St. James Plantation, very near Southport NC, is a gated beachfront community that has everything you would want including a top-of-the-line marinas, restaurants, indoor & outdoor pools, golf (81 holes), tennis, fitness, many planned activities, beach-clubs, several excellent restaurants (super food reviews), and beautiful affordable homes. Wilmington is nearby (20-30 min) with a riverwalk, restaurants, and gift shops. You can drive up the coast and take a ferry to the Outer Banks like Okracoke Island. Southport is next to St. James Plantation where many movies have been shot because it's quaint and unspoiled.
Check out "reviews" because there are a few complaints about rules like the speed limit is 20mph but the upside to that is you can ride your bike all over without getting hit...if you do, it won't hurt much lol. Also, there is a one time $30,000 fee to join in order to use marinas, golf courses, clubs (including eating at the clubs but the Tommy Thompson Restaurant is for everyone and an excellent restaurant located on the marina), etc.
But wait. Good news: some homes for sale include the fee because they can transfer it to the buyer if they want to, I think. I wouldn't recommend renting a condo there. I read a complaint about it. Another person gave a rave review...so who knows.
Weather is mild but there is hurricane season to consider. Here's a little secret that many homeowners don't check out or know about before buying and then I guess some don't care....but it was a game-changer for me...there is a nuclear plant 4 miles away.