you just never know.
 
My condolences on your family's devastating loss, @Ronni.

Drugs and addiction are a serious problem in our country and throughout the world.

Something about our nervous systems makes getting high very appealing. And it's not just humans - many other mammals and even some insects not only apparently enjoy getting high, they seek it out. Scientific studies have shown how easily rats and mice are addicted to drugs some people seek.

My one year old grandson often shakes his head for short periods of time, smiling or laughing while doing so, but he never repeatedly nods up and down. Copying his movements, it quickly became clear the back and forth movement makes him a little dizzy - kind of weirdly high much like when kids spin around until they feel dizzy and lose theri balance. Early highs.

I wish there was a good solution to this horrible problem.
 
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I'm truly sorry to hear of your loss.

My son used cocaine at a fairly young age - he insisted he wasn't addicted, right up until the day he woke up in the ICU. He went to rehab, and it was an incredible struggle after that. But I'm thankful and proud to say that he's been clean since the day he brought his baby daughter home from the hospital, 8 years ago.

Addiction is a terrifying thing.
 
Sorry there are so many humans not able to control addictive tendencies. Two of my five brothers have damaged their livers so much from beer that they likely won't live much longer while reaching senior life. Just like one grandmother. Another brother that died from a brain stroke had abused himself with a range of pain killers and cigarettes. Another 3 have nicotine addictions. No one could talk sense into any of them. As a 70s counter culture person, have also known many others with various drug issues. Many without drug addictions have other creature over excesses like excessive unhealthy food or secks. Controlling the latter was something I regret as a twentysomething. In all cases the brain executive control or pilot of a person is making those decisions to do so. Am not one that accepts the narrative that the person is not at fault because of something beyond their control nor has sympthy for.
 
Addictions are so sad. Easy to get on; almost impossible to get off. The 1st hit is free and then you pay and pay and in the end you pay with your life. Tough world really! Sorry for the family.
 


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