After death communications (ADC)

[ChiroDoc]

I'm taking the liberty of copying Feywon's post from the Entertainment section so as not to derail that thread about movies:

"Dragonfly is an all time favorite of mine, very well done representation of ADC (after death communications). They often seem like the recipient's imagination or wishful thinking but tend to intensify if the message is important/helpful to the living." ...

Reportedly ADCs are relatively common. I haven't personally had one, but statistically they most often occur not too long after someone's passing-- almost as if to comfort the survivor (s).

Here is an interesting discussion of the subject by Rupert Sheldrake. This is part one. There is a part two.

 

[Buckeye]

I know 2 folks who claim to have experienced ADC. The first is my son's first wife. He passed away about 3 years ago, age 59, and a few months later I got a call from his first wife, saying that my son had been telling her to tell me and the rest of the family that "I'm okay". The former DIL believes that she was contacted because he knew that she would be receptive to the message. They had been divorced over 30 years, but had remained on friendly terms

The second is my lady friend, who was at a funeral for one of the leaders in the little church she attended. While sitting in the pews, she "heard" the deceased tell her, once again, "tell them I'm okay". She asked her then husband if he could hear it, and of course he could not. After the service was over, she went up to the deceased's brother and sister in law and told them what she had heard. They took it at face value. This was about 40 years ago

Believe or disbelieve. but both of the ladies are 100% convinced that they heard the voices of the deceased

 

[dobielvr]

I'm taking the liberty of copying Feywon's post from the Entertainment section so as not to derail that thread about movies:

"Dragonfly is an all time favorite of mine, very well done representation of ADC (after death communications). They often seem like the recipient's imagination or wishful thinking but tend to intensify if the message is important/helpful to the living." ...

Reportedly ADCs are relatively common. I haven't personally had one, but statistically they most often occur not too long after someone's passing-- almost as if to comfort the survivor (s).

Here is an interesting discussion of the subject by Rupert Sheldrake. This is part one. There is a part two.

Video says you have to join the channel and become a member in order to view....

 

[Pepper]

Have had numerous ADCs. I am not what one would call a believer. God has no part in this phenomenon. Not necessary.

 

[MACKTEXAS]

@ChiroDoc I get a black screen when trying to play video.

 

[IrishEyes]

I do think you have to allow yourself to be receptive. Messages/feelings come in different ways also.

 

[ChiroDoc]

Video says you have to join the channel and become a member in order to view....

Sorry about that. It's in two parts. I'm not a member but was able to watch the 2nd part. Here it is:

 

[rbtvgo]

please explain why it makes any difference as to what you can expect. You certainly don't know and anyone still alive doesn't know either, so what are you talking about?
Since you can't explain what to expect then why are you trying to explain what you have no answers for?????
Your whole conversation and video leave me perplexed.

 

[feywon]

I do think you have to allow yourself to be receptive. Messages/feelings come in different ways also.

Yes, being receptive and understanding the communications can come in different forms: music or objects that had significance to the individual or in your relationship with them turning up synchronistically such as on the deceased loved one's birthday or a holiday they most enjoyed.

 

[feywon]

I have had ADCs with at least 3 souls i had a bond with when they were in this material world. They each reached out differently at different spans of time after their deaths but which made sense in the context of our relationships.

While some come soon after death that is usually if they want to convey important info. People have reported being advised where certain papers were or objects that had more value than suspected by heirs via ADCs. Other times years may pass here. We have to understand time is very much a function of the material world, that it isn't the same for the deceased.

Also they are often so engaged in their new ethereal experience they don't realize how time is passing for us--unless they have something they died needing to convey to those left behind. Their initial experiences may be shaped/informed by their beliefs concerning the 'afterlife' and also their feelings as they realize that reality does not have the same constraints as this one. The book "The Afterlife of Billy Fingers" relates this well. As does "What Dreams May Come".

The ADCs with my murdered estranged first husband (who only revealed himself because of his love for our twin boys) took place over the first year after his death and provided both closure and personal growth for us both. The ones with each of my parents have been sparser, with Dad's, as in life conveying, more. I've talked about these on other threads. Don't want to bore or upset anyone, tho one does not have to follow this thread if they have strong negative feelings about the subject.

@Chiro Doc will try to watch the 2nd video yo posted on my TV later and comment on it later. Material world routines calling.

 

[HazyDavey]

I believe I had one, it helped me heal with the loss.